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Sexual Health I do not give head. But I insist he does. Am I selfish?
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The thought of giving head is disgusting. But I always need for my boyfriend to eat me. Am I being selfish? Guys, would you be ok with this? I told him from the begininng of the relationship that I don't give head.
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28 55whatever deal you make between yourselves is what ever it is. If he is ok with it then fine.
it's usually the other way around but... well... why does it disgust you?
actually i have ocd and i don't like the idea but some guys are naturally clean and fresh in that region in which case i don't mind it.
Sounds pretty selfish, but at least you told him from the beginning. That was good of you. At least give it a shot and if you don't like it, fine. But insisting that he always do it for you and you won't even consider doing it for him because it's "sounds nasty"? Seriously? He sounds like a real keeper if he knows that and still doesn't leave you. He deserves you giving it a chance. It could be nice for both of you, not just him.
Whats the point? A man ejaculates and doesn't want sex anymore. I like being penetrated
The point is, it feels good, and I would think a girlfriend enjoys seeing her boyfriend pleased. You would see that if you didn't focus so much on you and what you want. Ejaculation doesn't mean there can't be any sex after that. Might just have to wait a while.
I like to please him. I give him anal, hand jobs, vaginal. But oral sounds nasty.
You like to please him as long as it doesn't take you out of your comfort zone. I'm just saying, giving it a chance is probably a good idea for both of you. And I hope you try it.
I'm thinking about it. Maybe. But it sounds nasty
Ugh if you tell me it sounds nasty again, I'm gonna rip what little hair I have out lol. But you'll think about it. I'm happy with that.
Im thinking about how nasty it sounds
Welp, now I'm bald. Thanks for that.
I agree with you to an extent, asker. I think oral is incredibly disgusting both ways.
You wouldn't get any from me. Fair exchange is my motto.
I wouldn't care if you don't give head :D
If you don't like giving heads and you expect me to give you?
I'd puke all over..
at least the dude knew going in..
You must be willing to give if you expect to receive. Yes you're selfish. No I wouldn't be OK with it.
But he can cum from penetration. I cum. from oral. That's a fair exchange. I also give him anal and let him cum wherever
Oh well you didn't say any of that in your question. I would take anal if I got no oral. Definitely a huge plus. He can cum wherever? Do you let him pull out and cum in your mouth?
I would.
I hate blowjobs, I think they're gross, but I think cunnilingus is amazing.
No offense, but sticking my tongue into someone's poopshoot doesn't sound too appealing to me... To each their own, I guess. (Some people get cunnilingus mixed up and thinking that it's the same as eating a girl out, but no, it's sticking your tongue up someone's anus. Just making sure you know the difference.)
Umm, no it's not.
Really selfish if you ask me.. i would be pissed.
that is very selfish
If he doesn't find it disgusting himself, no you aren't.
You said giving head is disgusting but receiving head from your perspective is not disgusting. Then I ask you is your boyfriend disgusting to you because he gives you oral? I also wonder how much do you kiss him after this lol.
No I kiss him right after he finishes giving me oral. Just the thought of putting a dick in my mouth is disgusting to me.
His mouth just finished licking a vagina and all of its juices. So a vagina is cool?
No. Because its my vagina. I'm bi, but I could never eat a girl either. I just think my mouth on someone's genitals is disgusting.
Its usually they dont want to receive or give head which would make sense. Just strange to hear something like this.
I like receiving, but I just can't give back. I think it's nasty. Then what if we break up? everyone will call me skank for sucking dick. Even if it is for a longterm boyfriend. I've been with him for a year and a half.
There it is I knew there was something else that was bothering you!
That and its nasty. I can't get past those things.
Its ok though most of us assume the women that we are with has given oral to some guy. Heck most women I see have probably given oral at some point in time. Even if the girl I was with who could have swore up and down they didn't I probably wouldn't believe them.
I just dont see the point of giving a guy head. isn't as soon as he ejaculates then the sex is over? And he does have fantasies of me sucking him off and him ejaculating on my face and in my mouth. Disgusting. But isn't as soon as a guy ejaculates, thats it, the fun is over? What would be the point?
He doesn't have to finish from oral and also many guys can cum a few times in a single sex session.
But what if he doesn't want to? like what it head is enough and doesn't want to penetrate me anymore?
If anything thats going to make him want to penetrate you more!
How? I thought guys ejaculate and thats it. Sex is over.
I can go two or three times. He could fuck you, then you could blow him. Or some sucky before, or after, or during.
How are you not single?
Im still a good person. I just have sexual boundaries
Yes selfish. If your not going to suck his cock. Then he shouldn't be obligated to eat you out. But it between you two.
Omg finally!! That makes me feel so much better i literally thought maybe my gf is a lesbian because she loves getting but won't give and it groses her out
Omg finally meaning a girl on this site that finally says it groses her out..
Has she ever tried it?
She did it once then admitted she only did it to keep me happy but then realised it just groses her out too much
she's different in general though, she is totally grosed out by semen
Are you ok with that?
When your in love with someone it doesn't matter
You sound like a future ex-girlfriend
Yes thats selfish..
I rather give oral than receive, but I would still like it occasionally
I would stop unless you reciprocated.
Women are sexually greedy and want men to do all the work... give or you don't receive.
I would like to state that after reading many of your replies to the opinions you received, you seem to be very narrow-minded and sexist. Not only are you that, but you care so much about what other people say about your personal relationship with your own boyfriend whom you are supposed to develop intimacy with, that you are paralyzed in a high school mindset. If you wanted to stay so damn "pure" and "non-slutty", you should have just stayed a virgin until marriage, god damn.