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Sexual Health I HATE anal sex, do you too?
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The title says it all, I HATE anal sex, do you too? Before you automatically put "No." and/or start bashing me, let me explain a bit to why I hate anal sex. Anal sex hurts like hell, the penis and/or the tongue entering the ass hole, is REALLY painful. It's THAT painful because the butt is NOT a body organ to use in sex. Some ass grabbing and stuff like that during sex is ok but not anal sex. Anal sex is also really painful because it actually does HARM you. With the penis and/or tongue entering the ass hole each time during sex, the ass hole will widen and widen each time, and soon enough when it's too big, you won't even be able to hold your poop anymore and the poop will automatically fall out. Also, if god is real, anal sex is a sin and evil. If god isn't real, it's not an evil sin but it's just an EXTREMELY idiotic thing that will ruin your body function, which in this case is pooping. Anal sex is similar to smoking, it ruins you.
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17 27I don't hate it, but I don't love it.
What was it, about it, that made it something you wouldn't like to do regularly? Just your honest opinion?
@JackSmy why do you think?
I don't love it, but I don't hate it.
Tried only once but withdrew as it was painful to her.
girl has to be extremely clean.. Plus I usually do it on girls 19 to 30 years old..
l would do it
I'm a guy and I totally find it disgusting.
Never had such a thing in my life, never gonna..,
The whole idea of entering a @@@@hole is disgusting, makes me wanna throw up
Can't believe why some men are so crazy about it,
The anus is NOT a sexual organ, this increase in butt FU$$#^G is disturbing.
Nah I like it
Wow,
You've really led a sad misinformed life,
The tongue is painful?
Nice try,
I love it and I think that a woman who also likes it has miles of advantages over any other who doesn't like it.
Me and my girl adore it and I get to cum inside her with no worries which drives her crazy after for more.
You’re really dumb. It can still get someone pregnant because it drops down.
What a shitload (pun intended) of bull! None of the above is correct in any way? :-O
Pfffft that's the dumbest thing I ever heard you act like your ass dosent shrink back which it dose haha that's so ridiculous you were miss informed unless you be putting your fist in thare 3 times a day that won't happen haha I almost fell off my chair laughing
Actually I work in the medical field. Yes it does do permanent damage. I see it all the time.
@Sweetheart666 yah I grew up with doctors and nurses my entire life mom's a nurse. Unless your doing something stupid or over the top and some men and women legitimately like it not because of anyone else
You aren’t telling the truth. It may stretch back the first or second time. However, after that the walls become damaged. It causes lots of health problems and can even cause you to need very costly surgery. I also help in nursing homes (well prior to covid lockdown) and gay men have a lot of issues because of over exposure. I see it all the time. Most women try it because they were pressured. Simple fact. Most women (about 75%) find it painful and not pleasurable. Men who receive actually report less pain because of their prostate. Nope sorry it’s not good for your body and can cause a lot of problems. Not to mention it is degrading to women in many ways. Even most medical establishments say to stay away from it. Your mom must not be much of a nurse. No surprise though, most of them aren’t.
@Sweetheart666 first of all I never said I got the info from my mom just that she is a nurse me and my mother don't get along so we don't really talk much but she is a well respected nurse and has been for 33 year's so I don't appreciate you taking shit on my mother just because you don't like me or my opion. And I never you couldn't hurt yourself and I never said people should do it out of social pressure also never said you should do it excessively or that anyone has to or that you should disregard all caution. But If I decide I want to it's my right to do so. Your not going to agree with me and I'm not going to agree with you so please just let it go.
It isn’t about liking your opinion. It’s about it not being factual. Spreading false information if it pertains to health is very damaging. I see people get hurt all the time and abused with stuff like this. In fact, there was a study that was factual but very controversial. The only reason straight men like anal is because they know women don’t. So that is harmful in itself. Originally, it wasn’t your opinion, considering your rebuttal about having knowledge in healthcare because of exposure to healthcare professionals. Most nurses, just like doctors aren’t that good quality wise. It’s true. So in short, do not spread false, damaging information and pass it off as expertise. In addition, falling off your chair laughing about false information is unacceptable as well. Shame on you.
@Sweetheart666 I'm going to repeat this because you seem to want to pick a fight over something said OVER A year ago. I never said I was an expert never passed anything off as being expertise. IN FACT AT NO POINT DID I SAY FOR ANYONE TO DO IT. Never Said for anyone to attempt it now did. And I SWEETHEART YOU CAN Shame on me all you want I have been a disappointment my whole life so why would it change now. There is a bunch of other people on this comment so go pick a fight with someone who cares. Because I don't I have bigger things to worry about. I don't care what your study's says yah it maybe true but thair is still legitimately like it I'm one of them and I'm not saying that anyone should be pressured to do so and I never said they should attempt it. NOW LEAVE ME ALONE ITS MY BODY AND ILL DO AS I PLEASE WITH IT. If choose to start taking drugs every day and drink a fifth of alcohol and carve a flubbing pentagram into my thighs that's my business. And no I do none of those things I actually hate alcohol so what I do in my sex life is my business so back off and piss with someone else
@Sweetheart666 and if you find it degrading that's your problem not mine. And for the record my boyfriend didn't even suggest it I did so get off your hi horse and stop suggesting that every man that likes it just wants to abuse woman
Go pick a fight with @JackSmy and leave me be
No fight intended. I’m just saying there was study that pointed their intentions out. It was too controversial. i don’t think you’re a disappointment. But you are proving my point about the degradation part.
@Sweetheart666 I never said it degraded me and my boyfriend doesn't do it to hurt me.
So I don't see how it would prove anything. I also never said I was disappointed in myself I said everyone else was so I wouldn't feel a need to degrade myself because I don't hate myself
Just because you got some percentile that your apparently trying to shove everyone in to doesn't mean Im part of your stupid percentage so stop trying to group me in with them.
Huny I’m not talking to you. I’m talking to Phillip. Sorry huny I’ll continue to stand up for women. Obviously, most people aren’t going to. I’ve even attempted to post my stats and publications but I’m too new to this site so I can’t, which is really stupid.
@Sweetheart666 don't know who that is but he's not on this comment so why don't you message him and I can stand up for myself just fine.
I speak from experience, it's 6 years since I tried anal with my boyfriend and I can remember the pain like it was yesterday. It was humiliating with my face in the pillow and my bum pointed at him whilst he got all the pleasure and laughed at my pain! Plus... how can I put it nicely... It makes you fart, and after he's finished inside you those farts aren't just air because what the guy puts in your anus has to come out... I'm talking about semen - it's disgusting, it hurts, and it's degrading
I love anal. Bit I understand your point about farting semens. I always try to come out before.
Sounds like that guy just abused you, for his own pleasure!! So sorry for that!!
@JackSmy anal sex is degrading. It’s degrading because you expect me to bend over and put myself in pain while you get off at my expense. It’s degrading because it’s very likely you’ve just denied me an orgasm while you pleasure yourself. It’s degrading because you’d rather stick your dick in something I shit out of than my vagina, which you should cherish and there should be no substitute for. It’s degrading because you coerce and pressure it. It’s degrading because you think my vagina is too loose for your pleasure when I take special care to ensure it stays tight for your pleasure. Why would you want to do something that degrades someone else?
If he is still your boyfriend you need to leave immediately.
@Sweetheart666 No!! Don't assume so much! I would NEVER, EVER, FORCE anyone, and you have some really intense feelings about it, like being USED! I am not HIM!! I am, actually REALLY OFFENDED that you just assume I am like that D-bag! It is not for everyone, and if you don't like it, or want to experience it, say NO!!! If he does it, anyway, file a police report for rape! I am not endorsing, or saying anyone should, but just that in my personal experience, with consensual loving partners, it can be very enjoyable to many. I'm sorry you had a bad experience with it, but don't judge me, and assume that I am like the one that abused you!
@JackSmy no sorry most people, especially women don’t like it. It was reported about 75% of women felt coerced or pressured by their partner to try it. Sorry it is what it is. I don’t know you. But there is a 75% chance you’re full of crap.
@Sweetheart666 I am not saying you should do it AT ALL!! But thanks for not understanding that, and being offensive! Maybe take a little more time to READ what I wrote, and not just JUDGE! Your life will be much better, if you just 'Listen' more than you 'speak' (An old Native American teaching, and NOT INTENDED TO OFFEND YOU!)
@JackSmy statistically speaking yeah you likely are that kind of guy.
@Sweetheart666 And if you want to JUDGE, based on BULLSHIT, then you can FCK OFF!! I would prefer that you get to know each person, each man, and NOT ASSUME, and JUDGE, before you even KNOW!! You judged me, and assumed, and you don't know me, and YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG, with your ASSUMPTIONS, about me!
You have a very unhealthy and illogical aversion to anal sex that is based on ignorance.
It's definitely not for everyone, if it's not a desire of yours or your spouses, I'd say don't do it. If it is something you & your partner like, then it's fine to have it. It's all about consent & feeling good.
Men coerce women into trying it all the time. Then the men guilt them into saying they like it. It’s awful.
A butthole is a butthole, dosent matter if its a guy or girl. I dont go there with women. Thats one thing I won't do in the bedroom. But Ill lick a woman's pussy all day.
Wow you think the person FUCKING another person in the ass has it worse than the person getting fucked in the ass? Definitely not.
Oh and I don't care for it. I most likely will never try it. But I don't care if other people do it?
When the hell did I say that? Both of them have it bad but it's even worse for the person being fucked. The person fucking has it bad because he's sticking his genitals up someone's fucking poop hole, how disgusting is that?
I mean, you acted like it was so painful to put your dick in a hole. Being that hole is way worse. Why did you do it if you don't like it? ?
Those 1st 2 sentences are true but the 3rd isn't. Who the hell said that I DID anal sex? I have sex, am sexual, and enjoy sex, but NEVER did anal sex and NEVER will.
Wtf? You talked about it as if you KNEW what it was like. I have never heard a guy say giving anal sex hurts. I don't think it does? I've never heard anything of the sort. Guys say it feels better.
I do know what it is like, you don't have to have it to know how it's like, it's 1 of those things. Giving anal sex doesn't really hurt but it's just really gross for the person giving it, but it's sure A LOT better the receiving it.
Exactly. It doesn't hurt. Its just gross. ... like I said I don't care if other people do it. Why do you care?
I doubt these guys would be so into it if his partner busted out a strapon and tried to use it on them.
See that’s the problem with a lot of guys. They talk this big talk but then come to find out have never done it or coerced a woman to do it and then guilt her into saying she likes it.
Never had it and everyone I know who has done it says it hurts like hell and isn't worth it.