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There was this group of guys who were friended and always hanging at the bar. They had a secret snapchat where they used to post all this dirty stuff in. It was kind of a thing to post a picture on there when they got a blowjob from me in that toilet stall. I knew of it and (probably cause I was drunk) I kinda let them take a pic knowing it was just among these guys.
Me and my boyfriend never talk much about my past. He knows I had a drinking problem and that I wasn't a virgin. I'm also pretty sure he must have heard of me and the toilet bj's somehow. But recently I was on his laptop and accidentally found this obscure porn site he checked out like almost daily. And there were all the pictures of me in that snapchat on there. I contacted the site and they were helpful and took it down but they couldn't find out who posted it since the op was gone and his email was untraceable. But what I do not get is how my boyfriend could look this up, pretty much daily, and not be bothered by seeing 20 different dicks in your girlfriend's mouth...
What Girls & Guys Said
1 53Suk it bitxh, suk it now!! Sux 2 B U.
https://youtu. be/wNA5KaT_3i4
It is simultaneously hot and repulsive. I would feed you my cum but I couldn't think of you as a girlfriend or wife after that.
Are you the chubby barmaid? Did you ever get a std from doing that?
Yes I am the chubby barmaid. I miraculously only once got an std. Chlamydia but that''s over with 2 pills. I get tested regularly. So I wouldn't be ok as a girlfriend because too many guys have been in me, but you would think that's hot if i'm not your girlfriend and you would gladly bust one in my mouth? Not meant as an attack. Just want to understand guys better when it comes to this. Could you explain exactly how that is to you?
I like chubby girls and I can understand if you were hungry all of the time. That is why you enjoyed sucking those cocks. would you let any of them put it in you if they wanted?
Dude stay at least a little respectful. Answer my question normally or just don't.
sorry, i got a boner we are attracted to sex and sexy women but the thought that she is easy or low value turns us off when we think about long term or even a relationship. The sub conscious thought that she could be cheating and we end up supporting some other man's child is buried deep in our sub conscious. It is a conflict and explains why some guys were happy to get a blow job but maybe nothing more. I dont understand cuckolds. Maybe they get off on the humiliation of not being man enough for a girl. Has your boyfriend said anything to you about it?
haha best excuse ever! I guess I kind of understand that but it also doesn't make that much sense. I do feel this thought lives very strongly among men though. My boyfriend has never said anything about cuckolding, but it has come to my mind as welL.
Were you in a relationship when you were a barmaid and Have you sucked any dicks since you sobered up?
Well I had just a few very short relationships back then. And since I sobered up, well the people at the AA meetings were not allowed to have sex, and I have to admit I failed that part big time. After I still sucked a few but a lot less. And shortly after I was with my current boyfriend.
How long have you been sober?
year and a half?
That is great. Keep it up. I gave it up 2+ years ago myself. I miss it sometimes but not enough to go back. You sounds like you have been completely faithful to you boyfriend so my initial impression or concern may have been unwarranted
There's a whole category of porn and forums called things like "hot past" or "slutty past" where boyfriends and husbands get turned on by their girlfriend or wife being promiscous in the past. It may be hot seeing the person you love bring pleasure to other men
Is that a thing in porn? I know i probably don't watch as much porn as some men do, but for a woman i thaught I knew a lot of it. Never heard of "hot past" or "slutty past". Where do you even find that.
If you know Reddit I swear there was this subreddit devoted entirely to men talking about their partners’ slutty pasts but now of course I can’t find it. Or there’s porn where a girlfriend is giving a blowjob to her man while talking about past sexual things she did to turn him on more
Wow thanks. Really never saw this.
You’re welcome. I cannot speak for your boyfriend, but for me personally my first two girlfriends cheated on me. It was an extremely painful experience, but now I find myself getting turned on by my significant other pleasuring someone else. From a psychological standpoint, it’s the brain trying to cope with the pain and turn it into pleasure, to have control over the situation. So that kind of stuff turns me on but I can understand it not making much sense to the majority of others
Like just her past or is your girlfriend still pleasing other men?
Just her past so far. I’m both intrigued by but also nervous about taking the next step of her pleasing other men while with me
So you immagine like the situation of her and a specific other man? Does she have a raunchy past or was it pretty normal?
It was pretty normal. I guess right now it’s more imagining her doing stuff with an imaginary man. Other girlfriends I’ve had, they had raunchy pasts so I would imagine that. One talked about guys she would pick up at the club, how she would dance and grind and could feel how big they were and how she’d get excited to be with them. But my current one we’ve talked about her being with another girl so that’s currently on the table.
Yeah I would be surprised if your current girlfriend never had guys grind against her at the club and felt their dong between her ass cheeks. I think every girl has had that. And every girl has probably at least once tried to feel and immagine how big it really is. That happens constantly and isn't even that dirty. Sorry to burst that bubble for you :) She just doesn't talk about it.
Well she's not a clubgoer, but I know what you mean :) But that girlfriend would take the guys home with her to fuck after finding the one with the biggest bulge
I'd say "you go girl!" but not if she had a commitment to you of course.
Ha well it was the birth of a kink, so it is what it is
Well I hope I don't freak you out, but if it's your kink, you can start immagining your girlfriend feeling up a couple boners between her asscrack at a party or a bar. That's just reality. ;)
I love the thought of that 😉 her feeling their throbbing dicks pressed against her is so hot
woahhhh bad bad bad
death can come to a women's door
Proverbs 6:34
For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance
That’s one perspective
@TheBigGuy9
that's reality
This girls boyfriend killed this girl?
Are you answering based on the question or on the story she wrote? Because if it’s just the question alone and it alone, then yes I agree with you.
@TheBigGuy9 why can't people just believe the words of GOD it happens every day
Because Adam and Eve ate the fruit. Now, the only way back to God is not telling people Just believe in God. That works for some. To be able to pull people back you have to be able to dive in the deep waters and sift through all the garbage and bring them back up.
When someone’s mind is so perverted, you can’t just tell them “God’s way is the only way.”
@TheBigGuy9 at this point im done with them they cannot accept reality 2 Thessalonians 2:11 And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: 12That they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness
It sits well with God if you can even help one person.
@TheBigGuy9 I try but most do not listen
Yeah, I know. I know. Try a different angle. You have to put yourself in their shoes and do your best to come up with something that appeals to them, while simultaneously coming up with a compromise.
Advance it more and more each time. Hopefully, they will eventually see the appeal to God.
It can be done. I’d try that way in person.
You ever heard of Daryl Davis? He’s a man of color that got over 200 men to leave the KKK. Here is a clip of him on Joe Rogan.
https://youtu.be/Bj-4Q416C8w
200 people I mean.
I do understand how someone could love you enough, to look beyond your past. I don't at all understand how he could repeatedly, daily, look at pictures of you giving bjs to other guys. That seems perverted to me.
I would fuck her to death 💦
He probably gets off on it. He’s obviously jacking it to them. If it bothered him, he would only have visited it once. Next time you are blowing him, ask him what he thinks about it and the truth will come out. If he hints at anything positive about it, start talking describing an incident in detail and I bet he won’t last a minute.
You think he's really turned on by it? Like some weird cuckold thing? How do I even bring this up
Not necessarily cuckolding. Just superimposing himself into the position of one of the guys... The mind is a weird thing.
Ok. I notice most guys seem to think getting a blowjob no strings attached is superior to getting a blowjob from your girlfriend. Like the guy who just got pleasured by me is superior to my boyfriend. Like he bought the cow that gave milk for free. Is it maybe something like that? Girls kinda work the opposite way.
Could be, for some guys.
I would dump her.
And how would you do that. I don't want you anymore because you sucked other dicks before me?
I am looking for someone who has a similar amount of sexual experience as I have. And I have none. So she is way more experienced than myself and is, therefore, not a good match for me. Sexual compatibility is an important issue for dating; and experience levels is an important part of that.
It used to be my favorite time of the week.
I don't have to worry about this because the girls in my town mostly blows bad boys, assholes, BBC, taken guy and married men. Trust me no girl in my town is gonna blow me out of the blue like that whether they want too or not lol
I would be turned on honestly :P