How to control my head?

So my boyfriend will be talking about stuff and explain examples and he uses himself as an example saying like, id fuck ____ and not date her. then i get in my head about it and i know he’s not saying he’d actually fuck her i just don’t like hearing that out of his mouth, but then i kind of freak out about it i guess in a way bc i don’t like hearing it. so how do i fix this?
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  • There is nothing to fix. The simple solution is to stop dating, being around, sleeping with, or having relationships with toxic people.


    Ephesians 4:29

    ''Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.''

    • we aren’t toxic. i have insecurities that sometimes i can’t handle. and in relationships there is always room for growth. and i am trying to grow and get better.

    • Being in a relationship and talking about wanting to screw other people is toxic. What leaves the mouth comes from the heart. When you realise this, your life will become very peaceful because you will no longer entertain any of it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You’re upset because your boyfriend is speaking his mind. All men think like that but few are honest about it. Your man is honest. You have nothing to worry about.

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  • Wow, that's something you really don't need to know.. I think that's pretty disrespectful how your boyfriend is talking this way in front of your face. Tbh I'd dump him, if I were you; he seems like a major a$$hole.

  • Most men are always thinking about other women. Sadly, this is something you will have to get used to.

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  • Just try to put it out of your mind, and remind yourself that it's only a fantasy.

    • thank you. it’s been a big issue in our relationship and i now am able to apologize after i freak out, becuase i know i’m in the wrong.. but i just wish i didn’t get a cloudy head and say shit like that.

    • You can also turn the tables on him, and say something like, 'Oh, that reminds me... I saw this guy yesterday, and he was so damn hot!', etc.

  • You say "I didn't really need to know that"

  • so you are upset your boyfriend is talking about wanting to fuck other people? Are you in an open relationship?

    • no he was saying an example so when he is explaining stuff he says an example and he does it with himself. and he’s not saying he’d do it it’s just an example of it

  • I don't swear nearly as much as others swear and curse and cuss. Lol.
    I for one though, do like to have a way with words. Whats the best to do? I'm not sure.

  • Look ofcourse he shouldn't say that infront of you rather keep it to himself neither should you say these things infront of him. Its human nature for both of you to get feelings for others doesn't mean you gonna act on it.