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Sexual Health I accidentally cheated on my girlfriend? What do I do?
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So me and my girlfriend were having a night out at her place and everything was alright until her best friend dropped by. She's a promiscuous manipulative ho. So I know this is a bad idea the moment my girlfriend recommends she stays over. I get up to leave and my girlfriend gets upset that I'm not very accepting of her friends, so I stay. We begin boozing, one thing leads to another... Long story short we have a threesome, now my girlfriend is extremely upset, despite partaking in the act and wants to break up with me. The worst part is she acts like she and her friend are the victims. I really like my girlfriend. Is there anyway I can change her mind?
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24 37All of you are grown ass adults, act like it. Accept what happened and move on. If she isn’t mature enough to handle it, ditch her and find someone more mature. The decision was made, everyone agreed, it happened. Don’t regret it.
... I don't think this is cheating... your girlfriend seemed perfectly ok when participating on the threesome, she's as guilty as you.
It would have been cheating if she was against it and you still did it, but that's not the case.
I'd say leave her, she doesn't seem right in her head. I despise cheaters, but this situation doesn't look like cheating, it's like handing someone something, and then say they stole it.
You can't accidentally cheat. I dont like how you called that girl a manupilative ho when its your choice to do anything with her. She probably wasn't thinking at the moment and felt bad after thinking about what happend. Its still not your fault since it was a threesome anyway, i would just break up and explain why.
y'all are fucked up lol.
end it between all of yous.
That's a load of BS, you didn't cheat, you had a threesome with your girlfriend and her friend. Was it a mistake? Sure, alcohol was involved but as adults you all were aware of how things could play out. Nobody's the "victim" here, but it looks like somebody isn't willing to admit they made a stupid decision and is looking for a scapegoat (hint: you're the scapegoat). I say dump her, you shouldn't be given all the blame when all three of you were drunk, and made the decision to get so blasted it turned into what it turned into.
Sorry, given that you still like your girlfriend and all but do you really want someone like that around you? Someone who will put you on the spot for something that isn't entirely your fault (because other people were at fault as well)? To me that isn't someone who can be trusted, and without trust what's the point?
You didn't "accidentally" do anything. LMAO
Well IF you cheated this only means you are not that into her so do HER a favor and end it.. ITS NOT FAIR TO HER !!
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OH sorry to jump the gun! Well she made her bed she needs to sleep in it. EVERY WOMEN KNOWS if you have a THREESOME it MUST be with a STRANGER that will NOT be in your lives.. Sorry BUD... Tell her she means NOTHING to you and she will need to END her friendship if YOU TWO want a future.. just my opinion : )
There is no such thing as accidentally cheating. Its about being a man and a decent human and own up to your mistake.
However if she partook in it too she really has no right to be upset because she allowed it to happen. If she was going to regret it then she should've never done it.
Booze is never an excuse unless you were passed out and she raped you dude... accidentally me arse!
This sounds so fucked up. She encouraged the girl to stay, was involved in the threesome herself and then blames you and now wants to break up with you for 'cheating' on her. Okay then...
'Accidentally'
Yeah, that's right.. I 'accidentally' un-zipped my pants and 'accidentally' penetrated another girl with your penis.. Did you accidentally ejaculate as well?
You 'accidentally' forgot reading too.
I doubt this even happened. I smell troll✨
Enlighten me, what is so fucking funny here? Who exactly or what exactly being trolled?
Give me a break
Pardon?
Try to settle things down, I guess. Honestly, I think she's being unreasonable. She was evidently perfectly fine with it at the time if she got involved, and she was involved, so I struggle to see how that even counts as cheating.
I'm sorry mate but your girlfriend sounds a little emotionally abusive, at the end of the day your were all drunk together and you all had sex together, if you see it as you cheated on her then you also have to remember that by the same logic she also cheated on you so your both equally in the wrong, only problem being is there's no one to blame not even the friend, so she's really crying over jack shit. The only thing you can do is be blunt and tell her to stop pinning the blame on you she was an equal part of the whole thing and if she has any regrets that it's tough luck, the only thing she can do is listen to her boyfriend the next time he says that he doesn't trust her friend.
Lol @ the idiots responding without reading the question.
Find a better girlfriend. Having a threesome with your girlfriend may be a stupid idea, but it's not cheating. She's dumb and so are her friends.
Your girlfriend participated. in my opinion it's not cheating then.
You cold always have said NO!! and gone to sleep in the bath
I had this happen with two sisters, they blamed me and you'll always be blamed for it even though I was way more drunk. Also with friend's little sister and her friend at a party they were having a sleep over and stealing booze... lost a whole group of friends over that one. But hey, I only have two words: Worth it!
Well just break up with every single person in your story lmao