How was your first sexual experience?

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How old were you? Did you enjoy it? Was it good, bad? Did something surprising you from that first experience?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend was 15 and I was 16 and it was, unlike with a lot of people, a great experience. We were lucky enough to have the time and privacy that we needed and it was great.

We lived in a small town in Michigan. My gfd's parents lived on an inland lake and they would throw a huge party every Independence Day. A Bar-b-q. Softball and darts and chatting on the lake. People would go out on boats on the dock and water ski or you would go swimming. Inside they set up a small mini-casino with a roulette wheel. It was a big event.

Then, after dark, people would take their boats out to the middle of the lake, tie them together and have dancing and watch the fireworks display. After the fireworks, more dancing and a bonfire onshore.

As I say, it was a big affair. I had been to a few before my girlfriend and I started dating - my junior year, her sophomore year, in high school.

Well, that year, we took a pontoon boat out - her parents owned one - just the two of us. We went to the middle of the lake and after the dancing and fireworks, we told everyone that we were going to stay out a bit and just star gaze.

Well, it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what happened next. One thing led to another and we had sex for the first time in our lives. Unprotected sex, I should add, as this was not planned and teenaged hormones tend not to think very much.

It was amazing and for the next few days I was sure of three things. 1) I was a MAN!!! 2) I was totally in love. 3) My girlfriend was the girl I was going to marry, get a house with a white picket fence, have children and live the rest of my life with. I mean I wanted to be with her every second!!

Then it hit me. "Hey, what if I got her pregnant." The hormones wore off, the brain kicked in. I started to try to imagine what it meant for my education and college. How would we tell our parents?

Truth be told, if I am to be honest, there was a part of me that was okay with it. I kept thinking that I would be a good dad and I could make it work. For the most part though, I started to worry and every day I would ask my girlfriend, "Did you have IT, yet?"

The "It" being her period. She got REALLY tired of my asking that question.

However, nothing to worry about. She was not pregnant and we continued to date and have sex - albeit with condoms, except for one time a year later when we did have a serious pregnancy scare - until her freshman year, my sophomore year, in college.

My memories of her are still fond. Just that going to different colleges hundreds of miles apart made us grow apart. You grow up and the teenaged hormones wear off. Suffice to add that I am now the besotted father - with my girlfriend (we don't want to be married) - of three little Munchkins and I am living happily ever after.

Still, it is funny. It was great sex and I am still sort of surprised how, even as I was having a panic attack I was open to the idea of being a teen dad if that is what fate (and my teen hormones) had decided for me. I was scared, no doubt of it, but I was sure I was meant to do it.

Overall, it was a great - if not unmixed - experience.

Wraven · Accepted Answer

Traumatic

So i didn't lose my virginity until i was 28. Yes, if you want to know why, ask me.

I lost it after getting really hammered at a goth club several detroiters know as City Club. Basically Cass and Bagley in DT Detroit.

So anyway, was really drunk, someone i knew from High school that really liked me, but i was both too shy and too naive or dense to care at that point.(I know, "shut up"). Came over to me, now i was way too drunk to know what she was saying, or how i was talking, but it lead to her pulling me into the womans stall on another level in the Leeland Building.

Well turns out we were both drinking, pretty heavily liquid courage and stupidity.

Now, quick disclosure, I'm very thick, like probably a 1/4" wider than a toilet paper roll... maybe 1/3", and pretty long.

When two people who have been drinking a lot, have dirty bathroom sex, without foreplay, and without lube or a lubed condom, it will go south very fast if you are like me. (Uncircumsized by the way). So she gets it in, how i have no clue. We get maybe 3 - 4 up and downs with her on top of me sitting on the toilet. Before we hear drip drip drip (no not the Chumbawomba song). Blood, a lot of blood.

Long story short. I tore right down the middle of my foreskin down about an inch and a half along the side. Which had to be stitched and cauterized. If you have a fetish for red hot pokers down there, i salute you.
She needed stitches and and internal bandage, and had to be hospitalized for 3 days while they monitored the area.

What changed since that day? I don't get drunk anymore.

laurieluvsit · Answer

I had 2 firsts. I was first taught to give blowjobs when I was 8. The second was my first vaginal sex when I was 12. Go ahead with the unhappy faces... it just happened that way.

ohsheeT · Answer

Okay so I was 15 and a half almost 16 she it was on break from college she was 19 my cousin introduced us one thing led to another and we had sex she said it was good I thought it was terrible I was really angry at myself because I thought for sure I was going to hell and it wasn't even any good but I got really lucky the best thing in the world happened to me because she calls me back and wanted to do it again for the same thing happened the second time and the third time she said all three times were great and I just couldn't figure it out the first time she gave me a 2 days Advance warning mom's going to be gone Saturday she wanted me to come over early in the morning Saturday came she called me yet and I went there but you days I had nothing but time to think about it but when I walked in the door and we started making out I just told myself I'm going to change everything and

As we started making out and she was moaning and I said that's it I'm just going to make it all about her I'm going to give her everything she wants and that's what I did I learned how to read her eyes the color of her cheeks the way she was breathing the way she was moaning and moving her hips I could tell everything she wanted in that moment without her saying one word and I started going for this time when we finished I felt fireworks LOL I exploded and she had the wildest craziest orgasm and she told me oh my God I know what you mean now she goes that's never happened to me before she wanted to do it again but it took me three times to figure out the right way to do it I think I was totally obsessed with the defense on The Love Boat in Love American Style they were talking about seeing fireworks when you're having sex the first three times I did not see that before. The fourth time I think I seen double vision but from that moment on I have carried that with me I do the same thing 2 any girl that I have sex with is I just totally make it all about her and I have become very good at what I do and then probably a week later I was babysitting for some lady and when she got home and the girl that she was with ask me if I wanted a ride home and I said yes she was 47 she live like two blocks from me but we ended up having sex that night and for just about a year

LilyoftheLake · Answer

I was 16. I really didn't like it at ALL.

LingyRolls · Answer

First sexual experience was 12. I enjoyed it, I learned a lot and it was a supportive experience. No pressure. For actual sex it was 13 and the same, very supportive and kind.

MCheetah · Answer

It was a "meh." A 5 or 6 out of ten. It was raining that evening. I barely even remember the redhead girl's name, but she was short, so I insisted she wear her stripper heels (she was a stripper) to at least get up to 5'11". She then insisted I carry her in my arms, cause she had never been with a man physically strong enough to do that before.

So I lost my virginity and that was that, and I didn't see what the big deal was about sex. I still don't. Sex is SO goddamn overrated. At least, sex with someone you don't love or deeply care for. I only ever had that once in my life. Almost every girl I slept with I didn't love or care about.

EmyyWolf · Answer

Insanely good. But sad. As it was just a hookup

mandyfire98 · Answer

I was 15 and it was super quick lol.

Mrnobody1r · Answer

My first experience was when I was 19 with a prostitute with a face like a court wall she wasn't bad 😂

Lucy68 · Answer

I was 19 years old and it was going to be my first time with my current ex. I changed my mind at the last minute and didn't want to do it, he on the other hand wouldn't take no for an answer and he had his way. I didn't enjoy it and it hurt like freaking hell.

Paige90 · Answer

I was 14 and it was so so

ethanallen · Answer

Unfortunately, I waited too long because my first girlfriend wouldn't have sex with me after dating for a year. I finally broke up with her. I was 21 when I finally had sex for first time with a woman who was 20. We were both virgins. It was a really great experience. She was my girlfriend for two years.

Th3ft · Answer

First was honestly a bit goofy we made out in my care for like two hours without touching each other or sexually engaging one another at all.

nursekate · Answer

i was 14 when my bff taught me how to lick her pussy

RealMarek · Answer

Kafkaesque.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

GREAT!! I fucked her twice in 3 hours!! I was just about to turn 25 and she was just about to turn 19.

exitseven · Answer

I was 22. She was somebody I met at a party. I had a girlfriend at the time but I figured that it would be a long time before I got the chance again and besides, there was no chance my girlfriend would find out.

It really was not great and I regretted it afterwards. I never saw that girl again.

Bluethinker456 · Answer

It was with a teammate of mine, it was not awesome, but fine, I guess, it's understandable for a first time.

Texaskid1 · Answer

It was at at hotel in California. It was so-so. But one's first time is never that great. I would say that now at 45 I am much more experienced in how to pleasure a women.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I was 17 and nervous

Pixel343 · Answer

Absolutely terrible.  16 years old, condom broke, took place in a Honda civic. had to keep it a secret. No babies tho.

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