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Sexual Health I fucked my boss behind my husband's back. What to do?
Anonymous
So my husband has to work abroad for a couple of months. I invited my boss over for Dinner. A lot of my colleagues have invited him over at least once so nothing intended at first. I cooked for him, we talked about people from work, and then we just fucked. It wasn't a romantic atmosphere or anything but than again that's not the way I like it. I know it sounds stupid but it reminded me from when I was in college and had this guy over, cooked for him and then he was like let's just fuck. He wasn't over excited like most guys who try to please me, but it feeled like I had to please him. Like he was the one who I needed to do my very best for to please, and that excites me a lot. With my boss now it was just the same. I never have that kind of wild sex with my husband because it always feels like I'm the one who stands above him. Now it was the other way around. He stayed cool and made me feel like I had to show what I could do. I never thought that I would cheat on my husband but because of this situation I got weak because it remembered me of that guy in college who gave me the time of my life. Now it was the same. After we were done he just got dressed, stayed cool and told me that I was good and went back home. Then the guilt kicked in. I don't know if I should tell my husband. I am actually sure that he would forgive me but I think it will do less good than when I'd keep quiet. My boss did tell one guy at work that he fucked me and made a joke that he didn't fuck me, but "I fucked him like a pornstar". Which makes clear that he doesn't take the whole thing seriously and might tell it to more people, although my colleague is pretty sure he was the only one who knows and the secret is safe with him. He just knows the boss best. So what do I do now? My boss acts as before so my job is not in trouble, but do you think he would tell more people? Cause that could get him in trouble too right? And should I keep it a secret to my husband?
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What Girls & Guys Said
23 51Where do I begin?
You made a mistake (actually several... I'm not getting into that) and a major one. You have two options.
#1. Tell hubby, and buckle down for the aftermath.
#2. Don't tell hubby and live with the guilt.
I'd explain more, I just need to go wash my eyes out with soap.
Tell your husband what you did and hope that he doesn't throw you out as he should.
That's crazy!!! You should right a romantic novel!
Am I the only one who think she got this from p*rno site?
Same...
Hahah wow that may b ur adventurous sexy feeling
I love that
Every man needs to avoid this type of woman
"Oh we just fucked"
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Start playing "The Sims 4" haha:P
now fuck your husband behind your boss's back
Ask for a Raise
from where did you steal that story?:P
I agree. Don't tell him. There is never any good I n telling someone you have cheated unless you are leaving that person. I would say havering fun is healthy. It can keep you happy when playing housewife. You husbands will unknowingly benefit from you keeping yourself topped up elsewhere.
So you're saying it's alright to cuckold a husband? SHM
Anno, You're firing on all cylinders tonight mate lol!!
Hope you will get cheated on.
You should tell your husband otherwise you'll die of guilt. And don't try to sugar coat it tell him everything that happened. Just ask yourself how you'd feel if you had to find out from his coworker that he screwed a girl in your bed instead of him telling you himself. Just a thought but your coworkers now know your secret and it only takes you to make them mad and they have to tell your husband.
Keep fucking your husband's boss and call your husband on the phone while doing it!
Have fun, don't get caught
It's very easy for people to be judgmental and call you all kinds of names. It's only a woman who has herself cheated who will understand the burden of guilt you are carrying. My advice is to learn to live with your guilt and don't confide in even your closest friend. Just pray you do not get pregnant with his child. And even if that happens there are ways to deal with it.
You should come clean, before anyone tells husband... Never ever fuck a guy that is, so close to home. If you come clean now, he might forgive you, but you'll have to work very hard to regain that trust... You might even have to look for new work. Honestly, looking for a new place of work might be the best plan of action considering the word that you slept with him will spread faster than you spread your legs ( I know not the time to joke, but I couldn't waste the opportunity, please don't get mad I've cheated too- It happens, we are all humans!) In reply to your scumbag boss that wants to open his mouth, that is considered sexual harassment in the work place. Not cool! That is also smearing your character.
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So your husband's abroad probably working his ass off, while you stay home and fuck your boss. I bet you don't even cook for your husband and you make excuses but you'd cook for your boss? I'm gonna go easy on you! Because I'm sure you feel guilty and all these hilarious comments made you cry (they are true btw) You're a little too old to play the naive card. Don't you think your boss will tell others? Don't you think he's done this before? Total conflict of interest. You're an idiot... Why get married? Did you want a managerial role?
You terrible person. You Tell your husband so he Can divorce you and find someone better.
And women wonder why men fuck 'em and dump 'em. Who wants to marry a woman like that? And when you get divorced, odds are he'll still have to pay you the fucking alimony, you whoring cunt, and you'll probably still be the one who gets to keep the residence too.
You are vile. You just fucked him, no connection or spark behind your poor husbands back. Absolutely disgusting. You need to tell your husband so he can divorce you.
It amazes me that anyone would do such terrible shit. I hope you husband finds another woman , you don't deserve him. And if you've done it one you'll do it again.