Sexual Relationships 
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Is it something you need often or can you go without for a while? And, of course, by happy, I'm only talking about your sex life, not how great of a person your SO is.
How often would you need sex to stay happy in a relationship?
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Is it something you need often or can you go without for a while? And, of course, by happy, I'm only talking about your sex life, not how great of a person your SO is.
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What Girls & Guys Said
41 63I could literally never want it and be happy but I don't think the guy would agree with me on that
Some women have no sex drive.
Happy? Probably 4 or so times a week. Occasionally more.
I'd -prefer- more then that even, but i'd be cheerfully happy at that.
Sex doesn't have to be intercourse, but needs to most of the time be mutually enjoyable. Some, but not most, of the time it could be one cheerfully getting the other off.
A few times a week
Sex whenever I'm horny/inspired to do so.
Not at all
I could be happy with weekly, but closer to daily would be ideal.
I'd love to see how the votes correlate with age and/or experience!
Whatever amount that she would need, I want things to be mutual between us.
Two times a day
Well i want there to be a sexual banter between us at all times, little stuff that work up to full sex.
Same here.
Ideally would be everyday or almost everyday because I have a strong sex drive, and my partner and I are mutually strongly attracted to each other so it happens naturally. That being said, I can live with much less if we had to be apart for a long time, and I don't put a quota on my relationship so we just do what feels right.
Depends on my partner, but speaking for myself, I could definitely go without it
at least a blow job every day. some head.
Haha even a simple daily touch will work right?
I don't care about having sex in a relationship, i prefer it after marriage
Glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. Thank you
Your welcome
few times a month.
At your age it was daily.
It's quite important to make this determination early on with a potential mate as a mis-match creates a LOT of friction in LTR's. And why I think the 'no sex 'till married' group are simply tossing the dice.
There are a LOT of unhappy couples out there because of this.
I don't need it all the time but would want it, once a week would be great at minimum.
less than 2-3 times a week would definitely mean bad news for the relationship but nonstop knight is what they called me in college soo... nonstop is also prefered
I never had sex in my entire life but I'm sure as hell that won't be a priority. Because it only make a small percentage of the relationship
The relationship is not based on sex. Sex will not make you happy. Your heart and love for each other.