How would you feel if your partner used intimacy as a way to control you?

How would you feel if your partner used intimacy as a way to control you?
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Let's make it clear. Using intimacy as a way to control you is meant as an abuse tactic. Either they use sex as a bargaining chip, or use some sexual activities that you dislike or find unsettling and painful as punishment.
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  • I suppose I'd have to feel aroused.

  • Not a fan, I will not be controlled 😛

  • Controlled

  • I'd feel disrespected because no one controls me.

  • I'd break up. I don't need to be policed and cajoled. I'd resent her for even trying. "Next!"

  • It wouldn't work on me for one and I wouldn't take to kindly to her trying to manipulate me I've had my fill of manipulators in relationships.

  • Well if i can accept it or see it as compromise than yea why not

  • End it... I dont like to be manipulated

  • I'd figure she wasn't really into me much. She might not even have the capacity to comprehend or naturally engage in a relationship with a man like a normal woman would. There's something sick about that. I'd probably have to find a woman that was healthy like a lot of guys would.

  • I won't like that.

  • how can u be controlled by intamacy? i dont understand..

  • Drop them, that's some sick crap.

  • I'd say... bring it on lol

  • Not happy about the situation. This shouldn't be done in a healthy relationship.

  • I'm not going to tolerate that crap, definitely not.
    Using sex as means of control or punishment is part or an abusive or toxic relationship, because healthy sex is ALWAYS consensual. If one of the parties involved feels uncomfortable, the other person should respect it and not force it.

    • Why the fuck is there a dislike

    • @Cocacolaaddict seriously wtf 🤨🤨🤨

    • @VIVANT guess we got a rapist/abuser on gag

  • Well depends. If I get all I want in that regard, I wouldn't even be mad.

  • I'd show her my wallet with much money in it and tell her "Fine by me. I'll get sex one way or another. If not from you, then from someone, who will. Bye!"

    And then this will happen just a few hours later 😍😍😍

    How would you feel if your partner used intimacy as a way to control you?
    • How would you feel if your partner used intimacy as a way to control you?

    • Look at the gold diggers or manipulators, who got mad and downvoted me. I respect professional whores and sex masseuses much more than these freeloaders and manipulators. I'm not sorry. I'm a free man! Deal with it. Find someone else to make your sucker.

  • That's what every woman does. Get used to it.

  • Good luck with that

  • I Wouldn't... I'd be down the road, live is too short to live under that
    "Pussy control" yoke!

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