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Sexual Health How to make my labia minora or the inner pussy lips, larger? Naturally. Or should I get them surgically lengthened?
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Does anyone know or has anyone tried to make their labia minora larger? I have puffy labia majora, the outside pussy lips, but my labia minora is smaller. I'd like to have them sticking out the vagina, or at least a little bigger. I hear guys much prefer the "outtie" vaginas with larger labia minora. When my boyfriend goes down on me, I sometimes have to open my outer pussy lips with my fingers because my labia minora is small and my outer pussy lips are so puffy. He says he likes sucking on big juicy inner pussy lips, but I don't have that. I feel so self concious now and I don't even want to show anyone my pussy again, not even him because he prefers them larger. Guys everywhere say they prefer the labia minora to hang out from the outer pussy lips. How can I stretch mine naturally? Should I just get surgery instead? I'm also going to get breast implants because I have small breasts. I'm a fairly pretty girl, but I have small breasts and small labia minora. I'd like to fix these things because guys are always saying bigger is better, and now I don't even want anyone seeing me naked anymore because I'm not good enough. I feel like the guy won't like my vagina. I wish I had larger labia minora, can someone help? Should I just get surgery like I will with my breasts?
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A new level of stupid just entered the world...
Everyone is different, porn actors excepted: they're all the same.
But some tribes stretched their labias
I wish we could trade our vaginas!
Your vagina sounds ideal, please dont be self conscious.
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No it doesnt. Read that. Most guys say the outtie vaginas are better and an instant turn on. Mine looks childish.
That is actually surprising. I still heard men talk more negative about outies than innies.
No. Most say they look p*rnstar fake, childish, a turn off.
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Outties are usually more sexually desirable than innies
I really can't believe that lol But hey, your boyf loves you anyways, even with (in your eyes) not so perfect vagina. The opinions of others shouldn't matter so much.
If a guy had a small penis, would you expect him to consider surgery?
Your pussy sounds delightful just as it is and any guy who gets to give you oral is honoured.
I would not recommend surgery as you might loose sensation, and there are always risks with that route.
If you are really keen to experience a larger labia, you could consider some manual stretching.
For a temporary experience, perhaps you could try a pussy pump? I know that wouldn't enlarge just your inner labia but it might give you a feel for the experience and your SO might like it as an infrequent experience.
STOP all that thoughts about surgery. to your breasts or pussy. Its a complete waste and too large tits are a turn off for most guys.
As for labia size, some wants it bigger kos its easy to lick and make girls wet.. but smaller labia minora is a turn on it itself kos it resembles more of an "innocent"/ untouched pussy of a small girl. After all, a pussy is a pussy and guys will run after that... all you need is correct teasing and confidence.
Why would a small girl vagina be a turn on? Thats what everyone says. Innie pussies look prebuscent and only pedophiles would like that. I dont want to look like a child.
"All you need is correct teasing and confidence". See thats what I hate to hear. I'd like for guys to be able to look at my vagina and find it to be an instant turn on. Like guys say that for the outtie pussies. But the only way mine would turn him on is if I tease him. When another girl could just show her outtie and turn him on without teasing or confidence.
U r wrong. Innie or outie, only girl with confidence and/or teasing with correct body languages turns guys on. You see it's not particularly the vagina we are interested in. Throwing a vagina at a guy is same as throwing a raw fish, if not attached to a nice lady.
Then why do guys say that outie is an instant turn on? The only way innie can turn a guy on is if she does something. But just looking at an outie is enough. Looking at an innie isnt.
I must stress yet again u r wrong in that belief. See girls they cast as p*rn or erotic models for example, almost half if then are innies. Now would any one cast them if they aren't a turn on? While p*rn industries would be with outies in your logic
I never said in p*rn. im talking about IRL. And people say things in p*rn are bad. Most p*rn does cast innies. But everytime people say those vaginas look fake. Mine looks like that too. But mine isn't fake. I was born like that and I wish I had the hanging labias because it seems thats the only things guys find an instant turn on. Guys say that innies aren't sexy. Outies are, just looking at an outie is enough to turn a guy on. But an innie, the girl has to do extra work to turn him on, I can't just take my pants off and get a man turned on. Just looking at it would do nothing for him it may even turn guys off. Thats what some guys say because it looks prebuscent.
Believ what u want. U just base on hearsay.
Whats your preference? Honestly? Dont say it doesn't matter because I know you like one more than the other. Whats your honest preference?
I hv no preference honest. But I hv observed in my experience, outties gets wet easily n easy to make them wet n squirming by licking kos can fold n tease those large lips. But innies r hot too n I like spreading them n it's lovely like a bloomed rose I can lick forever.
Wait, you're going to get one or more unnecessary and risky operations, to please other people? What are you, their ragdoll?
No. Im hopeless at this point.
People say if you want better fish, change the bait. In my case the bait looks too much like a child.
Would you want someone else to get unnecessary operations to attract you?
I like all types and know lots of guys that prefer innies, what if you go through surgery, break up and your next boyfriend prefers innies?
pussy is pussy, dick is dick. I also won't do surgery cause umm "most girls like it real big"
as long as it does the job it's all cool
I mean I've got this right he's eating pussy and you pull your lips out of the way for him how damn lazy can you be
Maybe use a BIG toy?
Usually women want to make their labia smaller, and I can't stand all the cosmetic surgeons pushing that.
That said, I do like large labia minora and am glad that others do as well, but cosmetic surgery on the vulva is totally unnecessary, and you need to find someone who appreciates your vulva as it is.
Fuck yourself as much as you can!!!
I love a woman with small breast! I like the outer to which is hard to find in a woman now or days so your pussy isn't any different then others. It's not like your the only one. I'm sure that you have a pretty pussy any way so show your self off so a man can admire what you have!
I like pussy how it comes I'm sure urs is just as hot as any x
Hell no don't add flaps... Fuck what he says... Innie pussys are where it's at I think.. it's all about the little pussys... If he's looking for a big ol blown out set of piss flaps send him hiking and throw that little tight bad ass one this way haha... As for tits bigger is not better at all... Those girls you other esdsee with natural big tits, as soon as they pop out of the bra they turn saggy and one goes a few feet one all over.. and big fake ones look like a tube sock with a. cookie in it... small tits look good in any position..
Guys care more about the girl than just her parts. In my opinion, all female boobs and pussies look really nice.
Most guys prefer the outtie vaginas though because they are rare. I have an innie vagina and I dont want any guy to laugh at it or not be turned on by it. Guys say the ones with large labia minora are an instant turn on. Guy say big boobs are an instant turn on. I have neither, and I dont want anyone looking at my body until I can fix it.
You have small boobs and your inner lips don't stick out, still sounds really attractive. Don't try to fix something that ain't broken or you'll break it for real.
Internet guys are nicer than real life. Guys prefer large labia minora and larger breasts. The surgery for labia minora to get longer doesn't take too long to heal.
I'm a guy and I like both big and small minora and both big and small boobs. Does your boyfriend try to make you feel better about yourself?
He says how he likes big but is fine with me being small. He talks about his ex girlfriends. How he had some girls with big breasts that were still perky. He said he loved those breasts. He talks about how some girls had big juicy inner pussy lips that he just loved to suck on. And then I ask him how he feels about my parts, and he says he likes them. Not loves them like how he said with his ex girlfriends. But just likes them. I guess it's my fault for asking. He told me to not get jealous because I wanted his honesty and he delivered. I still wish he would describe my body like he describes theirs, with complete pleasure.
You should never talk about your exes with your boyfriend or girlfriend, that's just rude.
I asked him though.
Remember, if he doesn't like the way you look, he wouldn't be with you.
But I feel like he's only settling, and not with someone or a body he actually prefers.
If I liked a girl, I'd like every part of her body, no matter how flawed she thinks it is. I think both innie and outie are hot.
He likes my parts but he loves his ex girlfriends parts. He even said that. But he said he loves me so it doesn't matter if he loves their parts and only likes mine. How am I supposed to feel about that?
Did you tell him how you feel?
Yes and he said not to ask him nymore because I can't handle the truth. He said he's with me and not them for a reason.
He likes big boobs and large labias, but he'd rather be with you. He cares more about you than your privates.
But they aren't as pleasurable to him. Thats my point
If you wanna get the surgeries that bad, research the doctors.
I wanted a natural solution. So my only hope is a surgeon.
What are you gonna do if your next boyfriend likes small boobs and innie vagina?
That would be extremely rare. Im up against the vast majority. I have 2 things that my future partner will be forced tolerate. Not love but put up with my parts.
If my next girlfriend had large boobs and an outie vagina, I'd be really attracted to her. If she had small boobs and an innie, I'd be equally attracted to her.
Thats you. you're like one of the few. most guys have a preference. Once they have the larger body parts, what can we smaller ladies do to please guys? Wed have to work extra hard to get a guy hard. When all the big labia, big breasted woman has to do is take her clothes off and that would be enough to get the guy horny. But if a girl like me with small breasts and no inner labia sticking out my vagina got naked, it wouldn't do anything for him because he already saw the larger parts.
Both would get me going.
Most guys would be turned on by a naked women. No matter how big or small her boobs or minora is.
I can suck on them for a long time for you
You dont want them sticking out. Some girls dream of them being short.
bigger outer lips are seen as nicer any way so just enjoy your body
No. Guys always talk about big juicy inner lips that look like roast beef. They all find it more of a turn on than small labia. I dont want to show my vagina anymore because I dont want any guy to reject it. Id like for guys to be turned on just by looking at it too like the girls with large labia minora
This is almost humorous. Who is going to reject you because of the size of your lips? I have NEVER heard "I won't date you because you don't have roast beef pussy" You are listening to only half of the crowd. Which half is correct? neither, there is no right answer. Bigger is not ALWAYS better
How Do You Stretch Your Inner Labias to make them longer? I have pierced them in order to use weights, but I cannot find any info on how much weight to use, or how long time-wise to wear the weights, or even how often to use them. Any help would be appreciated