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Sexual Health I had a vasectomy 5 years ago. My girlfriend says she's pregnant with my child. My question is when should I tell her the child isn't mine?
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I know for a fact the kid isn't mine and my sperm count is zero. From what I gathered from her friends, she was a slut in college and her cock count is well over 20+. At the same time, she was looking for a guy that has "potential" to make money... ME! Two year ago, I met her at a college bar where we connected while I was continuing my master's degree. We banged for months with a condom plus birth control. She was just a booty call to me for the first month and I didn't mind that she saw other men while we had a sexual relationship. She was just a friend with benefits to me. After a couple of months of dating, she wanted a serious relationship because I was "marriage material". I got a vasectomy at a young age of 25. So my vasectomy was never in question because I warned her in the beginning that I never wanted kids. She laughed in what I said and agreed to my terms. After dating for 6 months and through immaculate conception, she says that she's pregnant while we're using all the precautions to prevent pregnancy. This happened after she found out that I landed a job that makes 90k as an engineer. I knew that she was full of shit and nodded my head and acted happily that I will be a dad. My query is should I bring up that the child isn't mine, or wait till it's too late to abort the baby? Personally, I should tell her now because I don't want my fellow citizens paying child support for a bastard through taxes for a cheating whore. But also at the same time, I would love her to pop out a bastard that's a couple skin tones darker than both of us and I would question the paternity. I would love to see the look on her face crying in the realization that she failed to lock in a man to support her and another man's child. However, I can see her lawyers going after me legally because I was vindictive. If you're a family attorney, let me know the legal ramifications.
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What Girls & Guys Said
20 39Have a paternity test ASAP and plus a certificate or proof from your
surgeon who did the procedure. Then confront her and get it over with.
I'm going to law school and I know a bit about this. If she puts your name
on the birth certificate, you're toast ! I'm not practicing family law, but this is what I know so far. Do this ASAP because if you wait after it's too late to abort, it will get exponentially uglier and more expensive.
Interesting. I have a question. So if she did put his name on the certificate without permission it doesn't matter he's toast? Isn't that fucked up?
@Hsnscsc If he isn't on the birth certificate, she has no recourse. He needs a family law attorney. I'm practicing criminal defense.
No tell her now, dealing with all the legal bullshit is not worth it... In the future stay clear of such girls...
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She wanted a serious relationship because I was "marriage material" no woman would ever say that. At least not to your face.
Stop trolling, dude.
It's pretty obvious from they way you write that you are long way off being Marriage material.
Nice try though, but I can't believe people fell for it. I Don't think you can either.
That last part skin tone darker is a bit racist
I am not a lawyer but I think a paternity test should give you grounds to walk..
You should tell her now, but if she wasn't willing to get an abortion, would you still stay with her and help her raise the baby?
Why did you get a vasectomy?
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Get out of there now. There are still ways she can get child support payments and fuck you up even if it's understood you're not the father.
Right before she gives birth...
I would ask her if she was cheating and after that tell her about the vsectomy. It's a good situation to learn about her personality.
That's up to you when you want to tell her. but I don't see how you'd be legally responsible for anything