How long does it take most guys to cum from a bj?

Is it true that most guys have a hard time cumming from just a blow job? These two guys told me they have never cum from oral sex. When I told them most guys cum pretty fast when I do it they didn’t believe me. But they both came in less than a minute when I did it. They said I give really great head. I just thought I was ok, but maybe? How long do most guys take?
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  • Not only are there enormous differences in technique on the blower's part, there are even bigger ones in psychology on the recipient's. Some guys see themselves as being the inherent sexual asserters, and have trouble getting off when taking a more passive role (though I'd imagine there are techniques that could help with that). Anatomical differences play a big part, too- a guy who's still intact has a LOT more potential for stimulation than one who isn't; I've heard from several of them that they flat-out CAN'T get off from a blowjob alone.

    There really is no one "right answer".

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  • Just depends if I want to fuck her or not and if she doesn’t want to get fucked , I will ask her as she is blowing me , if she says she just wants to give me head then i will enjoy the head and bust a nut it just depends on how good she is sucking it not really a time limit , but if she says yes , then I will hold back and let her blow me for a little more than stop her to fuck her , communication is key lol

Most Helpful Girl

  • anywhere from 2 minutes to 20 minutes with most being about 10 minutes not that i time every blowjob just an educated guess... guys are generally happy if they can cum in your mouth period... i learned along the way just give him head let him cum and he's happy no need to knock yourself out.

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  • Well if I was standing there and you were talking to me I would have told you the same thing just because I knew you were going to give me a blowjob but it takes me way longer than that

  • Anything from 10 to 20 minute's, I've gone 30 minutes before. Quite often I won't cum though if it's a precursor to sex.

  • I can't believe your story I think you should prove your skills to me as well.

  • Depends on the people involved. Some men may not be able to climax passively receiving stimulation.

  • 7-10 minutes.

  • Not long at all if it feels good I’m going to cum

  • Depends on the girl. I had a girl that get me off in about a minute to others that struggle to get me off at all.

  • Everyone reacts differently. I've never cum from a blowjob either.

  • It feels good and we don't want to rush it.

  • About 10 minutes usually

  • Usually 5 or 10 minutes but I can cum really fast sometimes.

  • I’ve never cum from a blowjob. And I’ve been given excellent blowjobs.

  • No longer than 15-20 minutes.

  • It really does make a difference who is administering it. Blow jobs from women differ a lot depending on technique. Some apply the right amount of pressure and I cum within 1/2 minutes, others tend to be more light and so cumming takes a while. The last blow job I had was from a guy and I lasted around 5 minutes but he would stop when he felt I was about to blow my load.

  • Crazy, that's how I am. I absolutely enjoy BJ's but if I want to cum I have to fuck her or a hand job will do it. I get so turned on by BJ's to

    • Really? So it doesn’t work for you when she takes you deep into her throat and licks your balls and swirls her tongue while she fucks her face onto your cock? Guys always cum pretty fast when I do that.

    • Nope, I enjoy it and have zero complaints. She's absolutely loves sucking cock and she gets off on the control she has on a man when she's sucking him. I told her that no one has ever suck me like she does because I could tell it was messing with her head that she couldn't get me off.

  • Most girls aren't very good which is why some guys say they never cum from it

  • It was trick by those guys just to get head from you :P
    I can cum within 5 minutes from a BJ If the girl is hot and knows her job well :P

  • Depends on how good ya are. I have mastered the art of resisting ejaculation!

    By nullifying the nerves in my body, my body is invincib-..! aaaaand, she's using the tongue. Great! I'm cumming!

  • It really depends. Some women really know how to use their mouth, lips and tongue while others do not. The more skilled they are the better the orgasm. One thing though is that it might be better to take longer. Some guys like a lot of pressure to cum while others do not. Truthfully, each guy is different and what gets them off many not be the same as someone else. Some can take 30 seconds and some do not cum from a BJ.

  • both guys at once?

    • No! That would be gross. They took turns.

    • same day

    • What was I supposed do? Say take a number and come back tomorrow? All out of blow jobs today. Would you like a handjob and a gift card instead?

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