Guys, I drunkenly told a guy his penis was small?

[Anonymous]

OK GUYS I need your opinion. LOL ok so I haven't been on this site in a while, but I thought I would try it one more time because I'm bored and need to study for finals, but procrastination seems like a better idea. Ok, so there was this guy in my psych class I thought was cute. I built up this kinda-sorta flirtationship with him if you can call it that. He was an odd guy. He never talked and when he did it was often one-word responses, but I could tell that he was attracted to me. So one day I did him a favor and in exchange he bought me lunch at this ramen place. He turned out to be nothing like I thought he would be, was super into different values than I was and very monotone the entire lunch. If I'm being real, I couldn't tell if we were on a date or not. Anyway, one night I get drunk with my friends and end up messaging him to come over. So we end up hooking up and before I know it, we're done and getting dressed. That's basically when it happened. He was going on about how he wasn't insecure and before I knew it i was telling him his penis was small. Now at the time it seemed like no big deal. He kind of laughed it off and we went our separate ways that night. But in the morning is when I screwed up. I ended up freaking out and sending him a 4 paragraph monologue apologizing about what I said. I think I really fucked up because he didn't come to class for two days after that and then when he finally did, he got up and moved. To make matters even more awkward, I saw him where I worked and we exchanged hellos and how are yous like it was normal. And then felt like he actively tried to avoid me and I feel so guilty that I made him feel like that. How would you say he felt about the overall situation? Like we never even talked about where we stood with the sex and he never replied to my text message. He just avoided everything:/ I wish I had known where his head was at, but I was afraid to ask him tbh. Now we don't talk. I wonder if he's bothered.

[Anonymous]

God damn is it a tic tac? I’ll never understand how women are about this. Yes he’s probably feeling bad right now

[Asker]

I'm just an idiot I'll admit it