Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I’ve never had sex before, but will be soon. I’m nervous bc I’ve never inserted anything in there besides the tip of my finger. It was uncomfortable to even put that much, even though I was pretty wet. Does that mean sex will hurt for me?
My man is really sweet and says he will take his time and not to worry, but I’m still worried he won’t be able to put it in and that if he does it’ll hurt me. I literally get so nervous just thinking about it.
Any tips, suggestions, or experiences will help.
How painful is sex the first time?
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44 46It wasn't really painful at all.
Did you use lube or anything to help?
No I was already soaked. I will tell you the details and my experiences but not in public :)
I call bs Mr. Anonymous
Call bs on what?
I was looking at something else and posted on yours instead. Anyways, did you go through with it yet?
Not yet, getting married next month so very sooooon
It should not be painful..
Depends on if you have used sex toys if no penetrating toys used then yes it will hurt
No it won’t.
Did he marry you? If not, don't do it
We’re both waiting for marriage. Getting married soon haha.
Hoooaah same here. Straight respect.
by the way just to surprise u. Some girls like to be called a whore. Its a fetish😝
@Asker you have my compliments for waiting till marriage to have sex. Women like that are rare to find here in the west
@Holisticapproachsara Yes, I'm aware that broken women like this label and like being known for being nothing more than a cock sleeve. You should seek out therapy.
Hey! Whats wrong with being cock sleeve? Now women who like men need to go to therapy? What dude are u gay or what? I always knew that😂
@Holisticapproachsara Lol You do you, but I'm going to throw this one here: www.heritage.org/.../harmful-effects-early-sexual-activity-and-multiple-sexual-partners-among-women
Is your boyfriend's penis small or big...
It will depend a lot on that
It will fit. It probably will hurt because it's breaking your hymen. It won't hurt the entire time and after about the 5th time, it won't hurt at all.
I’m drunk Ian Malcom, can I dance too?
Honestly I wouldn't know, I guess it can be somewhat painful for some girls their first time. I've never slept with a virgin, I was never the first dick and mine is on the thin/small side anyway so I don't think any girl I've been with felt any pain.
Too much
Why was it? Not too wetv
Really?
Yes.
If you are worried that the breaking or tearing of your maidenhead will hurt you can request the your OBGYN can painlessly cut it for you and no pain when you want to do it
Aha that sounds scary lol. I’ll just wait til my wedding night haha
Is it his first time?
It felt amazing for me. No pain at all
This is more of a girl thing brobro😂
Lmao
LOL 😂
Lmfao
Surprisingly i know some guys who said it hurt because the girl was so tight when they tried to squeeze in her. But of course their pain doesn't compare to being stretched out from trying to take a dick
I guess it could be possible.
It’s a myth. It’ll be fine.
The only virgin that gave me that honor, I made sure, with lots of foreplay, that she was sexually aroused.
I had her get on top to control how deep she let me inside her, and to control any pain there might be.
She was hesitant at first but quickly got into the rhythm, and with a push, we were full on fucking.
I asked her if she felt any pain. She said there was a little, but what she felt after, more than made up for that. We’ve stayed friends and now I hear she has a kid now.
You never forget your first.
That was nice that you let her control but wow I don't know how she did cowgirl as a virgin. Thats one of the deepest positions and would usually hurt more. But ig we have different bodies for a reason
@DizzyDesii I didn’t want to force anything so I suggested it and she gladly did.
I didn't experience much pain.
I didn't find it painful at all. And she said she didn't feel anything.
Just 1 suggestion. take your time.. its not a race...
Use a cucumber to practice
Depends on if you do it right or just slide it in. If you actually do foreplay, use lube, and so on, it should be little to no pain. If you do no foreplay or prep, yeah, it is going to hurt for a little bit till you relax and loosen up.