How much money a year do you make/spend on the pursuit of sex?

Let's be clear, I'm not talking about direct prostitution here. Instead I'm referring to the money guys will spend on a girl in the hope he'll get sex out of it. Every guy knows he can buy a girl expensive drinks all night and she can just say "bye" without so much as a smile if she hasn't the manners to spread her legs. But generally speaking most girls do and in a indirect way we're earning money from sex. Add up all the meals, free rides, reduced tradesmen's bills etc it probably saves us at least a £1000 a year and money saved is money earned.

Guys, how much do you spend on the pursuit of sex and how much does the investment lead to actual sex rather than just a verbal thanks?
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  • I make less than 10k but don't spend it on sex

  • Made 2000/month and spent 3000/month on dates.. Did it for two years, now owe bunch of debt and no girls around.

  • $0, I don't chase loose whores around dives.

  • 0 dollars

  • If sex toys count and lube about $100-200 1 year and that's about it

  • i don't waste my money on bitches

  • $100 maybe.

  • 0 as the money that would go towards her wouldn't be to have sex but because I care and wanna get her nice things here and there

  • Married, so... All of it? 🙃

  • Well not much i worh 400 plus hors a month

  • I don't keep track but likely about $500 or so.

  • So far $180

  • I havnt had sex in almost 2 years so I dont bother paying for something Im not getting.

  • If I did the right thing on my first date I will pay £500 To Have Sex

  • I don't think it is good count and overthink it. It is stressful.

  • $000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000
    I HAVE MY OWN HAND 😉

  • 1000$

  • Personally none. I belive in equality and the both of us already spend the time so yeah

  • too much and it's unhealthy. I need to spend less time on the internet and more time meeting people.

  • This is SUCH a great question! Because one of the things I've come to realize is how much of EVERYTHING I do is motivated by sex. Particularly the amount of time and effort that goes into things like working for other people and dealing with their crap that I otherwise wouldn't choose to do. But I do it to get money. Now, I wouldn't actually need to get THAT much money except for the pursuit of sex. Because in the end, a lot of the "game" is a competitive one with other dudes to stand out more and be more attractive to get more and/or better girls.

    Once I'm in a relationship, I find that even things I REALLY like to do, like travel or go out to a club or whatever, are now no longer really worth the time, effort and money that they used to be. Why is that? Because they no longer hold out the possibility of sex with new and exciting girls. If I know who I'm going home with, do I REALLY need to spend $100 on cover and drinks, and wait in a line of douchebags for god knows how long? Or do I REALLY need to spend thousands of $ of plane tickets, accommodation, etc. for travel? Probably not.

    So yeah--it may not ALL be about sex, but a whole lot of it is!

    Also, one last thing--you said money saved is money earned. It's actually BETTER than money earned. Because you need to pay taxes on the earnings! So if you save $100, that's just as good as earning another, say $125, before taxes since that's what you'd need to earn to take home the $100. So saving (or spending less) is pretty huge!

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