How would you respond if your small breasted girlfriend wanted to get implants?

How would you respond if your small breasted girlfriend wanted to get implants?
Sometimes, the mention of small boobs makes some girls cringe. They know what happens next: comments such as "You look like a little girl" or "Don't worry. They'll probably get bigger when you have babies." Another user wanted to ask this question but was afraid that she would get derogatory comments about being insecure, so I am asking the question for her.

Suppose you are dating a girl with small boobs. According to a recent poll on this site, about 70-80% of all guys either have dated, or would date, a girl with small boobs. So what if she comes to you and says that she wants to get implants? She wants to increase from a 32A to a 34C. How would you respond? Would you agree with her decision? Would you be concerned about the risks attendant to all surgical procedures? Would you be concerned about the procedure not having a good outcome? Would you be concerned about the "playground" being off limits while she recovered? Would you be concerned about not being attracted to her after the procedure? Would you be concerned that she might become more attractive to other guys and you would have competition for her affections?

Guys, how would you react? Ladies, if you have been through a breast implant procedure, how did your boyfriend respond before and after the procedure?
I would never date a small breasted girl
Vote A
I'd tell her that I probably wouldn't be attracted to her after she got implants
Vote B
I would be opposed but would also try to understand her insecurity about her boobs and be supportive of her decision
Vote C
I would not be opposed and I would support her decision
Vote D
I would agree with her decision but recognize the risks of any surgical procedure and therefore reluctantly support her position
Vote E
I would agree with her decision and fully support her
Vote F
Something else and I will explain in comments
Vote G
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  • I would tell her there could be complications with breast implants but let things up to her

  • I would try to convince her that it was a bad decision.

  • I do like a 34c. Perky and not too little. I like small boobs. Who is telling girls they look like a kid? Another woman I imagine because I don't know if any guys that would down a girl shit her tits. So why be worried about what another woman thinks unless that woman is interested in women. My grandma always told me if they ain't fucking you or feeding you then what they think doesn't matter. Look at your top models, they all have small boobs and they don't have a problem getting a date and no other woman will either because of her boobs

  • Boob size honestly doesn't matter to me so much as the shape of them. As long as they're perky, I like any size. I don't mind a girl with a huge rack getting reduction because that can literally cause back issues, but there's literally no reason for a girl with small boobs to get implants. It's also more unnatural than reduction which is a turn off.

  • I’d try and talk her out of it, not only is that kind of thing a turn off but they often feel unnatural and odd.

    In on top of that there is so much that could go wrong. It’s not worth the risks and if something does go wrong then your stuck with em.

  • Small boobies are cute and heavenly. .
    @imthequeen what's your opinion

    • ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • I would strongly oppose but in no way stop her. I had a similar situation with a girl who wanted to get sweat glands removed

  • Sure, I'd support her. But she never did go for it.

  • I would be against it. I won't date someone who feels the need to mutilate her body to make her self happy.

  • I'd try to advise her against it because implants may rupture and some women had lymphoma prompted by the silicone so I feel the risk is not worth it, but I'd respect her decision obviously, as it's a very personal matter.

  • i would tell her that i prefer small breasts or even a flat chest over scarred abominations.

  • It's funny, I answer the same way on both of your questions

  • Many similar answers. Mine does, it’s her body so she will do whatever she wants with it.

  • Her body, her choice ❤

    Now let the rain of blue downvotes begin. I can hear them marching already.

  • Suck them and make them bigger

  • I definitely think that you far overestimate the importance of large breasts to men in choosing a girlfriend or wife. I have definitely never known any man, and I have known a lot of people, who would make large breasts a highest priority, in regards to romantic or sexual attraction. If theydo, then your relationship will likely not last. Most men prefer mutual interest, patience, self-confidence, humor, intelligence, popularity, positivity, optimism, loyalty, honesty, kindness, relationship with his and her parents and siblings, and how affectionate she is. Most likely physical attributes are smile, eyes, hair, fitness, hygiene, grooming, clean bedroom or dorm room, breath and body odor, and facial/body hair. Taste in clothing is subjective.

    • I don't know why you said that "you far overestimate the importance of large breasts to men in choosing a girlfriend or wife." I did not say one word suggesting that big boobs would be an improvement over smaller boobs. In fact, I am one of those who actually prefers ladies with smaller boobs, not because of some conscious decision about the qualities that make a woman great. In reality, smaller boobs don't make a woman better than big boobs. Most of us are attracted to some arrangement of body parts and not others, and that is not the result of a conscious process, but simply the way that we are wired. Logic and well-conceived discourse cannot change the fact that I am attracted to women with smaller boobs. However, my attraction to smaller boobs does not mean that I don't value "mutual interest, patience, self-confidence, humor, intelligence, popularity, positivity, optimism, loyalty, honesty, kindness, relationship with his and her parents and siblings, and how affectionate she is." I never said that those things were unimportant. Posing a question about boobs, particularly at the urging of another user, does not mean that I focus exclusively on boobs when selecting a partner. You have made grossly incorrect assumptions based merely on the fact that I asked a question. Your lecture was rather condescending and absolutely unnecessary.

  • been there done that... and she did it... it's her decision in the end... and she was very happy with it


  • "How would you respond?" I would respond compassionately, and with deference to her feelings as well as her desires and goals.


    "Would you agree with her decision?". I would be on the fence. But I would support her, because it's her body and her decision.


    "Would you be concerned about the risks attendant to all surgical procedures?". Yes, absolutely.


    "Would you be concerned about the procedure not having a good outcome?". That is certainly something to consider. There are a lot of quacks out there.


    "Would you be concerned about the "playground" being off limits while she recovered?". Haha no. I'll manage.


    "Would you be concerned about not being attracted to her after the procedure?". I'm pretty sure that's not a thing.



    "Would you be concerned that she might become more attractive to other guys and you would have competition for her affections?". Yes; of course I would.

  • F. She would get my full support.

  • Easily C, but I would try to make it D.
    I just want her happy and herself.

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