How old were you when you first noticed you were sexually attracted to the opposite sex?

What happened that made you realize this?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • My first girlfriend was in kindergarten, and I was 6 by the time I had my first kiss. It was a peck. I was 17 when lost my virginity and there was no turning back from there. When did I first realize, I was attracted to the opposite sex? Like never... if gays are born gay then I was born hetero.

    It's not something you realize some day, like it's a choice; you just are because that is who and what you are.

    But I understand the genius of question, in today's world there is a lot of outside influences being placed on children that breeds confusion that otherwise would not be there for you. Like you have to realize despite all the things you have been told, you just like women because you're a man... and somehow you need to justify that. Because if wanted to be with a man then that a good thing as well, so maybe you should be with a man... but then you "realize" that's f'ing gross I must be hetero?

  • Age 11. A gal pal and I used to get naked together and do some basic research despite being totally unsexualized. When that cute little boner popped up, we both laughed and thought I just had to pee, like her baby brother when she changed his diapers. Little did I know, at age 11. I also felt some random excitement but I had no idea why. Gotta love DNA!

Most Helpful Girl

  • 12 i just wanted boys to kiss me all the time but they didn't

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  • Around 12 when I started jerking off

  • I was 10. Can't say specific something other than an erection and "I like her".

  • I was in the 2nd grade

  • I think about aged 5 when I saw Cheetara in the Thunderbirds cartoon. The archetypal perfect woman.

    How old were you when you first noticed you were sexually attracted to the opposite sex?
  • Probably 10 years old.

  • Oh I don't know.. sometime between 10-13yo.

    There was this new girl on the block, and we'd exchange letters daily because we cannot stay on phone for long because parents. lol

    We'd sneak out at night, leave the letter on a tree and call one another for like 5s to let each other know the letter was there lol.

  • 7th grade. 12 years old.

  • I think 12 was the first time where I saw it in a sexual nature. I was attracted to girls before, but I don't think there was any sexual infatuation then. I still thought that erections were just things that happened to every guy but I didn't know what they actually were for.

  • About ten

  • 12. Wanted to kiss my friend.