How many of you would be okay dating an erotic dancer/stripper?

[Anonymous]

He or she likes their job, too.

would it be a deal breaker?

[TheorionMage]

One must ALWAYS remember that which drew you to her or him, is their profession. And were that 'allure' to cease... would YOUR interest cease?
Out of work / off stage "Yes, I DO... but, NOT with you!" ... MUST be the inviolate understanding, lest the relationship is doomed to infidelity and distrust.

Ex: There is the performer/actress Cassandra Petersen whom is THE 'Elvira' BUT...
whom is ALSO dedicatedly in a lesbian couple. Her dark, heterosexual persona allure is her paycheck! You're paying her for characture embodying YOUR fantasies; what COULD be!

[OfMiceandMen]

I would be okay with it, as long as she didn't make it her career, or get caught up in the drugs, booze, and sex for money that sometimes accompanies that lifestyle.

I met a couple of girls going to college and stripped to pay for their tuition and were done once school ended. If it's a stepping stone and she stays clean, then who am I to judge.

[northerngal]

I could date. But if it became a serious relationship I would want him to quit. I know what guys have to do to earn those tips!

[Jennz6]

I dated a guy and he was jealous and wanted me to quit my job so I decided to keep my job and he was angry

[Reddy4it]

He missed out…

[Miristheiss]

@Reddy4it No, he didn't. He was an idiot to even date her to begin with. What kind of pathetic wuss of a man kisses his girl good bye for work as she goes off until 4 am in the morning to let hundreds of men ogle her butt naked and look at all her intimate private parts, grinds on men all night for lap dances and let's men hit on her all night and proposition her for sex... and is ok with it. An absolute pathetic man. No man who really loved his girl with be ok with that an any girl who really loved and respected her guy would do that with any other man. "He missed out" What a load of sheeet. NOBODY MISSED OUT ON ANYTHING. Pathetic simps thirst after stripper and Onlyfans prostitutes. Any man who would pay one cent to some sex worker is just pathetic. They'd all go out of business and have to try and do something more honorable with their lives if all of you pathetic simps out their would quit throwing your money away for this whorish crap.

[Jennz6]

@Miristheiss thanks sweetie for your knowledgeable words of judgment about men that date strippers 💃 @reddy4it

[Reddy4it]

@jennz6 someone got triggered…

[Jennz6]

@Reddy4it lmao 🤣

[BoobSlayer]

If she had nice boobs I would be okay with it.

[summiter]

No deal breaker at all. We all have got to earn a living.

[Tamera952]

Wouldn’t be a problem

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Don't wanna. Night life tends to corrupt women in my experience. Hostesses, strippers, and prostitutes -- you try to find the humanity there but they get paid to display and move their bodies by eager men. Men are ATMs. There's no real rehab in my opinion to fix that. Those women are fucked up.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

In fairness I would probably be fucked up too if I was male stripper. I would get used to women flashing me money for my body. My body becomes #1. It's my source of income, attention, my whole world becomes my body. Women want my body. They drool and pay for it. I give them a little peek of my goods and they drool and pay more money. I am not in the right mindset at this point to form a proper relationship with a woman now. I'm fucked up.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Actually that was an idealistic scenario. Most strippers are far more whorish in my experience. They don't pick and choose like this, they aren't rockstars. They go around asking guys for lap and table dances like beggars on the street. They're even more fucked up than this.

[Asker]

Wow, who hurt you, bro?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Nobody! I think maybe it is just a general impression I give off to people low on EQ/IQ.

[slatyb]

Not a deal-breaker.

[Miristheiss]

100% deal breaker. I wouldn't have cared if she had done it 5 years in the past and only danced naked for 5 minutes and quit.

Some things can never be undone. You sell your body, your nudity to strangers for money... you can never come back from that.

100% deal breaker. I wouldn't have even dated a girl who posed nude for a drawing class.

[Avicenna]

Total dealbreaker.

[Bricealan]

I would go out with ANY woman, regardless of what she did for a living. I have an escort friend in Vista, and would love to take her to dinner. Why discriminate?

[Jdjfjcjj]

Hey as long as the guy is the type to get emotional from the sex and get to a point where they unable to leave now, why not. Get what you want and then set her free

[FunkyMonkee]

I, sort of, did. I was in class with her in college and I asked her to go see "Weird Al" Yankovic and Dr. Demento with me and I bought her a couple presents. One night, she invited me to come see her show. I went and brought her some flowers. Had she decided to be my girlfriend, I wouldn't have minded her stripping for money. As long as she's not fucking for money!

[exitseven]

I knew a girl who was a stripper. She worked out at the same gym that I did. I thought she was very nice and I was surprised she was a stripper. She was also going to college and wanted to be a psychologist. I would probably date her.

[Drdeeznuts1132]

We would have to establish some boundaries and communicate on the same level what's ok and not ok. If that's not okay with her then I'd let myself out. We could still be friends though.

[ColHathi]

I probably wouldn't be okay with dating one if she wanted to keep doing that particular job while seeing me, but that's about it.

[Andres77]

i used to date prostitutes, so dating a dancer would not be an issue.

[stratford]

As long as she saved her intimate self for me it would be a buzz knowing she is keeping herself only for me while driving lots of guys wild.

[Asker]

What do you mean by “intimate self”?

[stratford]

As long as she isn't allowing guys to touch her in a sexual way internally or externally.

[Asker]

None of that touching goes on at strip clubs

[stratford]

Are you a stripper?

[Asker]

yes i am

[stratford]

Do you have a boyfriend and how does he feel about it? Has this caused you issues in the past and how much do you enjoy your work (do you get to the point of being aroused?)?

[Asker]

currently have a girlfriend, but we're in an open relationship right now yes, I've had boyfriends get jealous and want me to quit, they didn't stay boyfriends for long. I do enjoy my job, i'm good at it and make good money

[stratford]

That's great that you have found something you like doing. Do you do onlyfans as well?

[Mansearching]

Been there done that.

[Pacman13]

I feel like it would be hard not to get jealous but maybe. She’s have to be more than just a hot body though. She’d need to have a personality too.

[kellytheman]

I could date a stripper or dancer and if she likes it's fine. Also if she doing for the money or paying her way through college that's fine too. As long she ain't hooking it's not a deal breaker. As I get free lap dances at home and get to touch lol.

[AydenHazor]

It would not be a deal breaker at all.

[Vegasrunner]

Strippers are for recreational use only. They can be a lot of fun, but it would be a huge mistake to date one seriously.

[Reddy4it]

I’d be totally fine with it…

[mommymommy]

I mean, I would have to think about it but, for now I'll say yeah

[PointTaken]

It wouldn't be for me. If she likes her job, way to go. Think about it, we all sell our bodies for money one way or another.

[PointTaken]

Wtf? It would be ok with me. Stupid auto correct

[FallingSkies_18]

I am not sure! Maybe?

[dean53AU]

I've always wanted to..

[nawtee_me]

I married one so I have no problem with it.

[Pterodon]

I have dated one

[Rudon00]

I won't mind. if she is comfortable with it. I will be okay.

[Alex8736]

no judgement here

[AFretiredTXn]

Might die of a Heart Attack. But what a way to go!

[msc545]

No way. Way too much drama with this stuff.

[nudeNhorny]

I'm okay with it

[Charliefretz329]

As long as she’s confident and secure with herself it’s ok

[Paulychicagoluv]

Deal breaker for me.

[Hardworkingguy]

I really wouldn't care if she does that for a living I have a career myself but I don't think that defines her as a bad person. I'd gladly go out with her

[Reijen]

Deal breaker.

[CubaPirate]

Sure if I liked her personality

[Jennz6]

@cubapirate you wouldn’t stop seeing me if I kept my job 💯💕

[CubaPirate]

@Jennz6 the hell nooooo

[Jennz6]

@cubapirate you’re so sweet

[Xtendable]

Not a dealbreaker at all.

[Somesee]

I would have no problems with that at all, I enjoy it when other men look at my wife sometimes I fantasize about little more then just looking, she’s Hot, but we have lots of trust so of course that would be important to make it ok for everyone

[riverrat3]

Could be interesting

[Titlover01]

Not for me

[tallblondejohm]

Yes why not

[Randomonline123]

For sure

[Anonymous]

well, if I wouldn't be ok with it myself, I'd be a hypocrite... as I'm a male stripper for a charity organization myself.