How to cure the addiction of blowjob and swallow cum?

Have you ever been addicted to this?
How to solve it?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Not sure how to answer the question. Not sure I see the problem.

    With my girlfriend and I, when she is sucking me it not only feels amazing, but for both of us it is the most intimate sharing. We tend to a very primal animal sex - not always, but most often.

    When she sucks me I feel like a dominant male. She feels that sense of female submissiveness. It satisfies our most basic animal needs.

    Here is the funny part. It feels incredibly intimate. This may be a bit corny, but when I cum in her mouth and she swallows I feel totally accepted. She is accepting the most basic most fundamental thing I can give her. A part of me.

    Moreover, she has told me that she feels that she is sharing something with me and is accepting me at the most essential level. That I am giving her the gift of myself.

    In fact, maybe too much information, but sometimes I will cum all over myself and she will either lick it off of me or she will put it on her fingers and feed it to me. Better still, she take my cum in her mouth and share it with me in a deeply intimate kiss.

    In all of this, at the rist of getting - pardon the pun - way too mushy, we feel like we are reaching our most base animal needs and at the same time sharing something deeply personal and intimate and loving. Speaking as a man, I feel totally accepted and wanted.

    Maybe that is all way too sentimental and hopelessly idealized. Certainly at the animal level I am overvaluing it. In that sense we are just two primates satisfying our need to reproduce and my need to be the alpha male.

    Still, I can't deny both halves of the feeling. Honestly, I can't imagine why anyone would want to cure that. That it is not an addiction, that is recurring to what makes me a sexual being.

    • you have basic idea as my boyfriend. he told me when i swallow him. he feels part of him is inside of me.

    • Yes, I do think it is something instinctive in the human male. I've never seen any data on it, but it seems logical. In a similar way, when I cum on my girlfriend, I feel like I am asserting my territory and claiming my girlfriend as my own. I also, honestly, need that sense when we have sex that I will impregnate my girlfriend. It is all very instinctive and primal and I do think that your boyfriend and I are not that unusual. Again, I have never seen any data on it, but it is consistent with how human males evolved.

    • One other thing - and this is really none of my business so I almost apologize in advance. You talk about "curing" your "addiction" to swallow cum. As I said, I am not sure why you would want to do that, but I would say don't take that from your boyfriend. It may seem almost absurd, but he instinctively needs that sense of you accepting him and taking a part of him. Were you to stop, he would never probably say it, but he would probably be deeply hurt and feel rejected. To be sure, not every guy is the same. Because we are more than the sum of our instincts, the way we were raised and all sorts of other factors impacts the way we respond to our sexual instincts and what we like and what we don't. However, I can tell you, if your boyfriend feels accepted by you sucking and swallowing his cum and you stop, he will likely by deeply hurt. In that you are dealing with the most basic sexual instincts of the human male. As I say, I really have no business telling you how to handle your sexual relationship with your boyfriend. So I apologize, but it could actually impact your relationship with him, so just keep it in mind.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm a bottom gay man and nearly addicted to giving blowjobs and swallowing cum. Why do you want to get cured of all that great protein intake? ;-)

  • I am not that addicted to bj but swallowing yes. No cure lol just enjoy and take it all!

    • Finally someone who doest make swallowing feel like a sin here on gag!

    • @hemadesouza haha yes! I like being submissive sometimes.

    • Well, its not about what we are. Its just that people here make us feel so bad about it

  • You can solve that by becoming gay.

    How to cure the addiction of blowjob and swallow cum?
    • You don't "become" gay. You're gay from birth. She would just only be realizing it

    • @Cokebottle oh bull shit

    • 🤣🤣🤣🙌

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  • Why would you want to cure it?

  • I can't get enough. They call me the cum guzzler round here

  • From which end of the act?

    You want to cure a guy who always wants this from a girl or you want to cure a woman who addicted to doing it?

  • Your actually addicted to the hormones in the sperm that get absorbed by your body and make you feel good so it's a chemical addiction like smoking or heroin and therefore extremely hard to break my advice is to commit a small crime and get a year or so in a all female prison

    • I think it was more like a troll and not serious. ha ha

  • I don’t want to be cured.

    • Nice! but what do you do when you don't have a guy?

    • I’m addicted to it because of my guy. Without him, I’m sure I would find a miracle cure real quick.

    • Nice!

  • Some would call that a valuable skill

  • i do not see any reason to stop something i like

  • Why do you want to?

  • I’m addicted to this being done to me, so I guess the cure would be for two of us together. Problem solved! LOL

  • This sounds really great, I wouldn't fight this addiction.

  • Are you?

  • I absolutely love giving girls oral.

  • LOL and the 100000x replies of why do u want to cure that ROFL

  • Fucking them would be more enjoyable, but that can be addictive as well.

  • Why do I need to be cured?

  • Why would you want to?

  • Why stop?

  • Oh the struggles

  • No but I wish my partner was

  • It is a good thing

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