How much time you guys take to finish after penetration?

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bsann2015 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the person and the mood.
A lot also depends on the bed.
If I'm with somebody and I can hit her g-spot immediately and make her cum first then I am more likely to come sooner but if she doesn't come I don't want to.
Yes I know it sounds strange for a guy

îR0N_man · Accepted Answer

It's totally depends on mood and strength

MrOracle · Answer

My "natural time" is 40-60 minutes - which I learned was too long for many women, and I had to work on limiting it to a shorter time. Today I can usually finish in 20 minutes if I try, and that's a short enough time that most women can deal with. And some women really like that I can go longer, and they can keep up with a longer time, so that's fine too.

The other problem is BJs. Very few women can last long enough giving a BJ for me to finish. I've had guy friends tell me that they barely last 2 minutes from a BJ, but the first girl who managed to get me to completion - who was an admitted BJ addict and champion - took about 45 minutes to get me there. I give her all the credit - she was determined and she definitely put in the work, despite me warning her against it. Again, over the years I've managed to reduce that time to 20-25 minutes - which is still longer than I expect most women to be able to go, but at least it's better.

As it often goes, when you are the exception and not the norm, no matter what it is, there's going to be issues with some people, and even things that seem good can be "too much of a good thing" for some.

SitBackRelax · Answer

I could choose to erupt inside within a minute or so. But I love the amazing feelings inside the vagina so much that I can last over an hour if there’s time. It takes some self discipline and edging. There’s been times when I almost went too far close to the edge of no return in cumming. So being able to relax for a moment and look into her eyes until it’s safe again to start moving is a constant process during. It’s healthy and connecting. Most importantly I want the woman to get something out of it vs just a wam bam done sort of thing.

WakeSkateNut2126 · Answer

I think every guy can cum in a few minutes when they’re just trying to get off. You ever seen a guy go in the bathroom, jerk off, bam, back out? When it comes to sex tho it’s 100% based on how long it takes for you to get off. Once you’ve cum 1-4x depending on the situation/time allowed I’ll give myself permission to finish. If you don’t do it often though and/or are young sometimes you can only last 5min. In those scenarios communicate, go for the BJ, then have good sex 30min later. :]

AviatorTom · Answer

Polls have shown the guy finishes, on average, 2-3 minutes after initial penetration. That's not long enough for most women to achieve orgasm, which is why additional and longer stimulation with fingers, tongue or toys is recommended, either before penetration (foreplay), after the guy finishes (afterplay), or both (highly recommended).

Bricealan · Answer

I try to take as much time as possible, because the feeling is so good, and after I shoot my wad, the fun is over. I have used Viagra for some time, and when I could, used a product called "play longer" which is a Benzocaine gel applied to the head of my penis to desensitize the head some. Actually I use it on the 'rim' of the head as that is the most sensitive area and it get the most 'friction' in the vagina.
I did that several times with a girlfriend in Ohio, and managed to fuck her for an hour straight, using the combination, Viagra/benzocaine. That was the longest I have EVER gone, and at one point later she asked me to 'stop' as she was getting irritated.
Wish I could have done that when I was in my early 20's

mstbooblover · Answer

Depends on the situation. From a few minutes to a full hour...

TCredo · Answer

i have excellent control so it will depend on the situation and how much foreplay we did...

JacobRogers · Answer

Well my sister told me with her first child he didn't even penetrate.. Some guys will be different, if he's been longing for you for awhile it may be instant.

Iron_Man · Answer

20 minutes maybe

Soleil8000 · Answer

The more turned on the quicker it happens

yuviii2012 · Answer

If I enjoy within 20 mins I cum and if its more like girl needs me to stay longer and I wanna enjoy it more I go for 1 hr to 1.5 hr.

Neko_Nya · Answer

Not long

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Indeterminate.

OddBeMe · Answer

depends. more experiened can hold off until their partner cums.

Guardian45 · Answer

As. Long. As. Possible!

REDHOTLINE · Answer

20-30 minutes.

emperor90 · Answer

It depends on the person

bestfriend69 · Answer

How much time do you want me to take?

astep · Answer

It really depends how horny i am, how hot the girls is, what is the intensity of sex, is it quickie or slow gowing sex So it is between 2 and 40 minutes