Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 2 weeks ago I sold my virginity to a 48-year-old man. I received half of my payment upon arrival and the rest after we had sex. At first, I felt really sick because of what I did, but now I am absolutely happy I did it. We met at a hotel in Brooklyn and had dinner there before going to his room. When we finished, he gave me my payment and I left. This man wasn't exactly handsome. He was about a 4. But he was surprisingly very nice and not as creepy as I thought.
What do you think? Do you think it's a great deal to get paid for your virginity? Give me your honest thoughts.
I am 22 and just sold my virginity for 58k. What are your thoughts on women selling their virginities?
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What Girls & Guys Said
38 100What a terrible woman. Any good man should not go near you.
Any good man doesn't love a woman because of her choices but because he knows she is more than her choices. Not all men are as shallow and petty as you. They would see me as a whole and not define me by this one decision. Thank you for sharing your opinion. Have a super day.
You represent so much that is wrong with the world. You deserve that guy. Total a holes. Both of you. Shallow and petty? That’s what you think this? You disgust me. Be sure to tell every guy that you go out with too. Yeah some will worship you for your utterly disgusting decision. Love you? Don’t be silly.
Well, that's your opinion. I really don't care if I disgust you. You know nothing about love. Love is acceptance and seeing someone as a whole rather than one decision they make. I wouldn't want to be with someone like you. Men like you are snobby and naive. You're not a good man and I pity any woman who has to put up with you.
I know nothing about love? What a bad human being you keep proving yourself to be. I wouldn’t want to be with someone like you. This is an unforgivable decision. You’re certainly not helping to make the world a better place. Look at these ignorant remarks you are making. I’m not a good man? Coming from you. You’re not even a woman to me.
not something i would recommend tbf but it is your life and your choice and as long as you are ok with the arrangement and the consequences then I have no issues
as long as both parties are legal consenting age and are ok with it
your body your choice
You were way underpaid.
Do you know how hard it is to sell your virginity?
Whores will be whores. Virginity was not for sale but rather you dignity.
Actually it was my virginity. He was the one who paid for it. Maybe I'm a whore but I don't mind. I have a whole life of meaningful sex ahead of me. It's all good brother.
It's so casual just like a hand shake then. If you are sure of yourself why do you need affirmation from others? Just saying. You got a check but can't buy respect.
I didn't want his respect. I have plenty of respect from people. I went on here to share a sexual experience and start a conversation. If I cared what people would think then I wouldn't have done it in the first place. My life is much bigger than this one choice.
$58,000? That's such a great price that I'm skeptical.
It's called "prostitution," dear.
You both will get tracked and prosecuted and a lot of that money will go towards your lawyer fees.
In juve, you will be told by the jailer "kid, you sold your ass for nothing, and your record means you will be getting screwed for nothing, for the rest of your days"
Lol, that's funny. For your information, what I did was 100% legal. I did my research before going into it. Thanks for the concern but you're hilariously wrong.
sell it again afterall no way a guy would know if your one or not. Not the same guy tho. And well what i think is probably a bit envy i ain't a girl who can just do that easiest money ever. You made money and if your happy with that it's your body your life choice.
Prostitutes. Whores.
I find them gross and disgusting.
Ruined humans in my opinion.
You're right, it is your opinion. Thanks for sharing.
I'd believe a guy in Brooklyn might spend $1k or even $2-3k for an authentic virgin, but $58k is just too unbelievable, especially in Brooklyn. Sorry, but not buying it - no pun intended :P
Well that's your opinion. We met up in Brooklyn because that's where I'm from. I'm not here to make you believe me. I'm just telling my story.
Well, you might be on a critical situation and that made you do that for sure. I don't know if it is good or bad but I think there should be enough jobs with good payment for People so that they don't end up like this.
It was actually a one-time thing. I'm in college for my master's in journalism. I'm not planning to make a career out of it. Thanks for sharing.
Your story is either totally fake or you found a rich idiot.
Usually, when men buy virginities it's from women who have their hymen intact. It's proof of authentication. Men don't understand the power their virginities have.
I do understand and any virgin that is a woman and not a teen, that I've been in contact with values her virginity far beyond any monetary value. Again women like you are rather fake, pretending to be a virgin or have absolutely no value placed on their virginity.
Well if that's what you think, that's fine. But if you're going to call me a fake virgin then you might want to have proof. I valued mine enough to not just give it away for free to the first guy I sleep with and get nothing in return. I used my virginity to give back to me. You can't understand because you didn't have the ability to sell your virginity. I came on here for honest opinions, so thanks for sharing yours.
So in other words you didn't value your virginity enough to save it for someone special you love and cherish, rather then that you prostituted your virginity for money.
How do I know that if I gave it to them that thing will work out and it wouldn't be a waste? Virginity is a once in a lifetime thing and people are constantly regretting giving it to people. Not me.
You should of got an education I make in a month what you made for your virginity. So sad, that money means so much more to you then your body and obvious lack of any moral value.
I'm in college actually for my masters in Journalism. And I'm taking women's studies. Like I said, it's you're opinion. You're entitled to it. You can pretend you know me but you're just embarrassing yourself. You're trying too hard to shame me. I am happy with my choice.
All-female virginities have a price. It's about if your willing to make a man pay. I would've taken billions of dollars if I could but I had to be realistic.
Way too think outside the box for female entrepreneurs capitalizing on abstract commodities.
Why would you sell your virginity? 😱
Ez money always attracts women
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@EyesOfGod I'm in college to get my degree. I'm actually getting a career. You're acting like men don't like quick money.
Don't be such a drama queen
I dont give a damn if your in college. I dont get why women throw around education like it means something because it doesn't.
I like quick money but I would never sell my body for it 😵
Well, I did because I wanted my virginity to give back to me. Most women regret their first time. They guy gets off and she is left bleeding. Most women regret their first time and the relationships usually don't last.
@EyesOfGod It does mean something. I've been working since I was in 9th grade. I'm making something of myself.
@EyesOfGod Look, I don't need to prove myself to you. Think whatever you want. I didn't come on here for validation or support. So have a nice day dude.
You know you did come on her for validation. Just look at your question.
You are contradicting youself
@EyesOfGod If I wanted validation then I wouldn't have asked for their honest thoughts. I asked that because I wanted to see what different people thought because it's a risque thing. No one who goes into selling their virginity wants validation or thinks people will agree. If we cared then we wouldn't have done it.
Too bad it is not a renewable resource.
Actually is IS a renewable resource. All she needs to do is say she is a virgin to somebody else.
This is really sociopathic
If you ask me, he overpaid by about 57k.
You're just saying that because either you're jealous that you couldn't do it or because you can't afford it. Maybe both.
I definitely couldn't afford it, even if I was a billionaire. The worst part about this whole exchange is that you now base your own self-esteem off of how much some perverted old goober paid to hump you. Do you think true love is waiting for you now, after you sold your pussy for money? I think if you believed in love at all, you never would have agreed to sell yourself like a little piece of chicken. You're only 20 years old and you're already completely cynical and jaded. What the fuck happened to you? You're awfully young to already be dead inside. I genuinely hope that money makes you happy, I don't think anything else is ever going to.
Well I don't need to prove or explain anything to you. All I can say is that you're entire statement is very false. You should really get to know someone before assuming all those things. People are not as obvious as they seem based on one post on one choice. Whatever you want to think of me is fine. I know who I am and so do the people who know me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
You need to prove or explain something to somebody, you're the one telling your life story to strangers on the internet. I just think your story makes you sound pitiful, that's all. I'm already bored with you, I imagine your sugar daddy was pretty bored of you too after he got his rocks off. I bet he never spends that much money on a hooker again, now that he knows it's not even worth it. I feel almost as bad for him, but a fool and their money are soon parted, just like a whore and her virginity.
Oh, I get it, you men need to stick together. It doesn't matter that he paid for sex; I'm the one who's messed up. It's always the woman's fault. Well, that's ok if you think that. I'm used to the way men think. I asked for your opinion and you were honest. So thanks for sharing. Have a fantastic day sweetie.
I called him a perverted old goober and a fool. That's what he is. And I called you a whore, that's what you are. I think you're both a couple of degenerates, to be honest. I'm not taking his side at all. Learn to read. Although if you could read, you wouldn't need to sell your body for cash, so whatever. It's bad enough going through life as a whore, that doesn't mean you have to be a dumb whore. Use that money to go to school, don't just spend it on shoes or fingernail polish or whatever other stupid shit. That's my brotherly advice to you.
I value my body and virginity more than that.
I valued my virginity. That's why I sold it instead of just giving it away to the first guy I have sex with. It's empowering to me.
Gross and she's a prostitute in my mind. And unless she was poor and starving or legit had no other choice to be a prostitute I find it gross and disgusting
If that's what you think, that's fine. But for the record, I'm in college for my master's in journalism and I live in an apartment with 2 roommates. I'm doing pretty good actually.
But you're still technically a prostitute
Yes, I am. But I have no problem with it or women who choose to be prostitutes. Instead of just giving away my virginity to the first guy I have sex with, I actually turned it into something that really benefits me. You can shame me but I don't mind because I asked for honest opinions. Thank you for sharing yours.
Virginity shouldn't be valued that highly and him paying this much is silly but as for you, if your story is true then good for you.
It's better than just giving it away to the first guy I sleep with. First times usually suck and women usually regret who they did it with.
More power to you
My first thought is why would you do that with a guy whose so old and you not attracted and its your first time. This bad. But at least you have the money to buy chanel purse.
It's about taking something most people just give away to the first guy they have sex with and turning it into something that makes a difference in your life. It's empowering really.
Makes no sense to me. but i dont have a chanel purse 😆
This is the type of thing that you either understand or don't. It's ok either way. I just feel it's a waste to give away something for free that people are willing to buy for a lot of money.