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Sexual Health I do not give head. But I insist he does. Am I selfish?
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The thought of giving head is disgusting. But I always need for my boyfriend to eat me. Am I being selfish? Guys, would you be ok with this? I told him from the begininng of the relationship that I don't give head.
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What Girls & Guys Said
28 55Yes your a selfish one.
Relationship is all about take and give. You like the way he pleases you down there, don't you wanna return the favor to please your man? How do you know that giving head is disgusting, before you even try it?
I know how it feels, I can't imagine myself put someone's genital in my mouth. Then it changed, I like giving head. Giving head to my man feels like I have control of him down there, i like to listen him moaning and his expression while I'm giving him head.. wow
Yes you are.
if u don't give me head don't expect to get head lol
To me, blowjobs are not that important. However, if a girl finds giving head to be disgusting, that tells me something profoundly important about her personality, especially if she requires oral herself. She would not be in my life very long.
What does it say?
Well let's approach it this way as I think it will help you understand. Why do you find your lover's penis disgusting?
I find penises disgusting. Genitals disgusting. I'm bi, but I don't think I could ever eat pussy either. That sounds nasty.
I just don't think it's normal for anyone in a loving relationship to find their partner's genitals disgusting. If you are bi and you can't go down on a woman, what WOULD you do for her?
Nothing. That's the reason I can never be with a woman. I was actually falling for a girl before. We would kiss but I just couldn't go down on her. It's so nasty. She wanted to eat me but I told her no because I wouldn't return the favor and I would have no way of making her cum. At least with a guy I can give him anal and vaginal and he cums. With a girl, I have no way. I just find genitals disgusting. I love his penis. But inside my vagina. Not in my mouth. That's gross.
I'm sorry for you.
Yes that is selfish don't be surprised if he finds a girl that is not selfish and dumps you
No you're not selfish, nobody should ever have to do anything they are not comfortable with and should never be pressured in it either. You were honest about it from the start so i think you shouldn't worry and just enjoy things the way you have it. If he can't live with that then thats his problem.
Well if you told him straight up beforehand that you were a selfish bitch I see no issue.
I'm not a bitch. I'm still a good person. I give him anal, handjobs, and vaginal. I just don't like oral.
Anal makes up for it if you let him cum wherever he wants. By the way handjobs are awful so don't bother with them.
He comes wherever. I don't care. We can shower afterwards anyways.
Not too awful I still couldn't date you but that is close to making up for it.
YOUR BOYFRIEND EATS YOU? Please clarify, or fix the typo... How can you "give head"? You can have a head, but what do you mean "give head"?
"give head" www.urbandictionary.com/define.php
I love this answer so much.
I'd call you a selfish cunt and I'd dump your ass.
He's probably thinking...
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In other words, he doesn't want to ever hear you ask for it :)
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Nope I'm the same way i don't give head. I know to many oral stories and my friends has gotten sores and crap in their mouth from giving guys head it's gross.
I would be okay with it for a while, but eventually I would want her to suck my dick if I'm eating her out. I would understand that she doesn't like it, but if she were to suck my dick and I know she's not a fan of it, that is really attractive. The reason being is because it shows me that she loves me so much that she's willing to do something that she thinks is disgusting just so she can make me happy.
Well, it's usually the other way around right? The guy is always willing to receive but won't give? haha so consider yourself lucky if he hasn't complained!
Head is not disgusting, it's natural girl. What female doesn't want to hear her man moan and groan with pleasure? When I give my man head, it's such a turn on for me. My boyfriend didn't even like head because some dumb female before me had a tongue ring with the little stud made of plastic and was scraping up against his dick (Ouch). Yes it is extremely selfish, give to receive babygirl. Regardless of the way you think of it, giving your man head is an amazing experience. Just like a male eating pussy. Its amazing.
Yeah. You really are. You're also a hypocrite. You say you think it's disgusting, but INSIST he eat you out.