How to make my labia minora or the inner pussy lips, larger? Naturally. Or should I get them surgically lengthened?

Does anyone know or has anyone tried to make their labia minora larger? I have puffy labia majora, the outside pussy lips, but my labia minora is smaller. I'd like to have them sticking out the vagina, or at least a little bigger. I hear guys much prefer the "outtie" vaginas with larger labia minora. When my boyfriend goes down on me, I sometimes have to open my outer pussy lips with my fingers because my labia minora is small and my outer pussy lips are so puffy. He says he likes sucking on big juicy inner pussy lips, but I don't have that. I feel so self concious now and I don't even want to show anyone my pussy again, not even him because he prefers them larger. Guys everywhere say they prefer the labia minora to hang out from the outer pussy lips. How can I stretch mine naturally? Should I just get surgery instead? I'm also going to get breast implants because I have small breasts. I'm a fairly pretty girl, but I have small breasts and small labia minora. I'd like to fix these things because guys are always saying bigger is better, and now I don't even want anyone seeing me naked anymore because I'm not good enough. I feel like the guy won't like my vagina. I wish I had larger labia minora, can someone help? Should I just get surgery like I will with my breasts?
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  • You can use a pussy pump. Repetitive use can leave some pro longed results. It would work for your situation. It helped me in six months with girth, so yeah.

  • Why alter your body when you could find a better man all pussy is beautiful

  • Naw don't stretch em out ull have a flobby pussy

  • Get a pussy pump. Google it. It will help you either way

  • Honestly, I have an outie and I’m very self conscious about it I never knew guys liked it better than an innie. It isn’t super long or anything but I keep hearing jokes about outies looking old or used. You should be happy with what you have because I know I’d rather have what you have

  • You can try pulling on them gently to lengthen them it takes a lot of time like years of continually gently pulling them and they will stretch, ask your boyfriend he may do it as well, the more time you spend on them the more they can stretch.
    I know there are African tribes where they practice this to lengthen them because its more appealing to the males.
    But to be honest you should accept your body for how it is and try not to stress about it :)

  • Wow why in the hell would your man be complaining about your pussy he is lucky to get to go down on you

  • Eat more starch and suck more cock and it will take care of itself. I am a personally witness to this and it is the gift that keeps on giving.

    • and personally drunk and meant personal but regardless get on ya knees

  • Wth? I have a big vulva (always did, since a kid.) And I hate them. I'd kill to have a small one and big outside lips. Most older men like big labias. Most men in general prefer yours. I seriously thought this post was sarcasm until I read it.
    Please don't try to change yourself for nobody. That's making yourself 'settle' to what he likes. There aren't any guaranteed 'forever's'in any relationships. Why try to change them when A LOT of men prefer this anyway? I've never met a guy who likes them?
    They're kinda unfcomforable too (for me) I actually tuck them in because its very uncomfortable when it sticks out and touches my underwear. You should be proud of your body.
    Believe men when they say that they don't care. Cause they really don't. Lol. And yours is preferred so don't be self concious.

    • Most guys prefer larger.

    • www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q5116-labia-minora-size
      See for yourself. Some guys even said small is a complete turn off.

    • Yea I read that before I posted. Notice the guys who said that are older. And the other younger guys don't really like it. Why would you say that its bad based on one question? People everywhere gives bad nicknames and jokes to big labia. Even stereotypes. Love yourself girl. Your man likes it. Most importantly he likes YOU, so don't be insecure. You're good.

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  • Who knows these days they have surgery for almost everything

  • If any guy refuses to go down on you because your vagina isn't "pretty" enough, then he doesn't deserve you. He doesn't deserve any girl, frankly. He thinks your vagina is ugly? Tell him to take a look at his dick if he wants to see something ugly. He wants bigger lips? Tell him you want a bigger dick.

    Seriously, don't get surgery down there. It's not worth it. Plus everything changes and stretches out when you have children (that is, if you want to have children).

    • Most men are like that. What am I supposed to do? Wait until Im 50 until someone actually prefers my body and not forced to accept it just because he likes me.

    • How do you know that your next BF wants big anything? I like small boobs and smaller labia. So there. I know plenty of guys that want smaller. So if you change to bigger, then you just rejected half of the guys that would have wanted you smaller

    • He shouldn't feel "forced" to accept it. And @stevie123 is right, everyone has different preferences. And who cares if most of the guys on this site say they prefer larger? Like I said, if any guy says you labia is not big enough, tell him his dick isn't big enough. Most guys on this site would get offended if a girl commented on how his dick looks. Criticizing someone's body is not nice. I'm sure you are able to make him cum even with your smaller labia. So he is still experiencing sexual pleasure. And if your anatomy is a deal breaker, then he doesn't deserve you. If he can't love your body, you need to find someone who will.

  • Please don't do anything to your labia minora!!!

    • I want to make it longer or larger. Surgery or naturally but I prefer naturally.

    • Why the hell would you want to do that?

    • Because most guys like that. a lot of guys say the outtie vaginas are instant turn on for them. I have innie with puffy outer lips. I just dont want a guy to think its ugly. Or if I could, turn him on just by looking at it like the outtie vaginas

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