How often would you need sex to stay happy in a relationship?

How often would you need sex to stay happy in a relationship?

Is it something you need often or can you go without for a while? And, of course, by happy, I'm only talking about your sex life, not how great of a person your SO is.
Almost every day
Vote A
A few times a week
Vote B
A few times a month
Vote C
A few times a year
Vote D
I don't need it to stay happy
Vote E
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  • a few times a month is good enough, for a high performance sex and to keep in control of my libido

  • Sex is simply the icing on the cake. If you can learn to enjoy the cake without the icing, then the icing just makes it that much better

    • The cake is a lie.

  • Probably everyday or every other day I am surprised at the amount of people who have very low sex-drive on here... I think sex is very important in relationships and if you do not desire sex with your partner maybe you need to find a new one.

    • Keep in mind people are saying the absolute minimum, for me personally daily would probably overstimulate and it would become less pleasurable as daily masturbation has that effect. Daily sex would eventually lead to a point where ts not pleasurable at all and my body needs a week or so to recover to its normal sensetivity. Multiple times a week is a much better option where it stays enjoyable.

    • Yes 100%

  • depends... if she's only good at sex then id say daily but if she's fun and cheerful id say not that much

  • Almost every day for me

  • A few times a week.

  • Well, I want a lot of kids so that would require lots of sex haha so that's one of the biggest reasons. Aside from that I wouldn't need it as frequently to be happy, I've gone this far without it and I don't feel depressed or angry or anxious cause I'm not getting it.

    • Not really. If you want ten kids you wouldn't have to have sex more than a few dozen times, and could go months without it when pregnant. Don't thing your guy would like that though.

  • As much as it takes. Weird question :o

  • Sex everyday is just a ridiculous idea that'll never happen

  • Hmmm. Maybe 4-5 times a week so that makes me almost everyday. Dat ass!

  • Whenever the time is right.

  • A few times a week

  • i dont need it

  • Two or three times a week would be nice

  • It should be a regular thing -- not necessarily every day though.

  • Every day

  • 2 times a week at least

  • no fuck no buck

  • 3-4x a day

    • lol I read that as 3.4 lol I was like wow what happens at.4?😂

    • @WriterAndPainter then I can rest

    • Lol tuckered yourself out eh?

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  • Well, everyone is different, but me and my girlfriend have really-high sex-drives.
    We are both devout Catholics, and thus we're abstaining until marriage (both virgins), but we both agree that we'll want sex several times a day (four or five). So, for us, anything less than daily is going to be a huge struggle.

    However, we're definitely outliers, so don't use our's as a standard. For most couples, it would probably be 2-3 times a week.

    • Dude that's ridiculous. Good luck lol. You're gonna break your penis.

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