I can’t imagine myself having sex?

[izzie_morris]

So I’m 16 years old, and a lot of girls my age have already lost their virginity and I don’t really feel the pressure right now but I don’t want to leave it too late. The issue is, I just can’t imagine myself having sec.. I haven’t even kissed a boy or hooked up with anyone and I’m going through a stage where I’m kind of self conscious and haven’t had a relationship before. I’m not one of those nerds who isn’t interested in boys because I actually really am interested in boys but I am an awkward person sometimes and I feel that if I was to have sex, I wouldn’t know how to do anything and it would be terrible. I know I don’t need to have sex yet, but i would like to do it sooner rather than later, partly just so I can lose my virginity in order to take away some of the pressure. The only way I can even imagine kissing a boy is if I get really drunk and go to a night club and do it when I’m feeling more relaxed because I really don’t know how to do anything and it will put the boy off. So yeah, I’m 16 and I’ll be 17 in October and I’m embarrassed that I’m getting so old and haven’t even kissed anyone. I’m pretty insecure about my looks at the moment because I have bad skin too, so maybe I’m a late developer.. I don’t know. Help!

[Anonymous]

Girl I feel you. I'm 17 almost 18 and never kissed a guy let alone have sex. All my friends have bfs and are having sex on a monthly basis and like you I cannot even imagine me doing that. But it will happen whenever your ready. Try not to worry about what everyone else is doing and just do what your comfortable with