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Sexual Health I have a forced sex (rape) fantasy. Is this normal?
Anonymous
I get so turned on by the idea of someone dominating me and using me anyway he wants. But most guys are too vanilla. I don't know why I love the idea of being overpowered so much. These days I am unsatisfied with my sex life because guys want to make love instead of doing it how I want. Can anyone relate.
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 24I doubt it's normal
I love it
you need a badass guy :)
Its normal, more girl Like thats fantasy
I've recently started seeing this guy who is a little dominant in bed, where he kind of puts his hands around my neck and restricts my breathing a little. he's told me he likes that and wasn't sure if I would. At first I was like wtf is happening.. And now, I'm wanting more. Problem is, he only seems to do it when he's had a few drinks :/
So yeah, I guess I get where your coming from :)
I guess it's a bit of a turn on to think, 'hmm, I may die in this sex session?' :P
if we take into account your age yes it's normal
I don't think it's the rape you like but more the bondage domination, Like tied up etc... and thats common not to be raped by a stranger tho...
normalcy doesn't exist.
its normal to want to be dominated in the bedroom, but the rape part is often misunderstood and misused.
I guess you just like dominance and rough sex. Don't be afraid to ask for it!
I've had similar fantasies, as in I want my man to throw me on the bed and just take me but not like a total stranger attack me in the street sort of thing - that shits traumatising.
It's common for a lot of people who are dominate, especially in their day to day and work life, to want to be submissive and dominated in bed. It actually gives them more control by being the sub than by being the Dom
It's one of the most common female fantasies.
It's 1000% not my thing and get creeped out by how many guys say all women secretly want it. But to each their own.
There are some people on here who do a lot of BDSM and can give good tips for getting started.