How many dates should you go out on before you sleep with a man?

I’m not a virgin but I’m quite emotionally innocent. I never have known how long you make a man wait for sex so he doesn’t label you as easy and on with everyone so that he talks about you and no longer likes/loves you or whatever. Can someone tell me how long I should wait? I can’t read social cues and I kept getting used in my youth as a result. I want to avoid repeating my mistakes in my thirties.

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This isn’t a joke question or trolling. I really don’t know. It’s annoying and embarrassing not to know at my age, so I’m asking. Anonymously.
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  • There's no right or wrong answer. If you really like a guy your on a date with and enjoy being with him then then there's really no need to wait even if it's the First Date. However, if your worried about the stuff you posted, then I would say at least wait until the Second Date and see it how it goes.

  • Three dates

  • There isn't a number. The answer is when it feels right to you, that may be first date it may be the 100th.

  • Until you both feel that you're ready

  • As many as you see fit, according to whatever makes you feel comfortable, how he is, how he makes you feel.

  • If everything goes well after first date😊

  • It can be one or like the 10th for me

  • Rather sooner than later. Men are sexual beings and if you don’t put out he’s going to think you don’t like him. My advice is to fuck him early on.

  • Each Person Is Different, You Decide When Sex Is Right… I Met A Woman Once, After A Week Of Talking On Dating Site… She Wanted To Meet At Her Work, Then Go Out, Within 30 Seconds Of Meeting She Said, We Should Break The Ice And KISS Right Now… After 4 Hours Of Getting To Know Each Other, She Said, I Am Really Horny, And Suggested We Go Back To Her Place And Fuck ( Her Words)… We Dated About 5 Months, We Got Along Great, The Deal Breaker Was, She Wanted Me To Get Rid Of My Kids, I Have Always Had Sole Custody… She Raised Hers, Mine Were Just Starting High School And JR High, She Didn’t Want To Raise Anyone’s Kids… She Knew From Day 1 I Have Sole Custody And Their Mom Has Never Been In The Picture… So Had She Not Been That Way About Kids, We would Have Been Together… I Would Say The Quickest Sex After Meeting Was Less Than An Hour, Probably 20 Minutes…

  • I fuck on the first date.

  • Prob 2nd date life is too short to deal with prudes and plenty of girls out there who got no problem with it

  • That’s going to be very personal for any woman.

    Apart from my first, I waited 7-10 dates before going “all the way” and 3-5 dates before going down. That worked okay for me.

  • Prob like 3 dates that gives me a good time to get to know him and if I trust him cause I wanna know if we sexually compatible before we waist too much time

  • First date usually for me

  • 46 dates. Make him thirst for you.

  • Hard to say. Guys will lavish us prying to get in our pants. If they find it too difficult then they’ll up and leave. They don’t understand the concept of getting to know us and remaining with us. They seem to like to get to know us just to get the advantage of fooling around and then they dash off to another female and keep doing this. Wait til you’re in a committed long term relationship. You don’t need sex to lock into a long term relationship.

    • That’s the problem I had with men. Why I stopped dating.

  • I don't know about the "should" part, but many of us have had one night stands. But please be smart enough to not wait until marriage.