Howdo I get a 40 years old man’s attention?

I like him so badly and I honestly want to sleep with him. Regardless of his age he is so sexy and has an amazing muscular body. He is makes laugh and happy but he never took any step. He lives alone across the street and I offered to help him with the chores whenever he needs it but I feel that our closeness is turning into friendship and I don’t want that.
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  • If the rest of your body is as pretty as your face, getting his attention for sex should be easy.
    Unless he has daughters that are close to your age.

  • Show some side boob and wear crop tops around him..

  • Wow that's a huge gap. I'd be asking myself a lot of questions.

    • Why? I am not worth it?

    • Not at all. Just maturity, life experiences, values are so different. Hard to see what would connect you to other than sex. It's still possible, but either you are somehow more nature for your age, or he is less mature for his age? If you get my point.

  • you should make brave move , like dress sexy , then see if he checks you out
    if he is not , dont worry , based on your explanation above , it seems you attracted to him physically , it usually won't last long , you will be over him soon enough

  • Lucky him.

  • The age difference might be making him nervous to approach you. He might be afraid of offending you. I think you should approach him about it. Even if he doesn't want that from you, I don't think he's going to stop being a friend to you over it, and that's about as safe of a bet as you can get with these things.

  • You'll have to make a move on him.

  • I think he's just being cautious, if he isn't gay. Just be open and available to him. He will come around in his own time.

  • The same way you get a 20yo. Be nice to him and see an opening

  • Ask him out or if you just want sex tell him

  • Just tell him you really appreciate bum massages. I assume you have a nice ass and so wear clothes that highlight your hot ass. If this doesn't work then you have to start considering whether he is gay...

    • I hope he’s not

  • You should ask him to help you... tell him that you really need a good long massage with massage oil. If he agrees, then undress to nude in the bathroom. Then come out with just a towel around you. Either covering both waist and top or just waist. When you lye down, make sure the towel is covering your ass ir pussy. Not wrapped around you, but just placed on top, and the less it covers the better

  • Look he’s a grown man right. I may not be his age, but I am grown. If you’re interested then tell him. I have a feeling he’s into you too. And if not , the worst thing anyone can tell you is no.

  • Try kissing him.

  • Be yourself don't chase too hard good luck

  • If he is interested he will take notice. Is he married. If so don’t get involved.

  • hug him. take your hand to your penis. wear a skirt. if you do these things would be

  • Why. I would think he is married or involved. Don’t be a home wrecker

  • Baby you should know how to get his attention. Get a low cut top bend over. Take hom to the beach and it a thongs bathing suit and tan you back or just be friends a 40 year old is starting to settling down

  • So this is difficult. He probably believes that he is too old for you and thinks you want younger guys. Most likely neighbors are going to be more friendly to each other than attraction, especially if you are helping with chores.

    You'll have to do something more obvious or direct.

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