How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?

I guess I mean like until it started feeling pleasurable? Because first times are usually awkward or uncomfortable or painful. Like did it take rounds or different days or even different partners?

Like for me, it hurt the first 3 times (different days) with my first ex. The first day, he caught me offguard and i didn't even realize “trying to see if the tip could fit” was considered sex. The tip itself could hardly fit and i was already in pain 🙈 He pressured me into letting him continue to experiment on other days because he said i had already allowed that much, and well why stop now. So yea for me, i was only able to take the tip each week we tried. It took the 4th try at sex for him to finally get at least half in. And omg it felt good af. We were in this spinning chair and he lifted both my legs over his shoulder as he hit what felt deep but omg it was like i was on cloud nine. I dont even remember how long we went but when i heard my mom coming in through the garage, i rushed him out the backdoor 🤣🤷‍♀️ I could hardly walk for shit but made it to the bathroom. I started bleeding like crazy and it freaked me out because this was the first time it happened. I had to lie and tell my mom it was that time of the month 🤦‍♀️ So yea it took our 4th time before i got used to it.

I stopped having sex in 2010 after that first ex but its Crazy though because when i tried it for the first time with my virgin ex in 2018, i expected it to hurt all over again since it had been so long. But it didn't. It only took one time to feel good.
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
It only took one time to feel good for me
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
It took two or three rounds before it felt good for me
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
It took a totally different day before it felt good for me
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
It took a different partner other than my first before it felt good for me
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
It still doesn't feel good for me
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
I haven't had sex yet but want to
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How many times did you have to have sexxx before you got used to it?
I haven't had sex yet and dont want to just yet/at all
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  • Well, first times are indeed hard and awkward but i can say you had an especially unpleasant first experience. For me, the very first time was pleasurable enough after getting used to it and my partner quite quickly. After that with experience, it became increasingly more joyful. Communication is the key, the both parties should be more than ready and willing for the first time or any other time even. If one starts pushing and forcing, your situations arises. Sex becomes something to be afraid of of something that is hard to get used to instead of being something extremely fun and relaxing.

    • Truee

  • It took a few maybe 5 times before I knew what I was doing. It felt good from the start... shit I was bustin nuts 3 strokes in but could have balanced a Cadillac Escalade on that hard on oh to be young again... getting more pussy that a litter box too back then. But I digress... perfecting the art of pleasing a woman takes time and one should do some reading to really learn and understand what it is that you are feeling and doing.

    • Omg you got me crackin up

    • Humor in truths is a wonderful thing... I may joke around but 99.9% of what I reply is true. it's funny now but back in the early days of Dickdeanthelovemachine (that's me) it was rough... hey even Michael Jordan got cut from teams before he was the G. O. A. T.🤷🏾‍♂️

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  • If sex is painful for a girl the first time it’s usually because they aren’t doing it right. Having sexual the first time can be very stressful and the anxiety and anticipation of pain can cause pain.

  • Penetration wise, it took like 3-4 separate encounters to get use to the feeling of penetration with my first boyfriend. Being more in tune sexually and knowing what sexual activities I actually like/don't like, and what arouses me/gets me off fast/learning my kinks... etc, that was with my second boyfriend - where I really enjoyed sex.

    • Yea i enjoyed it more with the second guy too

  • Damn girl, that was so long ago since my first time, I don't remember that lol old lady brain here lolol

    • You can always lie and make up a story so far fetch. Thats its so unbelievable that people believe it's real

    • Hahaha i understand

    • @humanearth okay I'm let's see.. I had sex with Superman and he was Suuupeer lolol

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  • After 3 times it wasn’t painful anymore.

    • Yea thats how it was for me. That 4th time was 🙌🔥🙌

  • Only once for me, bc he was great at sex and i loved it.

    • Nice

  • I've been at it for 25 years, and it keeps getting better. My mom is in her mid 70s and she tells me it is still great. Can only hope I have the same experiences like mom.

    • But i meant your first time?

    • I'd say by the second time , losing my V Card I was more concerned about everything going ok, 2nd time around it was like riding a bike, 2nd partner I was an expert. ;)

    • Hahaha same

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  • It actually felt good from the very first time! It did take several times before being nervous disappeared.

    • Oh nice

  • iv only been with 5 women or girls depending on what year your referring to lol
    but it took 5 times the 6th time is when i realized im no good with short bursts lol. its why i thought sex was more than just for fun or to satisfy her , well it is but it isn't you know? but i thought it was some kind of sex epiphany XD

    • Wow 5 times to feel good for you?

    • yeah i was not focused on the feeling at the time i was just trying to figure out what it was that made the fire works appear , i never got that lol it was just bland till i figured out what i needed to focus on lol

  • Option E. My hand seems to be better than most vaginas I've been in. I think sex without love, isn't worth it, for me.

    • Lmao. And yea i couodnt have sex without love

  • Sex was never painful for me. Until my partner started getting rough and not listening to me near the end of our relationship.
    He was always looking to exploit and push me into things I didn't want.
    He found me boring this time around because I stopped drinking.
    He used to like us playing drinking games. But he always ended up making me drink more than him. As he'd pour the shots to the highest level for me.
    I'm sure once he saw I was tipsy he stopped actually drinking.
    I passed out a few times during sex and he kept going.

    He also did things I didn't consent to.
    I want and hope I can forget about him ASAP.

    • Mine neber listened either

    • Sorry you went through that

    • I hate that there are so many women that have sexual experiences like this. When we first got together I liked it rough. I was 19 fearless and just into that. But as times gone on a lot has happened to me that's changed my outlook and my threshold to deal and cope with things has reduced a lot because well I've been let down. Had to deal with things on my own a lot. I really don't like. Anyways all I can say is he hates that I remember him from the early days whilst he refuses to acknowledge the changes that have become of me. We're not the same people we once were. The love was still there but the tolerance and patience has reduced.

  • My first time was super awkward and strange. It wasn't until the second or third time that I felt confident and like I knew what I was doing.

    • Thats good tho

  • It was fine the first time for me, honestly I didn't even tell the guy I was a virgin I just said to go slow for a second and everything worked out. I was a little sore afterwards, but never had a problem with things fitting.

    • Thats good

  • I don't remember it hurting at first. For me sex became more hurtful the more I had it because of endometriosis and my ex just being shit in bed. Luckily i've had a surgery and take hormones now and I've switched out my lover for a better one.

    • I pray i dont have endometriosis because i experience pain after sex everytime

    • You normally have pain during sex and not afterwards and it's always in specific positions and angles as well. I ended up developping a cyst the size of a golfball that made penetration almost impossible. Do you also have painful periods?

    • Wow thats crazy. But my periods do hurt. However theyre so irregular. Keeps skipping 3-6 months

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  • no seggs 😹😾😾

    • Loll

  • I can look st this question 2 ways and I'm going to. Say thank God. I'm not used to it but I will keep going until that day. Lol

    • Yepp

  • Probably on the 3rd round with my 1st boyfriend.

    • Nice

  • Might find out soon, actually talking to a couple peeps now that seem promising.

    A girl who I tried some rookie shit like asking dtf, too. That didn't make her stop talking to me and she knows I'm a virgin so if that's not issue I think I'm good, she said that question was a dead giveaway.

    Also been talked out a lot of stuff with a transwoman like I told her I'm curious but i dont know how curious, she says she won't hate me if we try and I decide it's not for me so that's cool that's she's so understanding.

    • Dang you wanna have sex with a man... dont be desperate. But whatever to each its own

    • I'm not sure what I want yet, I'm just trying to find out. I dont quite think its desperation so dont say it like that. I'm curious and she's a real cool and open minded person that I'm really comfortable talking too so far.

    • My first reply may have been a but much, I get it dont be so desperate to do anything, have standards, but I am genuinely curious about this as well.

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  • The first time he cummed waaay too fast. Literally after the first penetration like I was literally crushing his dick to death. It hurt, but turned pleasurable as we did less foreplay

    • I hate missionary cause i always feel suffocated

  • More than a few times to be honest

    • I agree

  • I don't know but bitch Lemmy tell you we fucked do many times but one time fucking in the car had my legs shaking and I couldn’t walk pussy was sour for 4 days straight omgggggg it was heaven!!!

    • 🤣🤣🤣

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