I get super wet around my crush is there anyway to stop it... it's really embarrassing?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I see my crush every day at school and we always hang out. Problem is I always get super wet when he's around... even by just looking at him. And he's always touching and hugging me... and omg my body definitely reacts to it and likes it. But the problem is when I get wet it's not just a little bit... it can b enough to kinda soak the back of my pants or to leave a wet stain on the back of my dress and drip down my leg. It's so gross and I get embarrassed every time it happens. Is there a way to stop it or something because I know he's must have noticed and as I said it's really embarrassing

[super147]

You can't really change how your body reacts unfortunately. You could maybe do some work on your mind because the mind ultimately controls the body. Perhaps if you were able to think of more neutral thoughts and not let your mind get carried away then you could control your level of arousal.

If all else fails, can't you just use sanitary towels to stem the problem? You don't have to use them all the time but if you feel it happening you could at least stop it from getting out of hand.

[Asker]

I did once and it soaked through. I use them sometimes but I really hate how they feel and it cost a lot lol

[super147]

Then it may be easier to try and work on your mind, thinking of less sexualised thoughts and trying to control your breathing and your general state of excitement. Arousal can be somewhat regulated if you use the power of your mind correctly.

[Asker]

Lol dumb part is I don't think I think of him n a sexual way at the time. I just get happy seeing him or hugging him and boom stupid wet panties happen. it's so frustrating

[super147]

Yes, I can imagine that would be frustrating. Your body is responding subconsciously. At worst you might try wearing two pairs of underwear, that could also somewhat help stem the issue.

[Asker]

I'll try. Hopefully he doesn't notice if I do that lol

[Asker]

do u think there's a chance he's noticed that I end uo getting that turned on around him?

[super147]

I would seriously doubt it. I don't think he'd have put two and two together even if he saw the signs. If he saw any stain on your dress he would likely think you sat in something. Don't worry about it.

[Asker]

Lol he is super slow about things sp hopefully that's true. he hasn't said anything if he's noticed but I haven't said anything when he's gotten hard while hugging me so we might just both b too awkward to say anything

[super147]

Yeah, you might well be. If you have felt him getting aroused too then you definitely don't need to worry. It's not like he's doing any better than you, lol. Seriously, don't worry about it, these things happen and they're not a big deal.

[Dim1213]

I suggest that you try wearing a period cup. That will most likely help you more than a pad would. Try bringing him more down to earth and remembering that it is your freind and not your crush hugging you. Putting things in persective will probably help you out. Your body is reacting perfectly to the signals your brain is telling it to.
Good luck with him. :)

[Asker]

I don't think about anything like that when he hugs me though. I just think of a nice hug like other people. I don't know y my body is like screw u I'm make this awkward

[Dim1213]

It is cause in the back of your mind he is still your crush that you admire.

[Blonde401]

It shouldn't be that much... that's a bit weird. I'd see a OB/Gyn and see if that's normal.

[Asker]

I have she says I'm normal and nothing is wrong so

[Blonde401]

Wear thicker underwear and pantyliners. And chill a bit.

[Anonymous]

You could try using pads or you could try distracting your mind.

[Asker]

I do use them but sometimes I end up soaking through it... and they're really uncomfortable and after awhile cost a lot

[tinyclit]

Maxipads. Keep 'em in your backpack or purse.

[AndyOh]

Not sure there is a way to stop it, since it is your body and emotions reacting to your crush being next to you.
But maybe wear a large pad to soak up the wetness. All I can think of.

[lukeedmonton]

Tampons and pads sound like a good idea.
And it's not gross, a lot of guys like wet girls ; )

[Asker]

No it's very gross to me at least I don't like it

[lukeedmonton]

You are most likely a little to wet because of puberty. I have meet ladies that get wet panties, but only with forplay. Never dripping down their legs. Just give it some time. And a lot of guys love the wetness.

[StrawberryMilkyy]

I totally understand you. The same always happens to me, and one time my crush noticed and I was MAD embarassed by he smiled instead. . .

[StrawberryMilkyy]

I totally understand you. The same always happens to me, and one time my crush noticed and I was MAD embarassed but he smiled instead. . .

[zl00pedragl0ver]

I would be SUPER thrilled knowing a sheila creamed herself that bad because of me. I would do everything I could to make sure she isn't embarrassed. I'd probably want to eat her ASAP and very frequently at least twice a day.

[BeastRB]

Maybe try to control it? Not really sure what to tell ya

[Blitzkrieger]

Use pads? I think boners are more emberrasing because you can actually see them.

[Asker]

I do lol, I've actually soaked through them a few times. or have to change them a lot

[Blitzkrieger]

Wow thats very wet then. Maybe try masturbating if you dont do that? It helps somewhat with boners so maybe it helps with your wetness too?

[Asker]

It does some but I don't even think sexual thoughts about him when it happens. I just end up seeing or hugging him and that makes me happy and then boom I end uo somehow getting wet

[Blitzkrieger]

Its the same with boners. It just happens.

[kelltimins]

tampon

[Anonymous]

yes let me take care of her :P