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Sexual Health Husband wants a threesome but I don't like girls?
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Yeah he's been talking about it almost non stop. I know this means that I need to probably give in and satisfy his needs. But I cannot sleep with a girl, sorry, it's just not for me. I'm also fairly certain he's not going to want to bring another guy into the picture. So... is there any way to compromise on this at all? Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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19 50Start out by watching lesbian porn and if you can get into that then think about a threesome with another girl
Do it with a guy
deal one FFM and one MMF
Well if you want 2 guys then you tell him. Sure we can do it your way and then we have to do it my way.
Have you actually asked him about getting another guy involved?
Then don't!
He should be ashamed from just asking that. You should be strict about it and not let your husband play those games. Male sexual thought and fantasy will never end.
Make him happy sweetie
Likewise are you interested in other guy?
Not at all
Now that he told his interest... I think you've to tell him what you're into
You don't have to sleep with the other girl to have a threesome. It is selfish of the guy, but both women could focus on him.
Just experienced that and she ended up liking it
Oh gosh, that sounds familiar. My ex pulled the same thing. Tell him that you'll do that but only if you get to have a threesome with another man first. Chances are he won't like that at all. Don't do anything that you don't want to do. In the end my ex ended up cheating on me with multiple women and left me for one who was bisexual and had no problem sharing him.
You don't like girls! Shocking.
Honestly... I think you need to put your foot down. It is not your responsibility to satisfy his needs. He is not the only important person in the relationship. It's about both of you right? And if he loves you then he will listen to you and be understanding. No one deserves to be pressured into anything they don't want to do, sure if you were into that whatever but you aren't and he has no right to pressure you.
Maybe you should ask him why he is so insistent on having a threesome? I doubt he has a good reason, I really do. And if he continues to try and pressure you maybe just calmly say, "If you're bored of what we are doing, then we can experiment, however, I am not interested in what you are asking me to do, and never will be." Maybe also say how it makes you feel or any other thoughts you have.
That's just my two cents.
It`s just a fantase and if you don`t want to it should stay a fanatsie of his. If you don`t want to than don`t do it! Say no you`re grown up and there is nothing wrong with saying no.
I personaly would never do this, I`m same as you
You don't have to say yes. Though, its not as bad as it sounds at first. Just let her know your comfort zone beforehand and you guys can just kiss and stuff like that.
Tell him to do it without you there that's it, if your problem is HONESTLY just that you don't want to sex her n nothing else.
Just not a good idea and I wouldn’t do it if he doesn’t agree to your terms. I mean it’s every young guys fantasy to want 2 girls. No dude wants another guy. But he’s trying to live out some dream fantasy. I wouldn’t want to share my lad but that’s just me. Don’t know what to tell ya?
What does sexuality have to do with it? You don't have to have sex with the girl, if you don't want to
Well what am I supposed to do. Just sit there while he fucks another girl? Lol. People keep saying I don't have to touch her but I thought that was the whole point of a threesome
No, not at all. You don't HAVE to do anything
Then what's the point? Haha
That's the point, you can sit there and do what ever you want, in a 3 way, or, you can say no to him, and see how he reacts. Those are your choices
I would NOT give in. If he won't do a threesome with another guy then u shouldn't have to do one with another girl.
U could always tell me I won't have a threesome but. . . . Bring up another idea like bed restraints, toys, or even ask him what he has always wanted to do to u. Maybe that could get him thinking of something else.
Personally I dont have this problem, my husband does not want 1. He doesn't want anyone else touching me, which im glad because im the same way.