Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
There is unbearable sexual tension and chemistry between myself and a colleague at work. He's making moves on me like pulling me close to him, touching my thigh, and last week he massaged my neck over my clothes ofc and it took everything I had to not turn around and kiss him. However there is a bigggggg problem, he's engaged. And I told him I don't want to be a home wrecker and he said she doesn't have to know. I sound like a right slut but believe me I have morals and self-control, but he just sets every nerve in my body on fire and he feels it too he even said to me that this tension between us is driving him crazy and he asked me on Friday that if I just let him kiss me once and if I don't like it he will never touch me again and I haven't said no yet. But I know if I let him kiss me we're not going to stop.
DISCLAIMER: I'm also a bloody virgin (he knows this btw).
I know self-control more than most, I've been in a 3 year relationship and managed to keep in control and remain a virgin. But I can't do it anymore with him. There are no feelings involved. I don't feel anything but sexual attraction towards him and I feel like I really need to get him out of my system or I will lose it... I feel like I need to fuck him - I've never felt so sexually frustrated or attracted to someone specifically like this before.
Should I just do it?
What Girls & Guys Said
17 13I’d be way to concerned with my future karma to do something like that. There are so many other fish in the sea and men you’re going to meet. Don’t make you first time be with some engaged fuckboy, especially one you work with. Trust me, sex changes everything. You don’t want those issues.
I dont think you'll be happy, ones he woke up you'll never see him again anymore, are u happy with that situation,
I've been with very attractive guy, and he woke up my feminity
My self control think about, okay if we fuck , he is not even mine, i have nothing to gain to him.
I think a good and greater guy deserves my virginity
Anyway, to tell honestly, virginity is very high value for men, because right now you can't ever crossed a woman with it. Everyone just discarded it for a reason and sometimes no value at all
I think -v matters... Because you'll know which guy will respect you for it
You will get your heart wrecked and the stupid boy will return to his wife with a grinning smile. Please, do not do this. Do not feed his fucking ego.
Once you lose it with this guy I think you're going to want to keep doing it, you might even develop romantic feelings for him and him for you. If you want to be this guys side piece go ahead. But just know you might not be the only other girl he flirts with or is trying to sleep with or ever will besides his future wife.