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How Important Is Oral Sex To You? Is It A Deal Breaker If Your Potential Partner/Partner Is Against Or Refuses Oral Sex /Giving or Receiving?
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Oral sex is a must for me!
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No oral sex is ok with me!
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 61Well, it's not a MUST, but I want it. (I want to GIVE even more)
Oral Sex, to me, is a great foreplay tool, or just a wonderful Action of Love! I hope someday to randomly go down on my Wife whenever She feels the Desire!
Maybe have that discussion before marriage
Agreed.
That's good, 👍
Its not important at all to me but if the girl wants to do it ill be in heaven😍😍😍😘💗💗💗
And giving her?
@roland77 it will be an honor and a privilege if she's clean of course
Of course she needs to wash her vulva (and maybe shave it) before I would lick it. It would otherwise taste very gross (fine if washed).
@roland77 true
I can live with her not being very good at it but refusal is a deal breaker.
Yeah hard if one person into things and not others, but sometimes compromises can be made
You can learn it on youtube, e. g. "Sex With Charlie", he is getting straight to the point.
I can take it or leave it how ever if my wife said I could never go down on her again we would have to divorce
still a virgin, but I've always thought of oral sex as affectionate, like it's a precursor to the next big thing, you make the other feel good before you feel good together. I look forward to oral sex just as much as vaginal sex.
Well hopefully you find someone who likes both someday
It's hard to say since I'm still a virgin and all, but I could probably live with or without it, just as long as me and that future special lady are having good passionate sex.
That's good
If she dose not like her pussey being lick then she better be willing to give oral sex to me.
God Bless
Its not a deal breaker. Definitely disappointing. I love to give!
I just love giving oral sex. wish I had a lady friend that would just love to receive it. kinda like a f buddy (not that I've had one).
Yeah that f buddy thing rarely works out. And to me that's not safe, peak sex with a f buddy. You can get STDs just from oral sex our kissing
oral sex can cause cancer, there are scientific studies on it, look it up.
I love to give oral. I actually luv to eat a girl for like a minimum 20 minutes... I luv gettin too but if she not comfortable I'm cool with it. But she has to be ready to get a "lick job" from me, else we ain't doin further shit...
No, people have phobias, dislikes. As long as they don’t demand oral and then refuse to reciprocate. At least clean the kitchen I say to her.
Those phobias need to be healed by sexual therapists. I'm not even afraid of giving some #Anilingus to her.
I love giving, but can do without as I know my cock will soon be in a wetter place
I have to be able to give or I’m just not fulfilled
That's where communication can come in
Couldn’t agree more
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I love it too much to live without it for the rest of my life
Understandable
Total dealbreaker, 69 is the greatest number!
Right? I agree
I don't need it all the time but it would be weird if she was to say she would never do it
For me it's very important without oral I can't feel I'm done and it's Also based on my partner's mood
It ain't a deal breaker tbh
Generally in our circle I can say no person will disclose these matters with their friends..
Don't know why?
Even partner also shy to start first
Because it is very personal and makes you leave vulnerable. Many women confess it to their sexual therapists (also females) or psychologists (females again).
If we discuss with friends either they will laugh or they also start to imagine how it feels bad
Blowjobs never felt bad for me, also licking a pussy. It feels awesome.
Deal breaker