Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, how important is her orgasm to you?
Anonymous
There seems to be a trend among women (I have also had this same experience) where the men that they are with (lovers, husbands, hookups, etc - I've heard it all) won't help them acheive orgasm, don't know how to make them orgasm, or simply don't care if they orgasm. I've had first hand experience with guys not caring if I have an orgasm and their excuses tend to be: it takes too long, they don't know how, it's normal for me not to (which isn't true), they lose interest, there's something from with me, etc. A lot of women I know as a result feel men are selfish and find sex less appealing because of it, but that can't apply to all men obviously. So, guys, how important is it to you for your girl to orgasm during sex? Even if it's a hookup, a girlfriend, your wife, etc?
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What Guys Said
(24)Very. It's stereotypes like that that make me hate things. Hell, I'm self obligated to put in time and a half just to try and break the bell curve.
I feel you, but if it makes you feel better, I don't agree 100% with that stereotype. It's the person they're with, not the fact that it's a man necessarily.
If she's just someone I hook up with its not that important but if i care about her the I wanna make sure she gets hers before I do