How many dates did you wait to have sex with your current partner?

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  • I’ve never really “dated” traditionally, like not in the sense of asking a woman out to dinner or something. I usually would know them through work or a mutual friend, we’d encounter each other in group settings, go to bars, house parties, etc. Sometimes we’d just kind of randomly hook up when we were drinking, other times we’d kind of just get the vibes from each other and we’d get ourselves alone eventually, but it was just never like a “I’ll pick you up at 7:00 and we’ll go to that new Italian restaurant” kind of thing. It was all “college dating”, really. Then it would either last and turn into a relationship, or it would fizzle out and run its course.

    With my lady now…she started coming into the bar I was a bouncer at when she first moved to town, with her sister and her sister’s friend who went to college there already. The short version of the story is we met, kind of instantly vibed, but she was back and forth from where she was originally from because she was still moving. Plus the sister’s friend liked me and was kind of interfering in us hanging out alone, lmao. So it was like two weeks before we got alone, and we didn’t really wait much longer than that, haha

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  • I think there were 3 or 4 "dates", but we'd met and hung out in a group setting a number of times prior to that.

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  • We talked for a whole month, getting to know each other. Text, phone, video chat, hung out, and then we officially started dating after that 1 month went by, so I believe it was our 3rd date. I like to tease him about it because I thought it was cute, he apologized for getting hard when he was giving me a shoulder and back massage and he thought I was about to tell him to leave.

  • I find it hilarious that people abide by an imaginary rule book. Do they really think people care about them? No one gives a shit.

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  • If i would had a partner i would have waited untill she was comfortable, ready, but not too long as she might lose interest, or think i'm gay or something... but surely i would, test her, tease her, make he desire it... and if she responds then she is ready, if not i would wait...🤷‍♂️

  • None. We were just friends, until we weren't

  • Two in-person dates but a month in-between them when we were long distance.

  • I had known him for 4 months before we decided we wanted something more. We had been in the relationship 2 months already when we finally hit the bed :D

  • 3 or 4 , dependent on circumstance , I dont like planning of these things , needs to just " happen " .

  • I wouldn’t say I “waited” or that I was made to wait it happened at the right time. There is no point rushing into sex assuminng you are actually looking for a relationship at all. This just confuses the situation and compounds any issue you might discover after. I’d much rather sex when it’s anticipated and urgent with the knowledge that there is ar least an idea of a deeper connection with the woman. If it’s just about sex then we may as well be strangers and it be about sexual gratification.

  • None. We were having sex before we started dating

  • We were dating for six months. I was best man at a friends wedding and looking sexy AF in my tux! After the reception, my wife and I went back to our hotel and she attacked me! I’ve noticed through the years that weddings will often make girls horny.

  • a year and then on our first date

    How many dates did you wait to have sex with your current partner?
  • After three dates I start getting antsy.

  • We messed around right away but didn't have full on sex till about 2 months into dating

  • It’s more about getting to know each other, forming an emotional connection, than number of dates.
    simply going to a restaurant, theatre 5 times in two weeks is not enough for me (most of the time).

  • We actually were best friends and had sex a few times before actually dating

  • Well the first date. I've known him for awhile before plus we were texting and talking a lot before the first date even happened. Two weeks worth of talking everyday. So by that point we both already knew what we wanted.

  • Honestly, the first date. We are currently in LDR now and everytime he comes here, we tend to enjoy every moment lol. Although before that, we talked online for a couple of months.

    • That sounds suspicious to me.

  • Three. Ikr? So cliche! lol. But we shared a kiss on the first date and I gave him oral on the second, so we didn’t really leave ourselves much wiggle room for escalation on date number three, did we?

  • I didn’t go on any dates… I think I knew him for like a month or 2 if that. But 3 weeks-ish since we actually engaged in conversation. We were both on night shift and it was my first time being on his shift. After work I went to his house and we had sex.

    • He was your co-worker? Why am I never that lucky

    • @KostasKouvalis? Lucky to have sex with a coworker? I think sex and dating within the workplace is more common than what people think.

    • Maybe I ask where you live. I never get THAT lucky. The one girl at my work who actually did it, said she wouldn't do it again. But I still don't think it's that common where I live, and it's pretty frowned upon in the U. S. My company made us disclose if we're even DATING another co-worker. A lot of people are reluctant to do it, because it causes workplace drama. It's employers that started stigmatizing it

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  • Just one.

    The wedding date.

    How many dates did you wait to have sex with your current partner?
  • I don't count "dates till sex"

    not my style

  • I don't think there's any particular number of dates that you should go by tbh @LaFemmeFatale

    The important thing, in my opinion anyway, is for you not to have sex with someone you're dating until YOU feel comfortable about doing that !

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