Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Howdo I get a 40 years old man’s attention?
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I like him so badly and I honestly want to sleep with him. Regardless of his age he is so sexy and has an amazing muscular body. He is makes laugh and happy but he never took any step. He lives alone across the street and I offered to help him with the chores whenever he needs it but I feel that our closeness is turning into friendship and I don’t want that.
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 69Stop focusing on his age so much, for starters. Either he's a person you like, or he isn't. Age doesn't matter. Anyway, wear something sexy more often and just be around him as often as possible. Maybe eventually he'll get the idea.
Sounds like he's lucky guy. Has he give you any signals that he likes you or did you do the same to.
You are running into the same wall that affects most men at some point or another. He may just not see you sexually. So yeah, guys at any age can be very difficult to send subtle messages to. Don't try it. Tell him what you want, as directly as possible.
Or be patient, get to know him, figure out what he likes. These things often take time for people who don't get into relationships easily.
As a 40 year old I would think you weren't interested because I'm much older. I'm told I look young for my age but I would never assume a 23 yr old would be interested in me. I figured they'd think I'm way too old.
Other things I think of.. Is he friends with your parents? Or does he have kids your age? Things that might throw him off by age difference.
Regardless he might not pick up you are interested so I say be upfront. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Wear something provocative and he should jump all over you.
Sounds sexy I will try that
Go for it but be prepared for a few things. Him using you for sex. Him tossing you aside after a short while.
And the biggest thing is getting hurt if he rejects you.
That's a big age gap.
So? ?
So, good luck with that.
think you already got his attention.. your question should be... how do you get him to bed?
he's already help you with chores... next time ask him thing like 'what's for dinner' single guy will often say takeout.. and what ever his answer is just say you're interested to try that takeout too for dinner. see where that takes you...
First of all.. lucky dude.
Second: if you're not into just straight telling him, just visit him in obvious clothing and do extra obvious movements.
Do you want to just fuck him or do you want a relationship? If you just want to fuck, just tell him.
Talk to him be honest about your attention or ask him about his dick he'll usually pick up on that
Go knock on his door wearing a bikini and holding a bottle of wine, hehe.
At 23 should be a no brainer. Invite him over for a glass of wine.
I would get to know him and flirt with him and wear suggestive clothing.
Im 50 and that would make me want it everytime.
Get really close and tell him you find him attractive..
I think he may even be wishing to have you in his bed, but I see that the big problem must be that you are much younger than him and very beautiful. We, mens, sometimes imagine that women like you are impossible to get. my advice: in a place where the two of you are alone embrace him leaving your body totally close to his, and give a delicious, hot and long kiss
Just talk to him. Nothing wrong with that. Lol
ask him how he fedls about you before you try seducing him cuz if he doesn't have feelings for you he won't want to be with you the wag you want in a relationship
just tell him straight up how you feel
Just be straightforward. Say "hey i like you romantically he should be able to take it from there.