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  • It greatly depends what you class as foreplay.

    i consider it anything that teases n pleases, excites her, arouses her, gets her turned on and wet.

    This can be sitting in a pub, restaurant etc, telling her what’s going to happen when you get home, or maybe on the way home.

    Using suggestion and anticipation to set the scene in her mind.

    How when you home, you will push her over dining table and spank her sexy ass.

    tell her how she will be tied up, unable to move,

    maybe tell her to remove her panties in the pub, restaurant etc and sit there turned on at being risqué

    it’s about building it up to me.

    or even having her sitting in the restaurant with a remotely controlled sex toy inside her, then fiddling with your mobile, turning the toy on various settings..

    Why keep foreplay for that few minutes before sex, when you can do so much more.

    work that suggestion and anticipation, tease, excite, turn on, have her biting her lip before you even turn the key in the front door…. Then when the door slams shut….

    • You have a list, man :p

    • @anon1903 I thought I would keep it mild. I deliberately avoided the bits where she would be pushed over the table and feel the sting of the cane on her ass. The feel of the cuffs on her wrists and ankles. I thought would try to keep to some decorum

    • Canes... Not something that interests me. I appreciate your tactfulness.

Most Helpful Guy

  • kind of depends on what you are doing.
    If it is edging, which I'm not sure if that is considered foreplay then after 2 hours it can seem like forever to the person being edged.
    I have found that every partner that I have had is different on what they like/need or are into before you start screwing each other's brains out.
    I have had some where we barely made it into the house before we were undressing each other with our teeth and sometimes relaxing and starting slow ends up being very enjoyable too.
    I had one long term relationship where she liked watching porn, so we would start watching that while I started getting her even more hot and bothered.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If they keep doing foreplay after I cum it’s probably too long (unless I’m really horny and wanna go again, then it’s not)

  • Once the screaming stops it's time to transition to the real thing to get the screaming started again... lol

    How long is too long of a foreplay?

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  • If she falls asleep from exhaustion before the main event, or if she tells you to stop because she is sore, that is too long.

  • I hope there's no such thing. You both know when its time all u have to do is look into each other eye

  • When it becomes 5-play.

  • Nearly 5 minutes if we meet after long time and if I down to my girlfriend I mean clitoris suck or rub with tongue then little more time to feel her a mind blowing orgasm

  • the moment you freak out a bit like "oh shit" because you had forgotten about what you were doing and what was going on... means the foreplay went for too long... lol

  • It went on too long when I've fallen asleep face first in the her bat cave 😂
    Point of reference this has never happened 🤣

    • @donkeydan it’s one thing referring to it as a bat cave, it’s when you say, ‘did you know it echoes in here’

    • @ChrisMaster69 Is that good for you honey.. honey... honey... honey...

  • Depends on the person. Foreplay is to get someone ready for sex. Sometimes a person needs a short time, others a longer

  • Never?

  • No such thing as too long for that.

  • There's no time limit on foreplay. If either partner is tired of foreplay and wants to get down to the act, that's the time to end the foreplay.

  • Don't know if there is such a thing as "too long" My girlfriend said that one time at 24-hour fitness, she went to the parking lot with a guy, and while kissing and fondling, he shot his wad in his parts! MAYBE that was too long of foreplay.
    Personally, 'extended foreplay, makes the actual fucking more fun.

  • No such thing as too long so long as there is a happy ending!

  • When it doesn't go to the next step it is too long.

  • Anything longer than 2mins

  • Foreplay is never too long until it starts to hurt.

  • If your classifying foreplay as anything other than penetration and or orgasm, then I don't know if there is such a thing. Foreplay can be just as pleasurable, if not more so, than so-called regular sex. You can prolong foreplay with teasing and denial as long as you want.

  • Nothing is too long. There should be freedom in sex to make it how you want it to be. Don't put in unnecessary rules.

  • I don't know. One time I ate a girl out for an hour. She didn't want me to stop but my tongue was tired hahaha

    • Aw cute

    • Cute? I don't know about that. She has been stalking me for 24 years since I did that hahaha

  • Depends on my mood

  • Can it be too long?

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