I have perky B-Cup boobs that make me self-conscious to take my shirt off during sex. How do I get over this?
For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I still have this issue.
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8 51perky B-Cup? and still not pleased?
Perky b cups sound amazing
You shouldn't be, perky B's are beautiful, super aesthetic. I do like bigger sizes, but I find b's to be the most visually pleasing, particularly if perky.
Okay. Perky anything boobs are amazing.
Honestly even saggy boobs are amazing. Big, small, perky, saggy, silly, sassy, all boobs are amazing.
I love boobs. Many guys would agree with me.
Though there might be boobs I prefer. (perky) any boobs are amazing? Why?
It's still a boob.
Love yourself girl, or nobody will.
Baby no worries
Your boobs sound amazing
First of all, you should not be having sex until after you are married. Second, you have perfect breasts.
Anything over a mouth full is a waste
Perky is good 😌
Know what his preferences are. If it isn't big boobs, you're ok
Why? Because you think they're too small? He'll love them! Society makes you women feel like "bigger is better" and that's not true at all. A lot of us feel the same way a lot of you women feel about penises, it's not the size, but who it's attached to! And sometimes, some guys even prefer smaller! Perky is great!
If they are perky then they are really nice so don’t worry, probably shouldn’t be hiding them
Start by taking your shirt off in a very dimly lit room so he can barely see your boobs. Do this for as long as many times as it takes for you to get comfortable, then slightly increase the amount of light that's on for sex and so on. I'm sure your boobs are beautiful, so you don't have anything to worry about.
How tall are you and what do you weigh?
5’5, 125
Then perky b-cups will be awesome! I dated a girl with a similar build. You'll definitely get a good reaction taking that shirt off during sex! In fact, I'm pretty sure I never let her keep hers on! :P
it’s not necessarily about his reaction though. it’s more about my comfortability. weve had sex where i’ve taken off my shirt but i always felt awkward and tried to cover up with my arms as much as i could.
What are you uncomfortable about if not his reaction? Do you get uncomfortable being topless by yourself?
i do. i don’t even look in mirrors naked. never taken a nude. i just feel inadequate and less of a woman. i also feel like since they’re so small, they really don’t have any use for sex so why have they out when i can keep them in a shirt or bra.
Odd. Do they have a weird shape or something?
no they’re perfectly round. i just hate that they’re not big enough and am therefore very self conscious. i’ve been thinking about getting implants for some time.
Ah okay--how big would you want them to be if you could just wave a magic wand and voila!
probably a c and i’d want them to be closer together. because my boobs are perky, they stay in one spot meaning they don’t “group” together since they don’t drop down/sag. so i have no cleavage. certain shirts and bathing suits are not options for me. i don’t even try to buy lingerie as none of the girls in photos have my body type. just confirms my assets are undesirable.
Not a helluva lot of difference between Bs and Cs. Certainly not enough to go from "this is my preferred size" to "I can't bear to look at them. If you were to have said something like GGs, then I'd kinda get it, but this sounds kinda crazy to be frank.
well i’m sure it does to someone who isn’t a woman and isn’t in my body. and i’m not saying that in a disrespectful way either. might seem crazy to you but it literally makes me hate my body.
I can see how someone can dislike her boobs a lot--I totally get that. What I'm saying is VERY odd is going from "I hate my boobs! I hate my body!" to "that is the PERFECT breast size for me!" in one cup size. That's insane. It's like a dude going from "I'm going to kill myself I hate my dick!" to "Oh HELL yeah! I'm the MAN!" with one additional inch of weenis. Nuts.
well it’s a big difference if they were to come out the way i wanted them too. boobs are strange because they’re not all about size, it’s the look as well. i may be a b cup but because of the perkiness and the lack of togetherness, they could look even smaller. especially if i’m laying down on my back.
Your boobs are awesome, just stop worrying about it.