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I recently met a woman through work and we had to stay in contact as part of our jobs.
So anyway, she's a Latina and she's really sexy, like irresistibly sexy, and the more we messaged the more we hit it off. So to make a long story short, I lied to my wife and told her that I had to go away to another city for some work courses. I ended up spending the day with that Latina woman, and eventually we had sex in a hotel room. THE BEST SEX OF MY LIFE!!! I'm not exaggerating. White women just don't move like that, and this woman's body was AMAZING!! We had sex like 4 times that day and I still get hard just thinking about her. I feel really guilty, but as a white guy it was the best experience I could have. I honestly don't know how to feel. I had sex with my wife the next day, but it just wasn't as exciting as being with that Latina. I just want to move forward now without this guilt, should I even feel guilty about sex that was that good?
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13 25Bruh you could give your wife an std what the fuck
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I'm not at a high enough level to message anyone. I just wanted to ask this question about my affair anonymously to protect my identity. I appreciate you though, thanks.
telling your wife will not change your guilt and shame. this is something you will have to live with end of story. if you can't live with your actions and you want your marriage to continue then u need to cancel your fling. put it in the spank bank. my advice to you is that because you can't live with the guilt end your fling. be more engaged with your wife, maybe do some counseling. I would not tell anyone about your experience besides the Latina and the people you have told here on GAG. if you want to keep your marriage going take your secret to the grave and chalk it up as a learning experience. if you want to expose the problems you have in your marriage and potentially end it and move on... then bring up your fling but expect to get yourself a lawyer and brush up on your signature cuz you'll be signing some papers
Thanks for your insight. I know that I need to make a decision, but sometimes I just feel cold about it. Like I'm resentful to my wife in some ways because we've been married for 8 years and she's just kind of in her own world. She's busy with her friends, and gossiping, and running after her sisters etc. Having sex with that Latina was exciting for me. Sometimes I feel guilty, and sometimes I feel alone in my marriage and it's like who cares, you know? I guess I'm just sitting idly for the time being, I'm gonna occupy myself with work like usual.
so confront her that she is not meeting your needs. end it with the latina. you now know the outcome. if you want to fix it you need to come to your wife and tell her your needs aren't being met.
I kind of think the ship has sailed on fixing my marriage. I can't exactly tell my lazy wife to fuck me like a Latina. She's what they call a "Pillow queen" she just lays there starfish style. I feel like the best I can do is think about that Latina while I have sex with my wife. Sorry if I'm sounding like an asshole, but reading all these comments about my poor wife has kind of exhausted me. I'm almost feeling pissed off at her more than guilty at this point because I'm trapped in this marriage.
I don't feel sorry for you cheating, the only boat you missed was talking to her before you banged the Latin babe. it sounds to me you aren't invested in your relationship period. I would do this... tell your wife your needs aren't being met and see if she's invested in you as well. maybe you need a weekend off at the beach to reflect.
I would not tell her about your fling. address the problems you have right now with your marriage and see if it's salvageable. I'm not here to say what you did was right or wrong. obviously it was wrong. I'm here to help minimize the collateral damage. you did what you did for your own reasons and it's you that's going to have to live with it. it's where do you go from here now
I'm scared that the honest truth is bad. I don't want my wife anymore. The passion was gone a long time ago, and in a way this affair has shown me the type of women I want. She can't meet my needs, and people here keep saying to divorce her so she can find somebody better, but that's just cliche advice. She's got it damn good with me, and if I honestly thought everything would be better for her I would tell her. I imagine her freaking out, going into shock, crying, hitting me, throwing stuff, telling everyone we know, doing some kind if damage to my car, getting a lawyer, taking the house, half the money, finding the other woman and stalking her, texting her and being mad at me forever. Then turning into a bitter old bitch. Or.. I could just say nothing, go fuck her, and go to sleep.
... but she doesn't have it good with you. you don't love her. you need to be honest with her with how you feel. this much you owe her. the honest truth IS bad. your relationship with her blows. you need to talk about it and figure out if you can make it better or go your separate ways. I believe the saying is "shit or get off the pot"
never tell your Wife, it will destroy your marraige, you did a terrible thing, so STFU and don't do it again.
Gotta ask.. how many "white" and how many Latina women have you had sex with?
From your story, it sounds like "one" Latina.. and not that many other women?
To conclude that"all Latinas" are great at sex, and "no white woman is".. seems a stretch.
Also. have you tried black, Asian, Arab, native American?
I've been married to a white woman for 8 years now. I have only dated white women my whole life. This was my first experience with a Latina and it was the best sex I ever had. I do feel terrible for cheating, but also I still get excited just thinking about it.
There's not much you can do now. When in doubt just try to be good to everyone.
Well we all are aware of what the Bible says about adultery know what that said are you having raw sex that means no pulling out you ejaculate inside your wife and your unauthorized side piece and on both of them on birth control and disease-free with verify paperwork? Are you giving your wife more sex as a result of the hot sex with the side dish or are you giving your wife less sex?
Don't ever mention it to anyone. Keep your damn mouth shut. You did what you had to do.
You can always try to pray to Jesus if you like other than that this person has a valid point shut the fuk up before you make things worse
you are pathetic. it's not that she is Latina, but rather the adrenaline rush from you knowing you did something wrong. there's a study done on this on why cheaters feel better sex with the other person because they are doing the forbidden.
You're ridiculous and I'm almost sure this is not even a man bur rather a "Latina" girl using a fake account to write this ridiculous question. How stupid are you. smh.
Is that what you tell your husband is that why he is score with somebody else
@yofuknutz 🤦♀️
Lol, why the sudden animosity towards Latinas at the end? I don't think so, most of us aren't that desperate.
@Aurora1010 hot Latin women who are sexy is sexy are a symptom of a much major problem remember folks a symptom of a much bigger problem why is a wife not putting out what's going on here that needs to be addressed before this gets worse
@Aurora1010 there is no animosity toward anyone. I am a Latina myself, and precisely Because I am I can sense when there's people such as the question asker that tries to put themselves on a pedestal and posting the question as to say that Latinas are irresistible compared to white or other race. It's really pathetic. that personality type is YUCK 🤮
And that's why you'll never make it in Academia except the liberal part you have to look at all examples all sides of the equation so what he is putting himself on a pedestal he's asking for help don't be a bitch by bitch slap him away that's like trying to slap a jumper off a bridge they will be on the bottom and you'll be charged with attempted murder. I stop somebody from jumping off a bridge once I even told him you got thick fucking balls to do that I told him I am too much of a pussy to do thatthat and I kept looking over the edge saying I'm going to throw up like a little girl I don't know how you doing down there man so after talking to him for an hour he was able to come down peacefully but I'm sure your way is a better way sure that is
@yofuknutz hahaha I will not even read all that. Ridiculous.
You're ridiculous that's why you never make it in Academia unless you are giving blowjobs on the side and that's not in my repertoire I flushed people like you out like a flush a bowel movement in the morning
Lol Latinas don't need to do that, and I never noticed such behavior. It's not a thing.
@Aurora1010 I have
Anyway I don't think you're Latina. You sure seemed offended more by the Latina part of the question than the questions problem.
@yofuknutz Well we can say the same about Europeans and other ethnicities then. Cause I noticed that more from Americans and Europeans.
@Aurora1010 could be true
@Aurora1010 I do not care what you think, I am Latina and I do consider myself attractive but I despise the attitude any one can have that think they are better than others simply by race appearance. All in all being Latina as I am, in general Europeans are the most attractive. and that's fact to majority.
Are you referring to European features yes they are more attractive
I don't think Latinas are the most attractive but Europeans aren't it either. It's probably Middle Eastern girls. But if you ask me between Latinas and Europeans then I'll say Latinas, because mixes create more attractive people. And I've been to Texas but the girls and even guys in my state look better in my opinion.
Anyway, if you think the asker is a Latina pick me girl I think you're a European or American pick me girl after this whole tantrum 😂 Peace ✌
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@Aurora1010 yes spelling errors tell us that you're having a tantrum yourself
@yofuknutz English is not my native language. I don't even live in the US :)
I don't know why Americans think the world has to be perfect in English
@Aurora1010 because we got Tire a deciphering people with fucked up accents like India worst fucking English I've ever heard of yeah yeah I know technically they speak English it's a fuk the form of Imperial English now if you do a Canada they speak more cleaner Imperial English but yeah English rocks the world so stop Rocking the Boat
@yofuknutz Well I practice it daily anyway, my goal is to be perfect in anything I study.
@Aurora1010 you're from India aren't you I believe whatever your study you will do your best to be perfect and I'm starting to wonder if that's why a lot of Indian people have a rough accent pushing so hard to be perfect might make you stutter at least here in America anyway it's something I have noticed but it is good to practice until it becomes monotonous.
@yofuknutz No lol I am Mexican
@Aurora1010 I was going to say something but you guys covered everything thank you for the entertainment.
You are guilty 🤔
They are nice but you shouldn’t cheat on your wife unless you are leaving her now
Your 100 percent in the wrong, shame on you :/
Dude, I understand your infatuation with her, but you're being controlled by your hip instead of your head. Your thoughts of a three-way would make your situation 10,000x worse. Just slow down and try to think things through.
Women chat to each-other, a lot. The mere utterance of asking for that would plant a Red Flag in your wife's mind. Your first question should be, does the Latina know you're married. If not, I'd tread as lightly as possible.
She seduced you, it was a fling, but you have to draw the line somewhere.
What is wrong with your current wife? having sex that much with a Latina in a single day could be a sign you feel it's missing from your marriage?
Thanks, I do care about my wife, she's just different. She's always on her phone gossiping and texting. She has kind of a negative outlook and her body is getting kinda flabby. She doesn't do much in bed either, just kind if lays there expecting me to do everything. The Latina woman is curvy, energetic, passionate and her skin tone is sexy to me.
If she isn't showing the same level of effort or commitment you need to talk to her about it. Communication is key. Women treat men who let themselves go rather brutally nowadays, reguarly using it as a reason for divorce; if you haven't brought these issues up before you should at least try to save things, go to the gym together, something. How do you know the Latina likes you for You, and isn't using you as a sugar-daddy? You took her shopping, and you're tied to her through business. Marriage is not a small deal; divorce can have life ruining consequences and you Do Not want to have to go through the legality of all that without good reasons. Trading a life-long thing for a 1 time fling is a bad business decision.
That's true, I am scared of divorce. That's part of why I don't want to tell my wife anything. I want to keep having sex with the other woman because she made me feel alive again. I feel like I'm gonna get addicted to her, and this situation's just gonna get worse.
Right now you're lusting for her, I get that. Just try to slow down and breathe; this Latina has got you wrapped around her finger, so you have to be conscious of this - don't let her use you. If she wants to be a homewrecker and tell your wife to cause a breakup, she probably could. So be cautious! As it concerns the Latina, follow the following: • Be aware of STI and STD. • ALWAYS Wear protection with this woman. I mean ALWAYS. • Never give her your home address or whereabouts. If she wants you she will try to get it. • Under no circumstances should you do anything, or give her any opportunities, to get pregnant. • If it's impossible to avoid seeing her, make it RARE. A sudden change in your behaviour will be noticed and investigated. "Why say all that?" Ladies may ask. Well, unfortunately this man has caught a strong case of lust. Our words will likely have little impact against his bewitchment; the best we can do is try to correct the course of this bolted horse, and avoid it breaking it's own legs. The hard truth is that your wife is bound to know/suspect/be told eventually, if you stop now it would have been just a one night stand. But I gather, from how your describe her, things aren't really working out at home. Please try to follow my suggestions for both your Wife and the Latina; ask your SO to do some self improvement, and try to keep the Latina at a distance.
What if I want the other woman? Sometimes I feel like my marriage is pretty much over, I'm just scared to hurt my wife and I'm scared of the divorce. I kind of feel like what I did is already unforgivable so why stop? I mean the woman I had the affair with isn't just some random or club girl I picked up, she's a co-worker. We work for the same company and she makes the same money I do. She doesn't even know I'm married yet.
"She doesn't even know I'm married yet." Ah. Now we come to a potentially life shattering conundrum; How will your coworker take it? There are four possibilities; 1. She is disturbed by this and doesn't wan to see you anymore 2. She is outraged by this and may try to tell others 3. She is unfazed by this and wants to keep seeing you 4. She wants to ruin your marriage, so she can take her place. If I was you I would pause seeing your co-worker and try to work things out with your Wife. If nothing looks like it will change, you could treat her how women treat their husbands who've let themselves go - break up. It's sounding like divorce isn't something too far fetched, and maybe your wife would want that if she knew you had a cheated on her. "I kind of feel like what I did is already unforgivable so why stop?" Sir... here's my metaphor; continuing to shoot because you've already hit someone doesn't make your sentence lighter. You have to make up your mind, living two lives will always lead to a life-destroying disaster when either of them find out. You're technically cheating on TWO people. If I was you I wouldn't have allowed myself to suffer in silence if things weren't working out in a marriage, I'd try to get her more active. But you've skipped straight to the replacing her... [sigh]. Look, you must be a smart guy to have a good job; try to clear your mind of lusty thoughts and consider the side-effects of any potential courses of action you can think of. The guilt will remain until this situation is resolved; after that it may lessen as time passes, but your subconscious knows it's doing something wrong. The memory of this, and how it affects their lives may haunt you depending on how things play out. This is Not a good situation to be in.
The sex between Latinas and white men involves so much chemistry, it's so hot that every white wife/girlfriend should watch it and encourage their husbands/boyfriends to do so.
I know what you mean, I feel like I want to do it again already. It has crossed my mind to just ask my wife if she ever wanted a 3 way. Maybe there would be a way to bring a Latina in?
First you cheat, then you feel guilty. I want to live your head.