You sound very normal to me!
Sexy feelings tend to be connected to our hormones and our thoughts. So it's not a bad idea to get regular checkups with the doc to exclude anything out of sorts. But mostly our sexuality is linked to our thinking.
And if you're not dating, or you have a lot of negative self talk about yourself (like your appearance, or career, or life direction) then of course you're going to be less interested in sex. That's completely normal. Sex isn't like food... we can easily live without it.
What happens when we date is that we want to connect more and more with that someone special. And often intimacy requires us to be vulnerable and open... like being naked for example. But also when we share our inner desires and secrets.
My suspicion is that some where along the line you've chosen not to explore self touch or masterbation... because that alone will slowly build your sexual confidence, and therefore your sexual interest in others. If you have any inner road blocks about self directed sex then that's the best place to start. Either by talking to close friends, or even a safe therapist. Because until you're comfortable being open and loving with yourself it's going to be very hard to be open with someone else.
Be patient with yourself, you're worth it!
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~ Robby0 0 0 0I masterbate but just few times in couple of months, i dont feel like i want it or need it. also, you say if i experience this "pleasure" next step will be try it with a guy? the thing is, i dont want to. i dont feel like getting naked and let a man touch me and fuck me. its not a sexy ides for me, i dont get aroused by this thoughts.
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Hmmm... I'm not an expert, I'm just giving my best guess. My guess would be that your relationship with sex... how you view it (as healthy and fun or gross and evil) will impact how you FEEL about it. So if you FEEL uninterested then perhaps there's no reason to worry. But if you feel repulsed by the idea of sex, then there's definitely something in your belief system worth digging into. Like past traumas, or something the parents taught you, etc. PLUS how healthy are your relationships with men in general (or women)? Do you have close personal friends that you love and enjoy? Or do you keep people at a distance, etc. You're curious enough to ask us so clearly you're wise enough to learn more about yourself, and I applaud that! Too many people live with their head's in the sand avoiding anything challenging.
If you can to identify with Sasuke more then with Karin then you are asexual. If you don't want sex then you don't need to worry about the fact that no guy approaching you, maybe they somehow feels your asexual energy and understand from the start that it's hopeless to go out with you. By the way did you not see the point in relationship as well? even with a guy that you like and know for a long time, and not some random guy? how that type of thoughts come to our mind? well when you have sexually and attraction the thoughts about sex comes quite naturally, almost like the thoughts about other things that you might want to do with people, also most people find sex as better way to get sexual satisfaction then masturbation. Anyway I actually respect that you are still almost totally pure at this age, it's quite a rare thing nowadays, even if in your case it's come mostly of out asexually and not out morality.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98PTBX5jpL40 0 0 0this was funny. i'm the guy with dark hair) i even get asked similar things, when talking about boyfriend or sex, people go "oh don't try to act like a nun","oh don't be so stuck up", "playing a pure virgin, huh? lol". and i'm like but... i just... don't want, don't feel the need, don't feel the desire to have intimate contact with a man. people find it really weird and think im playing some virgin games, while im totally not.
It's really matters so much if people can't understand you as long as you are fine with your situation, and with staying alone. You don't need to be in relationship just to be like the rest of the people, but you would seek for relationship only if you really wants it. It's most likely that you are "aromantic asexual", because some asexual actually wants relationship, even though they don't like/need sex, you on the other hand don't needs it at all, so it's actually easier for you, because good luck with finding relationship without sex, I see an aromantic asexual as full asexual, what the point in wanting kisses but no sex, like other asexuals? all or nothing makes far more sense to me.
www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Aromanticthat's interesting. and what about men's part? think my behaviour somehow shows them im not intrested? even tho im smiley and nice to them when we talk. but men do not approach me in a sexual way or romantic.
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0 2If you don't have any desire/dream about men or women, you might be Asexual or low hormone level. I would have a medical opinon on your hormone levels. If you don't ever masturbate, don't enjoy it, I don't think you'll have the drive/desire to get into a relationship. Guys, "as slow as thery are", LOL can pick up on the vibe a girl is giving off, (wants to be left alone, looking for fun, etc). I hope U find what you need, Having someone, is a great thing, that is until it ends:-(
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