How many people actually have sex on their wedding night?

I want our wedding night to be full of sexy adventures, but I’m afraid we’re going to be too drunk/tired to really perform after the festivities!

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  • Oh god. My wife and i were so damn exhausted that we crashed out. Now the following morning there was logs of sex to be had. But that night, we barely remember most of it.. I remember being uncomfortable, Itchy, Full of overwhelming emotion.. Not kidding on that. The only thing i remember very clearly, My wife sung her lyrics. She sung the below song and played piano.. God i love her.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZgalAdgEd-E
    • Sorry She sung her Vows in the form of the lyrics to that song.

    • That’s so beautiful 🥺🥺

    • I absolutely agree.

  • We knew it was going to be a long day with a lot of booze. So we had sex twice the morning before we got married. I was smiling from the orgasms as we took our vows!

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  • We didn't. We cuddled to sleep, but it was so exhausting and at that time we got to bed we just wanted to relax. Also we werent home so that was also a reason not to.

  • I’m not sure I would want sex on the wedding night, but maybe a few days after or after the honey moon.

  • I'm sure I don't know, but it's perfectly fine if you're too wiped out after the ceremony; you've got the rest of your lives together, after all.

    Remember; the marriage is a helluva lot more important than the wedding.

  • We had sex once the wedding night, but yeah we were tired and it definitely wasn't our best sex ever. Helping her out of her dress definitely got me in the mood though.

  • We did. The wedding celebration is get married in the presence of family and friends, not to get so drunk you can't enjoy your first night as a couple.

  • We did in the morning before the wedding but not that night

  • I plan on it. The whole night, the morning, the mid day on our cruise, that following night, basically not leaving the room.

  • We waited till the morning after. We did not drink much, just exhausted. We had to get up super early to head to Sandals, Jamaica (which was a long day in itself).

  • 69%...

    • Nice

  • Then don’t get too drunk lol

  • unless religious usualy people have before so not "part" of wedding night.

  • When I got married we didn’t , even though I wanted to , she was too tired and said wait til tomorrow , I felt like I made the worse decision in my life , which it was , because we are now divorced years later lol but We did have amazing sex the next morning , and pretty much had sex all day , So not having sex on my wedding night wasn't the worst thing but it wasn't the greatest thing either , I just know if I ever get married again , I am going to make it clear to her that we better be having sex on are wedding. night lol , Actually if I ever get married again, I want to get married with just her and I on a romantic getaway , all inclusive resort , so we can just relax without a care in the world and have tons of sex and be catered to , when we get home we throw a big reception party inviting are friends and family to celebrate it , That’s probably the only way I would ever get married again to be honest lol

  • I did.

    We wedding was earlier in the day. I'm not a drinker. I don't get drunk. Knowing ahead of time that you going to be drunk and that drinking to that level is attractive in your eyes (a good thing), then maybe you should take that night off. You probably won't remember it anyway.

  • I'm pretty sure every single person

  • You are probably right!!! On our wedding night, during Christmas, we drove to Northern California to a Dude Ranch, IN A POURING RAIN!

    When we got there, ... well. we had to check in, take our luggage in, have a drink with the owners of the B&B... and bed time... we were exhausted!!!

  • do not place big expectations on your wedding night escapades, like you said it was a long day and you will be tired..

  • Two, each time?

  • We stayed at nice hotel in the city and would leave on our honeymoon the next day. I carried her over the threshold and then we had an amazing first night together as married people.

  • You will likely be exhausted. Do what you can, but you have your whole life together ahead for adventures.

  • I wanna do that

    • Dm me girl

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