Honestly speaking, I know you love your boyfriend but it just seems like in the end it’s not going to work. You both need to be sexually compatible and no matter how much people say it’s not important, that kind of compatibility is important. You shouldn’t need to put yourself through something like that and your boyfriend shouldn’t need to not have an unfulfilled sex life to his needs.
0 3 0 0This answer right here. Might be a hard pill to swallow but it's true.
@Spookydood yes not sure how long they have been dating, but she’s very very lucky this guy hasn’t left her because men typically get hurt egos when the sex isn’t genuine and a girl is putting on an act and faking. Sex is a bonding moment that needs to be mutual
We've been dating for a year and half. I've been very transparent with him telling him that I'm not feeling any pleasure. I don't fake moan or anything. I just do things I know will make him feel good.
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Most people enjoy giving their partner pleasure as much as receiving it. Acting the part doesn't fulfill his need to be intimate and share the sexual experience.
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Yeah, sorry anon. Pretty much what kylee said. It's gonna be a rough rode unless you learn to act
0 0 0 0You might want to try eating herbal supplements because your hormones are off.
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1 1Your partner don't appreciate your efforts, sounds like you are already doing above and beyond as was is expected from you as an asexual. Sure your partner would prefer to be in relationship with a sexual girl, but he knows that you are asexual girl, also girls tend to be less sexual than guys, so he can't be sure that he would be able to find a girl that would had a better sex with him than you.
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager0 0 0 0Why would you want to, as an asexual?
0 0 0 0Being asexual doesn't equal an aversion to sex
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