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How would you feel if your woman had a higher sex drive than you? and how would you handle that?

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  • Only answering for your comments and your reply:

    I know that happens... and have seen it in action... and have been in a position like that with a few women... My personal (candid) opinion is this:... at a certain point in our lives we are aware that our partners are either 'higher' or lower' in their sex drive than us... and I think that should be established before the parties got married...

    Many/most/some/ ? of us have had affairs when married or single, engaged, committed etc. etc. ... That said... I would eagerly allow my partner to have a lover or lovers, to satisfy her sex drive,...... but along with that is the risk of LOSING that wife/girlfriend/lover to another man...

    My 1st cousin had sex with other men through her 20's and 30's because her husband lost interest in sex quickly after they married (I don't know why)

    A friend, I worked with had a long term relationship, and yet she and I had sex at work and after work... on a few occasions, and I don't think she and her boyfriend ever married.

    It is what it is... and that is how I would handle it... let her fuck others and hope she did not leave me for 'him"

    • @yourLatinLover Glad you liked my opinion... thanks

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  • Similar to cases where guys have higher libido than girls: have sex about 3 to 5 times a week.

    Of note is, we could be horny everyday. But we need not fuck every day.

    With proper communication, respect that we still need to work and engage in other mundane activities of life, both should be matured enough to pace each other.

    And it's perfectly OK to schedule sex, like more on Friday and Saturday, and less during the weekdays.

    (Unless of course one wants sex everyday while the other once a month, then that's obvious incompatibility.)

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  • Well if that's the case I'm probably going to feel like I've been put in a washing machine ran over by a dump truck shot to the moon and dragged behind wild horses my sex drive is pretty high if hers is high I'm in big trouble

  • Realistically, it would depend on how much higher. A small-to-moderate disparity's not a big deal; not every encounter has to be full PIV, after all, and if I can keep her happy with tongue or fingers, it needn't be a problem.

    But a very large disparity, where I can't keep up? That's going to be an issue. She'd be unsatisfied, and I'd feel bad about not keeping her happy. I'm not going to say it'd be doomed from the start; I'm not the type who forgets how difficult it is to find someone once I'm with someone, so I'd certainly try to make it work, but it IS a sign of potential trouble.

    As to how it'd make me feel, well, less than you'd probably expect; I tend to think of my relationships as me and my lady, rather than as less individualized male and female, so if we're both happy, I don't give a damn about conforming to biosocial roles.

  • Id love it. I have typically been the one with the higher sex drive in the relationship

  • I would absolutely love it!

  • Could be a red flag, a man should have a higher sex drive, and woman like that might cheat.

  • I guess we'd be pretty unproductive ;)

    My ex and I had sex 3x/day. If we had a free weekend we'd knock out about 18-24 go throughs. If I met someone that was much higher than that it'd just come down to the logistics of when we're going to squeeze in more.

  • Hard to imagine but possible. I would handle it by accommodating her one way or another.

  • I wouldn’t complain what so ever , I would do my best to keep up with her

  • My wife very frequently will ask me to just go down on her. She wants to get off a lot sometimes several times in one day. She asks me to go down on her just like a guy asks her girl for a BJ.

  • she would probably be driving a really nice new car amongst other things.
    I would worship the ground she walks on.
    So ya, I guess I would be just fine with that.
    I could learn to accept that.

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