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9 mo

How often would I need to have sex with boyfriend/husband so he will not want to cheat or masturbate?

I know I know that guys who cheat will do it regardless right? But how often would I need to have sex with you (if you were my boyfriend) so that you wouldn’t even want to have sex with another girl or masturbate or look at porn?

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9 mo
From all of these answers I can see why there are so many creepy men out there. You guys should try not watching porn for awhile and see what happens.
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  • Very interesting question. I think if you want to prevent your boyfriend or husband from seeking sex elsewhere (a. k. a. cheating), then you need to fully commit to giving him what he wants most sexually, and giving it to him a lot. So once you find out what his hottest desire is, do that for him as often as possible, and trust me, he won’t seek sex elsewhere. As for the masturbation part of your question.. all guys masturbate. It’s hardwired into us. So, no matter how much sex you have with your guy, he will still masturbate sometimes. Don’t worry about that. He still wants you!

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  • Cheating is a complex issue, you simply can't stop him from cheating with sex alone. Sometimes people cheat only because they're blackout drunk, sometimes it's a series of unresolved problems. Whatever it is, lots of sex probably won't fix it and trying to maintain a sex quota might lead to cheating itself.

    Now why do you want to prevent him from masturbating? It's very common with and without porn. I have to promise you that a lot of sex won't stop it either and depending, memories of good sex will probably be a reason for him *to* masturbate.

    My advice: I mean this nicely when I say that you should work on yourself first. You seem to have insecurities and they won't help your relationships.

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  • The real trick to keeping them from roaming is to give it to them when they want it. I know that doesn’t sound very progressive but I read that advice somewhere and decided to try it with my current boyfriend. In the beginning it was everyday. Even when it felt like a chore, I did it. After a few months, he settled into a 3-4 times a week routine. He knows he can get it when he wants and it eliminates the sexual tension in the relationship that might cause him to look elsewhere. So far it’s worked anyway.

  • If it was my boyfriend, twice a day, every day, at least. My drive is nowhere near as high as his, so he gets sex from me around 5 times a week, and the rest of time I give him hand jobs, or he masturbates. To be honest, I wouldn't care about how much he needs to stop him masturbating. I mean, who cares if they masturbate?

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  • Q. How often would I need to have sex with you so that you wouldn’t even want to have sex with another girl?

    A. Guys who cheat will do it regardless.

  • Wow, you have no clue how a guy thinks.

  • You’d have to fuck me 5 times a day so I don’t masterbate.

    • You masturbate 5 times a day and still have sex and work? dang

    • I have a really high sex drive. I don’t think you could keep up with me so I’ll probably end up still masterbating lol

  • Most guys aren't gonna stop masturbating just cause they are getting sex

    • That is very true

    • I thought this was common knowledge. (Swap 'all' for 'most' to be completely accurate)

    • @spartan55 nah I know some guys stop and slow down if getting regular sex cuz my husband is like that lol

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  • Every time that he wants sex and/or masturbate.

    How often would I need to have sex with boyfriend/husband so he will not want to cheat or masturbate?

  • There's nothing wrong with porn or masturbating

  • Cheating is as much a moral issue as sexual. If he loves you he won't cheat. Stopping him masturbating is a whole new ball game. If he's horny and you're not around he will still masturbate.

    • Ok so I’m asking how often I would need to have sex with you/him so you would only have sex with me.

    • Well from a male perspective as often as possible but he has to take your feelings into consideration. If I was with you once/twice a day, maybe more to supress the urge to masturbate as well but once I had sex with you and had deep feelings. I wouldn't cheat anyway.

  • I make love to my husband at least twice a week and I still masturbate about daily

  • A man will cheat if he wants to no matter how often you give him sex, and no matter what even when I have a partner I still masturbate because I can make myself cum harder sometimes by teasing myself until I am so sensitive that sliding up and down starts to build up a strong streak of pleasure each time I slide that will eventually overwhelm me with pleasure for a longer time...

    But that is self love... Not cheating...

    My advice is just communicate with him and try to keep giving him what he likes!

  • I would be fine with twice a week in the long run. In the beginning I probably want more. This is assuming I find you attractive.

  • Why do you care about masturbation if you are getting as much attention as you want?

    • That’s not related to my question. I just want to know how often I would need to have sex with him so he wouldn’t want it any other way except with me

    • With a young man? You would have to be available for sex 24/7. There are plenty who won't cheat. Finding one who will never masturbate is going to be very hard.

    • How about a man in his late 30’s?

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  • I don't watch porn and I still masturbate. Sometimes we just want a fast and relaxing orgasm. We don't need a woman to help. Then we worry about pleasing her instead of focusing on us cumming and being done. It's not that we don't want you, it's that we want to get it over quick

  • I will always masturbate and I don't see anything wrong with it.

    And regarding the amount of sex, I would be happy with once every month or even once every two months.

    • You are currently having regular sex and still masturbate? maybe you just love masturbating more than sex

    • I’m sure not every man is like you though.

    • No, I don't love masturbating more than sex, but I can enjoy both. Both are different, and aren't replacements for each other.

  • Cheating is usually not based on how often you have sex.
    Most of the time it is because something is missing in the relationship.
    But it can be about sex, even if you drain him daily some guys just feel the need to go bang someone else.

  • With cheating it’s more about lack of fulfillment in a relationship and less about the actual sex


    However if you require your partner to never Masturbate then you may need to but out once a day.
    TBH it’d probably be better to just let him masturbate

  • He shouldn’t want to cheat anyway, but how much sex he will need to not want to masturbate depends on his sex drive. It is different for every man.

    • Have you noticed that you masturbate less as you get older? I really hope that’s the case because I like older men

    • Not really. I know the frequency goes down at some point with age, but I still have trouble going for too long without an orgasm. What I have noticed is that I masturbated a lot more when i was in a dysfunctional relationship or single than I have while in a healthy relationship.

  • Meet his sex drive

  • if your worried about him possibly cheating or maturating to porn/other people. try being his muse when he does maturate by offering him material of you he can use. when your not available or willing to help him get sexual release. so he'll retain a desire to want to have sex with you when you are available and willing to have sex with him.

    could consider switching to a free use relationship so whenever or wherever the mood strikes. you'll both be willing and/or able to help each other deal with your sexual urges.

    but a healthy male with an active sex drive can typically have sex multiple times a week or even multiple times day should the urge strike.

  • That's not really how that works, but caring about your partners sexual needs is definitely a good thing that helps a relationship.

  • Twice a day at least! And don't worry about him looking at porn or masturbating.

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