You have a great point... They say they like looks and personality, but then they go ahead and fuck the next average-looking player/deadbeat they see. -_- I am not saying that women are terrible, but they just do not know what turns them on themselves, and they do not know to how express what actually turns them on, if on the off chance they did know... It is a lot like trying to explain an abstract thing, such as asking about the colour of star light, or what love ACTUALLY is (Disregarding Owen Wilson's definition in Wedding Crashers).
Its generalisation of 4 billion people, you will get contradictions. You need a precise sample of people to represent all social demographics.
Then also take into account the reality vs fantasy. I want a "girl next door" type, some one cute and friendly... but some times i want a girl with big tits to fuck me rotten... we are all individuals with our own wants and needs, i think confusion arises when you try to find a pattern
20 women took part in that pool, that's a decent sample. I don't get what you're trying to say. Someone can be cute and friendly and have big tits and fuck you rotten
20 is not a sample any statistician would hang a hat on, especially when you are comparing it to 4 billion people! What am saying is we want different people for different things, not every one wants to date a porn star, but you might want to get fucked by one
But you may want to date someone with the body of a porn star. I don't get it I don't have separate standards of sexyness for a hookup and a relationship, if she's sexy she's sexy. I don't think women do either because they often end up wanting a relationship with the "bad boys"
You don't see average women in magazines either, dude. Men in general need to stop trying to psycho analyse women. You aren't good at it. If you want to be seen has sexy you need to drop the insecurity. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't value themselves. The vast majority of men and women are in fact average that is what the word means. I know very few women who ended up marrying guys that look like they belong in magazines. And all of them think their husbands are dead sexy.
Yeah they ended up marrying guys who look like they belong in a magazine... So muscular guys are sexy then? I'm not insecure I just want to know what turns women on so I could be more attractive. Women are so complicated I don't even know what makes them attracted to a guy in the first place. Sometimes I think I got it all but then no woman wants me and I'm confused
No honey they don't the vast majority of women end up with normal, average looking guys. You doth protest too much, me thinks. Your clearly insecure. Confident men do not post questions like you did. You can try to pretend that isn't based in insecurity but it clearly is.
I didn't ask what the vast majority of women ends up with but what the vast majority of women would *prefer* to end up with. What is sexy for most women? And no I'm not insecure but whatever. Confused men post questions like this and if you take a look at the guys section there's a few guys here who are just as confused as I am
Not all women are the same, just like guys there is a wide variation in likes.
Yeah there's variation and then there's things almost all guys like. For example the vast majority like slim women with a thick butt and feminine personality.
I get told by just as many guys that I need to put on a lot of weight to be attractive as I get told that I'm good as I am. And how do you define feminine personality? I know guys who like all kinds of different personality traits
Well because slim doesn't mean anorexic. This is a sexy slim woman and you could ask 100 guys and at least 90 would tell you she's attractive
Feminine means sweet lighthearted teasy flirty energetic
Women get turned on by both personalities and looks
Yeah but what kind of personality and what kind of looks (when it comes to the majority of women)
It completely depends on the women
It's hard for me to believe that. There must be some characteristics that are considered sexy for the majority of female population. For example the vast majority of men would consider a small waist, a thick butt and a sweet teasy flirty feminine behavior to be sexually attractive
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No, it's more like "why do I not have as much success with women as I'd like?" I'm sorry guess trying to be more attractive is a bad thing.
same thing bruv
i've never met you and i already find you unattractive based of your obsession with wanting to appeal to women rather than just being yourself
women have a sex drive, sometimes even high sex drive. They just wanna be treated like people and not an object. I noticed they don't really care about body composition that much, I mean the hotter the better obviously but that goes for both genders.
Women have no sexual attraction to men not any kind of "sex drive". Sex is just the reward they give to men who commit.
So not true
@Apple1996 the most common thought and fantasy women have about their boyfriend's penis is not something any man would find pleasant.
The most common thought I have about my mans dick is that I want him to shove it down my throat and choke me with it
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