Sexual Relationships 
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Been with him 10 years, married for less then a year. 36 weeks pregnant. First child. Both 32 years old.
He is so loving towards me but he has a porn addiction and follows a lot of women on social media, facebook, insta and his you tube shorts mostly women too.
I have spoken to him about it a few times over the years...
The last discussion was 2 nights ago, I found a twiiter account of his that is completely private (under his nr) no one follows him, he just follows porn and *young* girls. I told him how insecure it makes me feel because we maybe has sex once a week, and he NEVER shares anything sexy with me, he scrolls / pleases himself when he is bathing or alone. Never around me.
He told me he will try be better as he loves me... I dont mind the porn honestly, I enjoy some of it too but I dont want it to be a private thing. Why not include me, you wanted to marry me?
I think the following of the accounts to see daily content bothers me... the rushing to see what they posted... not the porn itself..
This morning, I saw as soon as he went to the bath, he was on twitter account and followed like 4 more accounts. Which means he still searches in private and still wants it in his life. Still craves it. can't go a day without looking...
Should this really bother me as much? Will he ever grow out of it or must I just accept that my husband enjoys browsing and looking at other women, I will just never be enough?
I am struggling here. I feel like I have spoken to him... he is not abusive, he is kind, he makes me laugh but he also craves daily sexual attention and after all these years still won't include me.
I need the men's honest opinions here. This affects my mental healrh and soon to be child.
I want a man that will not need social media for fantasties, I want a man that will be with me and know I am enough. Not wondering when he is slone, oh he must be satisfying himself and then come to me for hugs and kisses. Is this normal, do all mem do this?
What Girls & Guys Said
8 20i would lie if i say i dont take my alone time to. i mean mastrubating is a normal thing.
but to porn is not so great.
The act is normal but he should share you, he being a big time asshole.
You shouldn't be insecure that he watches porn, or ask "am I not enough?" The answer is the same for a majority of men - yes, you're enough for love, but no, I like variety. Are YOU satisfied with him in bed? Does he neglect your needs? Is watching the porn taking away from his giving YOU what you need? If he isn't having sex with anyone else and he's still satisfying you, that's probably the best it's going to be.
But here's something to try. Tell him you want him to share one of his favorite videos with you. Have him sit naked in a chair, and you get behind him if possible, or off to the side and out of his direct view. Have him watch the video and slowly jerk him off with some nice lube. Extend him, edge him as long as you can. As the porn gets to the climax part, bring him to one too. Make him cum from your hands. Then just kiss him and say "enjoy", and leave the room.
Watch what happens after that experience. He'll be craving you again.
I call B. S. Totally fake long-winded question from a Level 1 user who is probably a guy. Asker responds to every answer, which real users don't. No one gets married at 22 and then waits 10 years to start having kids. No one discovers porn 10 years into the marriage. Non sequitur quote from a Harrison Ford movie in response to an answer?