Normal fight - make up will be wonderful
and now you both graduate - the hard way - to a new upper level of relationship
She's not mature enough to handle her hormones & emotions and
your story proves you don't have clue what to do... w/o outside help MUCH older, wiser so...
a word to the wise... before you do another thing, find a local person that knows what to do with this situation (kind of an interview for a job idea), then hope they will "be there" next time you both step on another land mine like this.
Yeah, you were wrong and underlined that your will is more important than hers when the relationship is lost w/o a light to guide. However, it's not that bad in that w/o a guy's sex/love drive, many gals would sit & wait for "nothing" to happen, waiting for their prince charming to guide them. This will heal in time but witing can be shortened by your love talk ointments and acts of love band-aids.
Again, don't do a thing until you have a sage counselor in the wings to insure no more land mine are handled crazy like this one that exploded. These memories build over time & can overshadow the true love you have for her memories.0 0 0 0You both need to figure out what you want, and if you can compromise or agree on those wants. An exclusive relationship takes work, trust, and an open mind.
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To me it does seem like a huge misunderstanding. But i only have your side of things so i dont know.
From what you have written we can only assume that she was being paranoid, and that you were being unclear about your intentions.
At the same time she could have just said no and not done anything.____.0 0 0 0I think she should sort herself out before she tries being in a relationship, rather than end up using physical intimacy as a means to emotionally abuse you into submission.
0 0 0 0That, and you didn't actually rape her, so that's good.
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