Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Apologies in advance for the long post and adding another penis question on here.
Important details I'm average below the belt but good average. 3.5 soft and like 6 hard never had any complaints or worries previously. I'm a confident guy but get cocky and become a bit of a shit talker with alchole. Me and my friends about 2 months ago go to a jacuzzi kick back at a buddy house. There 7 people 3 hetero couples and 1 mutual female friend. Everyone drinking and having a good time. Someone suggest skinny dipping my buddy tries to kill the idea. I shit talk him saying he must be tiny mostly just immature guy humor. My girlfriend tries to shut me up but his girlfriend surprisly pushed the skinny dip idea and that feeds my ego. I win and we all get out to strip and his girlfriend rips his shorts off reaveal a giant softy that's about my size hard. everyone in shock and comments/jokes about it. This isn't a porno so we all just get back in the jacuzzi. Me and my girl sit across from him (original seats) and she starts laughing aparently dicks float and his head acting like a buoy and kinda just bouncing at the surface I admit it was a very funny view but not a good one for my confidence. Night goes on and regular convo continue a lot of dick and tit jokes but nothing bad happens. I did catch my girl glancing at it but that's normal I guess. I one point he did get hard and turns out it he has a porn size dick that both long and fat he apologized and tried to hide it. It was normal most guys got hard at least once that night there was 4 girls who were at least topless after all. My confidence has been shot tho. My girlfriend noticed that I'm having a harder time getting a boner and I can't watch porn anymore. Evertime I see a big one I think of him and thats weird af so yea. Now we're in quartined and we should be having crazy amounts of sex but my confidence is kinda holding me back and I'm suddenly insecure about my size. I would appreciate any advice on how to move past it
How to get over recent self made insecurity (warning 18+)?
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What Girls & Guys Said
41 11there is more to a guy then penis size. some girls do the samething like oh her breasts are bigger, she has thinner thighs etc, be happy with who you are, you never had any complaints because its nothing to complain about. we all have what we consider imperfections, we are our own worst critics in life, embrace who you are, there is always someone bigger and always someone smaller, there are guys out there rocking the micro penis
U can dm me about it
Yea I can't dm because of my level sorry
Can you fallow me so I can dm you?
Let’s first clarify that almost all girls check out other guys bulge if it’s there. (At least I do). I mean 6 is a decent size. But does it have any thickness? Because most of us girls prefer thickness over length anyways.
About 5 inches around
My friend D was also extremely thick 🙃
As long as you’re girlfriend doesn’t seem detached/uninterested in you, then you literally have nothing to worry about.
No she still very loving but there is some things are worrying me about her tbh
I know u want to be anonymous but is there any chance u could pm me. Promise not to judge or say who u are. I would just like to ask something that's kinda Embarrassing and explain so more details
No I’m sorry I don’t PM people on here. What does she do that’s worrying you?
That's fair. The groups wants to keep skinny dipping and she took their side
Oh, I don’t think that’s overly concerning. Maybe she just think it’s fun.
Yea the group as a whole liked it and suggested making it a regular thing. I was kinda against it but she thinks seeing it more will normalize it and help me get over it. I don't know tho
It’s okay my bad has a small dick and oh well I mean it sucks don’t get wrong but what can I do sometimes we fake every moan anyways to let you guys feel great about ur selfs but nope
What do u mean ur bad?
My man**
Oh ok what size are we talking?
Same size as urs grows an inch when it’s hard he has pretty unsatisfying dick u should be okay
Oh so he 4.5 hard yea that is on the small side
I know u want to be anymous but is there any chance u could dm me. I promise not to judge or reveal who u are. There some questions I want to ask u since u have a different view point of anyone here. I would really appreciate it I like ur honesty tbh
Stop worrying about other guys dick sizes. Im sure your girlfriend isn't just w you for your dick and she will appreciate it no matter what if she is a good girlfriend. Just enjoy the moment and plesure!! And dont even worry about your girlfriend looking at his dick anyone would’ve look I dont think she would stare long enough to realize how big his dick is.
Thanks for the advice but yea she definitely relized it everyone did haha
Like A-cup boobs on girls, you just have to be at peace on what you have.
And I have standing. My dims are the same.
Haha yea I guess trying to make peace is all I can do
I got really (really) good at fingering and oral sex. One or the other is almost certain to deliver an orgasm. Not true with sex. Fewer than 25% have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Once girls stop the futile pursuit of an orgasm from sex, they appreciate you.
Tbh I'm still confident in my bedroom skills and I don't think he automatically a better lover. It just felt very demasculating to se him naked. his soft was the same as my erect it swung around so much and to know my girl was starring and all eyes were on him. Made me fee demasculized and jealous tbh. It's just a mental block I have to get past
nice troll fetish story again
Focus on images of naked women or you having sex with your girlfriend previously. That should get you hard.