How long should it take him to come from a blow job?

It usually takes about 10 -12 minutes.

I feel like I might be failing him a bit because this seems a while. I really go to town on him!

thoughts?
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I’m his first I should mention and he’s always really nervous when it comes to doing anything
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  • It can take anywhere from a few minutes to not cumming at all. I would say normal is under 5 minutes. If he's recently cum he may not be able to cum again until his typical refractory time has passed. Medication and alcohol could also have a negative effect. If you've been able to make other guys cum quickly by blowing them and this guy is different, it could be because he is nervous about cumming in your mouth. If you're okay with it, tell him it's okay ahead of time. Give him encouragement during the BJ, and don't stop stroking and sucking until he completely finishes. Another possibility is your technique is not quite right for his dick. Ask him what feels best and what doesn't. He may enjoy more licking of the frenulum, tighter lips, or having his balls licked or played with. If you don't already, try a twisting hand action on the shaft and holding the skin tight at the base of the shaft. If he's really having trouble, try sucking him while stimulating the shaft, especially around the frenulum, with a vibrator. There are also some lubes that may help including warming and tingling. If he's simply reluctant to cum in your mouth you may want him to get used to the fact that you are okay with it. For example give him a hand job and lick some of the cum off your hand. Tell him how much you enjoy it and that you can't wait for more.

  • That seems about normal from what I hear from other guys. Good blowjobs for me always last way longer tho. I've had a few women who were really, really good and it took over an hour for me to cum. It's not always just about cumming either. It's not the destination, it's the journey.

    • Thanks for MHO, didn't think my answer would be fit for it. Lol

    • I liked your last sentence!

    • Ah I see. Yeah, I think a lot more people need to hear that in this context tbh. Lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • It shouldn't take long because there's no need for him to hold back. Most men last under 10 mins (most a lot less)

    • How many blow jobs have you given?

    • Lots

    • How many different guys tho?

  • That’s within the normal range

    • Thanks 😊

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  • Everyone is different

  • I would say 5-10 minutes is pretty normal

  • 10-12 minutes is not unusual. I've seen it range from 30 seconds to 30+ minutes.

  • No offense but that’s not that long on average a man could last anywhere between 20 - 30 minutes , also he may just has great stamina. Pay attention to his reactions during. He’ll tell you all that you need to know.

  • A good blowjob begins with foreplay of a lotiony handjob. Once he is hard and drooling precum, you should be able to make him cum in 3-5 minutes.

    • WTF lotiony handjob, like who carries Lotion around and which grown man gets precum from handjob. So you guys take stopwatches to time sex? Anyway if you with me you can handjob yourself while Licking and eating my pussy

    • @Shdz7211 yes girl!!! 🙌

    • @Shdz7211 Perhaps I am glad I am not.

  • I can't cum at all. Blow jobs dont arouse me much. Only intercourse

  • It can take a while, can't say i've timed it.

  • It depends if he has a lot of sex for very little... more cum saved up faster the cum n more sex he had the longer it takes

    • He also should never be nervous unless he is doing something he shouldn't... so I investigate before making any decision

  • that all depends some guys I've heard dont even cum from head

  • It varies from guys to guys, also some cums fast sometimes and sometimes can take time regardless of the performance given by girl.

  • All guys are different some 15 mins some longer never know no guy is the same

  • I last a long time. Not bragging bc it sucks sometimes when I 5ake so long to go. Ladies usually like it when it isn't bj's though. So at least there is a silver lining.

  • It's difficult for girls to give completely perfect blowjobs.

  • If the end result is that he cums, you were perfect. Congratulations

  • It should be about that long it takes me what feels like forever to cum from it

  • It varies from man to man, there can also be other factors eg. stress etc. that can affect sex/oral sex.
    It sounds like you are doing fine from what you've described.

  • It's not the same by everyone, but I guess it shouldn't be way too short (couple f minutes) or way too long (an hour).

  • Guess that varies from guy to guy, and your method

  • If its good could be 2 minutes lol if its good sometimes you last longer. every one is different sometimes i can't cum at all even if its amazing

  • Every guy is different

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