How long does a guy normally last during a handjob?

[Anonymous]

my guy lasts max 5 minutes, but that seems like a really short amount of time to me

[Margillard]

Here is a sad fact: Statistically speaking, a 2005 study found that sex lasts 5.4 minutes on average, although that data does not take into account foreplay, female orgasm, or non-heterosexual pairings. For historical perspective, Alfred Kinsey's 1948 research found that 75 percent of American men ejaculated within the first two minutes of sex. Progress.
Here is another sad fact for you girls 90% of white dick is 5.5" measured from the fat pad. Obesity is on the rise. If both partners have 2" of fat pad, that would leave only 1.5" of actual penetration.
No wonder the divorce rate is 90% and 70% is intiated by women.

[Anonymous]

A handjob is a lot of direct stimulation and it is someone else doing it, so he can't control the "tempo". Unless he is telling you when to back off or lighten up, he doesn't have any control of the amount of stimulation. Five minutes actually seems fine. If he is telling you to back off so as not to cum, I'd imagine he'd last much longer. I've been very horny and cum in a minute from blow jobs before. I've never had a girlfriend complain. Easier for them I'd imagine... LOL

[wingattebaby16]

depends on when he last ejacked

if it is a day or more, most guys less than 5 mins.. more like 2 to 3 mins

if he has, then 10 mins easy

[helva]

Between 30 seconds (ieeuw) and 10 minutes as I've experienced.

[Pinay_ako]

If he's built up and horny af, he won't last 2 minutes lol

[Kauntrel]

Yes U right because i am a boy & when am horny I can’t even last 2 minutes

[chaxle]

Sounds like you do a good job. Since you're in control, you can make it last as long as you want. Just slow down, loosen your grip, or play with the tip if he's into it. Sometimes less is more.

[normalice]

depends on her technique. But 5 minutes isn't very long even for a pro.

[jtink]

You must be really good at doing the motions he likes, I wouldn't be worried, you're just a professional!

[pinkzoesbb]

I think that sounds about right.

[abhi440]

It's OK... May be u must be more sexy then he last les

[Browneye57]

Depends on whether you're any good at it and how bad he needs to unload. :)

[rachelle_175]

My husband lasts about the sane amount of time also 5 minutes

[Gramer]

You put effort into it though? :D

[rachelle_175]

I do put a lot of effort into it

[Gramer]

@rachelle_175 That's good :D What about with oral? :D

[rachelle_175]

Oh I don't know... Not long until we get interrupted

[Gramer]

What you mean interrupted?

[rachelle_175]

@Gramer I have kids who will come and knock on the for and ask for stuff

[Gramer]

@rachelle_175 Okay that could be a little problem sometimes unless you do it really late at night but you have to stay quiet?

[rachelle_175]

I have a 5 year old so sometimes he comes in when he has a night mare

[naraku]

Too many variables like a lubed hand or dry. In short for me about 15-20mins on average I'd say.

[neoagent1]

i rarely have been able to cum from hand jobs except for like 3 women that can get me to cum that way. When they do i am just guessing i last 10 minutes.

[Maxemeister]

5 minutes sounds fine. Start worrying if it's like a minute

[bondobilly]

If she can get me off with her hand, I would be suprised

[text3612379292]

About 20 minutes or more

[nudeNhorny]

Me 3-5 mins

[roosrers]

Depends what he is fantasing about

[rez880]

Depends. slow to fast usually 5-15 minutes

[vikash1993]

It's totally depends on his stamina. He can do it in few minutes and may he takes more than 30 minutes.

[oliva-jimmi]

Depend on person to person, some can hold for 15 minutes

[jt1924]

Depends on the guy, the hand, and the want to

[pusyok]

differs

[Anonymous]

A handjob with no lubrication on her hand, maybe 3 to 5 min. With lube, somewhat faster. Oral, even faster. And intercourse, the fastest

[Anonymous]

That's pretty good (5 mins) if it's direct and constant without stopping (I think?). We don't last like you women do! lol. It's one of the things that sucks a lot about being a guy. But, for me personally it depends. Like when we first start, I could ejaculated very quickly if I/we let it happen. But I find if we've been at it a while, done different things (hj, bj, intercourse) I'll find it takes longer. Example, if my girl just started giving me a hj first and didn't stop, it wouldn't take long at all for me to ejaculate. But she'll do that, them maybe a bj for a bit, I'll work on her some, some intercourse, then she often finishes me off with a hj/bj, alternating usually. It takes a lot more then for it to happen for me. Not sure exactly why but I have theory's lol. Sorry for all the detail but was needed for explaining lol. Plus, every guy is different for what he likes, example, slow and gentle or fast and hard, this all makes a difference as well.

[Opinion Owner]

But what you can do, is while you're doing it, have him tell you when he's close and you can stop for a few seconds/minutes for his excitement to die down a bit, then start again. This is the "start and stop" technique and teaches him to "control" his orgasm better. One of the suggestions they give for PE, which I don't think he has, but the method will still work.

[Opinion Owner]

Or get the first one "over with", have him work on you while he recoups, and when he's hard again, do it again. He'll last a lot longer the second time.

[Anonymous]

About 20 mins. My guy usually last long during sex, bj and hj lol

[Anonymous]

Well i masturbated way too much, so i probably have a resistance or something but i usually last 10-20 minutes during a handjob

[Anonymous]

It depends on a lot of things like how fast you are stroking it, if you are doing other things like kissing or he's touching you or talking dirty. I can cum in 5 min. Or make it last an hour.

[Anonymous]

I lasted 15 minutes before a good size cum